How can I make my bf cum

sweetnesswithsomeheat sweetnesswithsomeheat
I never had a problem before I enjoy oral
I can make his toes curl & have him moaning I tried everything What trick can you tell me?
03/10/2010
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Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
There is no secret recipe for to make everyone climax. The first thing I would do is ask him about what he likes and to get some tricks from him. He's the best reference for this.

Sorry for not being of any more help.
03/10/2010
Victoria Victoria
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Originally posted by sweetnesswithsomeheat
I never had a problem before I enjoy oral
I can make his toes curl & have him moaning I tried everything What trick can you tell me?
You haven't given us much detail here, but have you tried using your hands too? Some lube? Toys? Asking him to participate?

I think you mean that you want him to cum from oral sex, and that you are having a hard time making that happen.

If you tell us what you mean, we might be able to give more specific advice.
03/10/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
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Originally posted by Victoria
You haven't given us much detail here, but have you tried using your hands too? Some lube? Toys? Asking him to participate?

I think you mean that you want him to cum from oral sex, and that you are having a hard time making that ... More
I agree. I need some more info. What do you already do?
03/10/2010
Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
Ask him.

Simple, effective communication is always the best answer.
03/10/2010
seaofneptune seaofneptune
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Originally posted by Carrie Ann
Ask him.

Simple, effective communication is always the best answer.
I agree with Carrie Ann - ask him about it maybe he can tell you more about what he likes and give you more ideas on how to stimulate him properly.
03/10/2010
Heartthrob Heartthrob
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Originally posted by sweetnesswithsomeheat
I never had a problem before I enjoy oral
I can make his toes curl & have him moaning I tried everything What trick can you tell me?
It's important not to place emphasis on his orgasm if he's not having one all the time. Put more time into his pleasure. If his toes are curling and he's moaning than you're doing it right. Everyone is different and maybe he just doesn't cum with oral.
03/10/2010
Pleasureman Pleasureman
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Originally posted by sweetnesswithsomeheat
I never had a problem before I enjoy oral
I can make his toes curl & have him moaning I tried everything What trick can you tell me?
Well, being a man I can tell you that if he's not comfortable or if he's feeling pressured, that will effect him. Talk to him and find out how he's feeling.
03/10/2010
Boobs and Lubes Boobs and Lubes
Use both hands, look like your enjoying it, tell him what he wants to hear, use plenty of edible lube, a twist of the wrist as you reach the head and don't forget the balls. That should do the job. Just what I like done to me, but you looking like your enjoying it is probably the most important part.
03/10/2010
Miss Cinnamon Miss Cinnamon
Like many others have said, communication is key! Every guy is different. Some like their balls played with--my boyfriend would rather I ignore his balls altogether during oral. If you ask him, I'm sure he'll tell you how to push him over the edge
03/10/2010
El-Jaro El-Jaro
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Originally posted by Carrie Ann
Ask him.

Simple, effective communication is always the best answer.
yup...pretty much.

just ask him or as to watch him, take mental notes and don't deviate too much from what he does.

Mitigating factors aside, men are pretty easy...speaking as one.
03/10/2010
El-Jaro El-Jaro
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Originally posted by Miss Cinnamon
Like many others have said, communication is key! Every guy is different. Some like their balls played with--my boyfriend would rather I ignore his balls altogether during oral. If you ask him, I'm sure he'll tell you how to push him over the edge
asking me might not help you though...
03/10/2010
Victoria Victoria
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
asking me might not help you though...
Mr. Sauce's balls are not in play during the oral...good to know!
03/10/2010
Miss Cinnamon Miss Cinnamon
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
asking me might not help you though...
Oh, sure, point out my pronoun ambiguity. Very generous of you, sweetie. Replace with "If you ask your boyfriend--NOT mine, he'll just make Psyduck faces and be completely unhelpful--I'm sure he'll tell you..."
03/10/2010
Jimbo Jones Jimbo Jones
BUMP!
So discussion originator will see responses.
03/11/2010
sweetnesswithsomeheat sweetnesswithsomeheat
Quote:
Originally posted by sweetnesswithsomeheat
I never had a problem before I enjoy oral
I can make his toes curl & have him moaning I tried everything What trick can you tell me?
I do it with both hands or one while playing with the twins He knows I enjoy it I tell him what he wants to hear, a twist of the wrist as you reach the head & the balls. Taken it all in
It's a game he plays not give me total control.
03/12/2010
Sensual husband Sensual husband
Communication is the key and he might be trying so hard to cum for you he is putting to much pressure on himself. His mind could be hindering his body functions.
06/22/2010
Pleasure Piratess Pleasure Piratess
Quote:
Originally posted by sweetnesswithsomeheat
I never had a problem before I enjoy oral
I can make his toes curl & have him moaning I tried everything What trick can you tell me?
Well, first of all, some guys (or girls) are just not able to cum during oral alone. That doesn't mean its not great foreplay or that your technique is lacking!
I would try just telling him to let you know when he is getting really worked up and then stop and procede with intercourse or something else that will put him over the edge. After doing this for awhile (and taking the pressure off) continue to do oral for a bit longer and longer, and hopefully he will relax and be able to orgasm.
07/19/2010
Alura Une Alura Une
Like women, men enjoy different things. My significant other doesn't care for a few things that a lot of other men might enjoy. It took/takes a lot of experimenting with different things. Communication is important. You can ask your partner to let you know when he likes something! But in my case, just asking him randomly isn't always fruitful--often we have to be doing it. And then, I've noticed he likes not talking during play. So for us, we often depend on our sensitivity to each others' reactions. With oral experimentation in particular, move your lips into different positions and keep them there a few seconds and wait for physical reactions or sounds that say something is good. Often, when something is good and I have a good speed, he'll take my head in his hands and go with a rhythm he likes to let me know to keep it up.

