This looks a lot like another post word for word? Maybe just a coincidence. Anyhow, I do all of the above, but not on purpose. It just sort of "happens" for me. I naturally make moans or somewhat of sighs when I'm wanting my fiance to get in there and give it to me how I want, and when he touches a spot that I like, those moans get more intense. He does a really great job at feeling my whole body up before hand in order to know where I want to get touched or how I want to be made love to. I have good communication when it comes to what I want, and same goes for my fiance. During sex we will say "Sweetie you're hurting me a little" or "Can you rub a little lower". Things like that are heard a lot in bed, because we want to make sure we know how the other is feeling. It's a bit funny, but I swear some days, spots that felt good the previous day don't feel good the next day. So it's all about communication.