G-Spot Orgasm

Mariye Mariye
I've never had one, with a partner or without. I've only had a clitoral orgasm.

I always feel like I'm just about to finish off, but I can't seem to get over that last little hump! It's really frustrating.

Any advice?
05/12/2009
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Victoria Victoria
Quote:
Originally posted by Mariye
I've never had one, with a partner or without. I've only had a clitoral orgasm.

I always feel like I'm just about to finish off, but I can't seem to get over that last little hump! It's really frustrating.

Any advice?
This is a common frustration, so definitely don't feel alone on this one! You can even do a search of just "g spot" in the forums search field and see how many other women have discussed this in many threads.

My advice is to not empty your bladder before getting started. Then start out stimulating your clit with a vibrator, and once you're aroused move onto incorporating a g-spot specific toy like the much loved 'Ella' by Lelo. The Ella works for me and many others have had wonderful experiences with it. If you like texture, there's also the 'Sugardrop' by Soju. If you want to try a vibrating g-spot toy, the 'Gigi' by Lelo is a good choice.

I would suggest that you lay on your back and work both areas at the same time, experimenting with pressure and movement. It might help to rock your pelvis as that would likely make the toy rub back and forth over you g-spot. The same goes for exploring with a partner, have them use 2 fingers in the "come hither" motion to stroke back and forth over your g-spot once you're already warmed up. It's more about the rubbing and stroking, not so much a prodding, if that's helpful.

If you feel like you have to pee, keep going - don't stop to use the bathroom. That feeling is normal and the pressure you'd feel actually winds up adding to the intensity of the orgasm.

I hope this advice is helpful to you!
05/12/2009
Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
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Originally posted by Victoria
This is a common frustration, so definitely don't feel alone on this one! You can even do a search of just "g spot" in the forums search field and see how many other women have discussed this in many threads.

My advice is to not ... More
Many people DO suggest emptying your bladder to assuage those worries about urinating that G-spot orgasm (and the sometimes inclusive squirting) can raise. But you can always use a towel.


I have yet to have a G-spot orgasm (Actually, the whole thing is debatable LOL). Do you find it easier to orgasm without emptying your bladder, In the Pink?
05/12/2009
Naughty Student Naughty Student
Actually, I need prodding more than stroking. Prodding with a good firm g-spot toy really helps me but it does stroke the g-pot in a sense but I really need my toy to push into my g-spot. I think there is a sort of consensus about the come hither movement but it is adaptable to the person according to their body and desires.
05/12/2009
Naughty Student Naughty Student
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Originally posted by Naughty Student
Actually, I need prodding more than stroking. Prodding with a good firm g-spot toy really helps me but it does stroke the g-pot in a sense but I really need my toy to push into my g-spot. I think there is a sort of consensus about the come hither ... More
Oh and usually my g-spot orgasms come with clitoral stimulation. I have never had an orgasm solely from my g-spot.
05/12/2009
Mariye Mariye
Personally, I don't mind having only clitoral orgasms when it comes to self-play, but I think it really hurts my partner's feelings when I don't come from sex. I think it would bring us a lot closer if we could figure that out.

I was thinking about purchasing some lubricant that is supposed to increase sensitivity.

Though overall I'm wondering if it's a physical thing or a mental thing. :\
05/12/2009
DreamyLove DreamyLove
I like to make sure my bladder is completely empty when I squirt because I can make sure, that way that there's no pee, and it's just squirt. I like to have firm pressure applied and hard and fast thrusting against it will make me squirt like crazy. Boyfriend loves it, and has a habit of putting his fingers to his nose to see if the squirt smells like anything and it doesn't. I've heard people describe it as smelling like Cheerios or popcorn sometimes though. :p
05/12/2009
Naughty Student Naughty Student
Quote:
Originally posted by Mariye
Personally, I don't mind having only clitoral orgasms when it comes to self-play, but I think it really hurts my partner's feelings when I don't come from sex. I think it would bring us a lot closer if we could figure that out.