I hope it has been going well for you!
07/29/2010
Sera Sera
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Originally posted by sweetnesswithsomeheat
I never had a problem before I enjoy oral
I can make his toes curl & have him moaning I tried everything What trick can you tell me?
Suck his dick, get into a sexy outfit he has a fetish for and strip tease for him...Fuck his brains out til you're both exhausted, take a bath with him, wash him in the shower..play sexy truth or dare, strip scrabble...there's tons of things you can do. And as a devoted lover, I doubt you're going to give up! Good luck.
08/08/2010
sbon sbon
I think the best way to find out would be to talk to him about it and see what he likes!
11/05/2010
RosesThorns RosesThorns
Communication! Ask him... talk to him about it...
Sometimes it takes a while to figure out the combination to your partners "safe" hehe. I know it took me almost 2 years to figure out one partner (and that was WITH talking to him about it). Every on is different be patient... and if all else fails...stick your finger in his butt (joking here... unless he's into it... then hey!)
11/08/2010
Brand Brand
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Originally posted by sweetnesswithsomeheat
I never had a problem before I enjoy oral
I can make his toes curl & have him moaning I tried everything What trick can you tell me?
Well for most guys focus on the head. Suck on his tip and use your tongue a lot to "circle" the head. While you do this take your hand and stroke his shaft.


Even after a year of doing beyond normal amounts of sex this still makes me shoot like I am a virgin again.
11/17/2010
nyc cpl nyc cpl
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Originally posted by Victoria
You haven't given us much detail here, but have you tried using your hands too? Some lube? Toys? Asking him to participate?

I think you mean that you want him to cum from oral sex, and that you are having a hard time making that ... More
Yes... I would throw in the following things... Blindfold, lube, massage inner thighs and areas around balls n cock.
12/17/2010
nyc cpl nyc cpl
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Originally posted by Brand
Well for most guys focus on the head. Suck on his tip and use your tongue a lot to "circle" the head. While you do this take your hand and stroke his shaft.


Even after a year of doing beyond normal amounts of sex this still makes ... More
bang on!!
12/17/2010
Love&War Love&War
ask him what's worked before
03/24/2011
DmitriDale DmitriDale
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Originally posted by sweetnesswithsomeheat
I never had a problem before I enjoy oral
I can make his toes curl & have him moaning I tried everything What trick can you tell me?
I don't know how long you've been with this guy, but is it possible that maybe he is on a medication that makes it difficult for him? I take Celexa and I'll tell you straight up, that stuff makes it more difficult for me to get off, even by my own hand, sometimes I can't get off at all.

Just thought I'd throw that out there. Ya never know.
05/15/2011
herpob herpob
All I can tell you is that after my husband has cum several times the trick I use for another hooray is anal play, anal massage, finger teasing, fingering, finger f***ing, toy introduction, toy penetration, toy f***ing, then either more fingers or larger toys. I have been able to graduate each time and get him hard all over gain for yet another orgasm after about 15-20 minutes of anal f***ing him.
06/04/2011
stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
It most likely isn't you, he might have been "trained" not to cum from oral. Almost every girl prior to my current girlfriend would say do not cum in my mouth, so I feel like I have been "trained" not to. She is great at oral but I have only cum twice from bj's
06/05/2011
ss143 ss143
Another vote for communication -ask him what he like ask him if there is something he wants you to do that you aren't to make it feel better for him and ask/tell him to talk to you while your doing it for him to say don't stop that baby or harder faster tighter more spit more lube and ask him if it even matters to him as some have said sometimes guys will enjoy themselves when your blowing them but they just cant finish in that manner. But talk talk talk
06/05/2011
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