I ... More
Personally I think it is a mental thing. I couldn't orgasm from sex alone and I was very disapointed bcs I loved my partner and we are very good at communicating what we want sexaully. My partner would put a lot of pressure on himself to make me cum and I felt even more pressured to cum to make him happy. One day I was focused only on enjoying myself (I was on top of him pivoting my hips) and spontaneously had an orgasm, it was small but I had it and it encouraged me to have more. Sometimes trying too hard makes it even harder to acheive the goal of orgasm. Just have fun and focus on your body, don't be afraid to be selfish
05/12/2009
Tuesday Tuesday
Quote:
Originally posted by Victoria
This is a common frustration, so definitely don't feel alone on this one! You can even do a search of just "g spot" in the forums search field and see how many other women have discussed this in many threads.

My advice is to not ... More
Thank you for advising her to have a non-empty bladder. I was beginning to feel strange that I keep recommending that and almost no one seconds the suggestion. It greatly increases sensation.

An empty bladder frees you somewhat from worry about peeing but will probably make it impossible for someone who isn't a natural squirter or an experienced squirter to orgasm. At least I would still be waiting for my first success if I always emptied my bladder first.

The other essential is telling yourself that you don't care even if you do pee. Accomplish that either with multiple folded towels or by trying it in the bathroom.
05/12/2009
Nickisonehere Nickisonehere
Quote:
Originally posted by Naughty Student
Actually, I need prodding more than stroking. Prodding with a good firm g-spot toy really helps me but it does stroke the g-pot in a sense but I really need my toy to push into my g-spot. I think there is a sort of consensus about the come hither ... More
Can you explain what you mean by prodding? Could i do this to a girl with my finger?
05/13/2009
Naughty Student Naughty Student
Well basiclly Instead of stroking it is a thrusting motion I need but it always has to be on the spot to work.

When I use a dildo I keep the dildo inside and just thrust hard but with small in and out movements(that is I push the didlo onto the g-spot and then let go I don't really pull the dildo in and out).

During sex I need pretty much the same stimulation but I can tolerate more in out movement. When I am on top in cowgirl I pivot my hips front to back really quickly, it makes the erect penis sort of "hit" the spot as it moves to and fro inside the vagina. So instead of stroking it is more of a hit and prod type of stimulation that does it for me. Hope that is clearer.
05/13/2009
Naughty Student Naughty Student
Quote:
Originally posted by Naughty Student
Well basiclly Instead of stroking it is a thrusting motion I need but it always has to be on the spot to work.

When I use a dildo I keep the dildo inside and just thrust hard but with small in and out movements(that is I push the didlo onto ... More
You could definitely do it using your fingers, I think your Vibrating hand technique thingy from your other poll is doing just that.
05/13/2009
dbm6907 dbm6907
I was having the same problem until a couple days ago. For once I just laid back and relaxed, and did some warming up beforehand. It worked wonders. I had my first gspot orgasm in under 2 minutes.
02/06/2012
lilqueny lilqueny
I had only had a g-spot orgasm 1-2 times in my life until I got a Close 2 you Opus. link I love mine, the end is curved so no matter if you need to rub it or poke it, you can always get what you want and if you end up frustrated it can be used as a clitoral stimulator. My spot is tucked up very high behind my pubic bone and this toy finds it!
02/06/2012
QSBybakd QSBybakd
So much useful information in this thread! I love g-spot stimulation but have never had a g-spot orgasm either, so I'm definitely going to try some of this.
02/06/2012
kitty1949 kitty1949
very helpful. thanks guys!
06/02/2012
Kat. Kat.
Me and my partner have been experimenting with this and the closest I have come was when I was in missionary with the added twist of hanging off the side of the bed.
06/05/2012
FriskyInFlorida FriskyInFlorida
Quote:
Originally posted by Mariye
Personally, I don't mind having only clitoral orgasms when it comes to self-play, but I think it really hurts my partner's feelings when I don't come from sex. I think it would bring us a lot closer if we could figure that out.

I ... More
Same here
06/07/2012
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