How To Please a Pussy PT1

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Once you get past the wineing and dining, you're so Hot
for each other, you go to a designated/mutually agreed
on place. You start kissing and foreplay of the beautiful
curves of her body, inch by inch.

Although I do applaud many men for their great effort to acquire adequate knowledge on how to "eat pussy" the right way, being an educated woman who is well aware of all her body parts and all of their functions (wink), and working as a therapist for over 18 yrs now, I would like to make an attempt, to give you a perspective on this, from the women's side.
(at least the ones who know what they want and like)

To begin, I would like to help you by making sure, that your tongue does NOT get too tired
and numb, lol. You will begin with a lubricated finger. If you were patient and sensuous
enough to play with other parts of her body, the lubrication in her pretty slit should be
adequate by now. If not, KY jelly should always be with you, if you're planing to get some
that night (they have little miniature samples in drug stores).

If you are one of the greater lovers, the skilled and caring lovers, you may continue to tease
her other parts, to get her to lubricate more. I would suggest, do not head straight for the
nipples, but to glide all over her body, behind her knees, the inside of her arm (approx.
where her elbow is) her breasts, get close to the nipple, but do not touch it.

Lick the small of her back, her spine, blow on her neck, tease around all the delicate erotic
spots and as close as possible, but do not actually touch them. The point of this, is to make
her yearn and long for it to be touched, ...she will ask, do NOT do it, even if she begs.

Then just glide next to it, and around, and quickly flick it, then go back to teasing her senses
(repeat many times, lol). Check if she is getting wetter... with the tip of your
finger, which will feel like the tip of your tongue to her at that moment.

Start from the bottom of the labia majora and push your finger through to her wetness.
Just salivate your finger and check if it will get nice and
slippery when you touch the entrance of her sweet tunnel.
If she produces some lubrication, swirl your finger in it, but keep it just barely at the
entrance, do not put it inside. Going from her vaginal opening, slide your finger as slow as
possible with just a tiny bit of pressure, and as softly as possible... upwards, touching the
middle in between her lips.

Watch her reaction.

Very important.

Some women have a spot there, between the vaginal opening and the clitoris, that also feels
ohhh sooo very nice.

If you do it slow enough you may catch it. If not, you can always try again. I have never met
a woman who wouldn't like a slow loving gentle glide all over her pretty aroused pussy. If
you do catch it, I would suggest going back for more lubrication and sliding over it again,
going back for more lubrication, and sliding more times over it.

...This time, with a little more, but still, very, very, gentle pressure back and forth. Then go
back to her entrance, swirl your finger at the edge and slide over the spot a cpl of times, but
then, keep on going upwards until your finger comes to a little crease. Start sucking, very
gently exactly at that crease.

Suck in and out, like a lollipop. Gently, please, she is still not aroused enough to be rough
with it.

P.S. Majority of women are more sensitive on the right side of their rosebud... Explore
and see which side of your woman's button is more sensitive and makes her wriggle and moan a little more. Just thought you'd like to know

While you are suckling on her wild little tip, gently stick your finger bent "up",
towards her belly button, inside her sweet opening about an inch, massage it, stop sucking
her little rose bud, now pay attention, this will be very important.

Be gentle with that finger, and your finger and nails, better be clean and manicured.
Professional manicure, it only costs 20 bucks and it will assure you will not snag her with
a hang nail, or give her an infection. Plus you will get a pretty Asian girl to play with your
hands

To be totally truthful, I ALWAYS look at a man's hands.
An experienced, skilled, considerate lover, will have a professional manicure.

Flick her little tip with your tongue, love it, gently suck it, just to keep her hot,
while you are taking a good,
slow, cautious time to find her G-Spot.

Very Crucial. As your finger is 1 inch inside her sweet, juicy walls... swirl it around the upper wall,
and watch attentively for her reaction. The slightest reaction, a deeper breath, a sigh, a gasp,
a grimass on her face, it could be an indication that you are very close or even that you "got
it"

Do not apply a lot of pressure, and she has to be very wet to do this. Your finger has to be
slippery. You move in a little deeper, just about another inch. And repeat the same motion
for about 3 minutes. If there is no reaction, you move an inch deeper. The G-Spot, is no
further than 2 inches, if you didn't get it, try again, from 1 inch to 2 inches. Don't rush it, it
takes a while for the tissue to swell up in arousal. She also has to be very very relaxed.

The G-Spot tissue feels spongy and sometimes has small ridges.


P.S. If you have a ticklish girlfriend you have to put a little pressure first and it is always
best to start from slowly sucking her clit rather than licking, once she stops giggling and
fidgeting, then you can start licking. Just a little Tip

Make sure you flick her little button and suck it once so often, to ensure she stays aroused
and keeps her self lubricated.

If you need to start all over, it would be a good idea, if you go
give her a soft sensual kiss, a long sensual kiss, with just a little bit of tongue. Gently
squeeze her nipples, twist them a little, pinch them slightly, but be very delicate, and run
your fingers around her hard sweet button, you should be sort of familiar with it at this time.

Suck and nibble on her nipples, kiss and lick her tummy, move lower and lower as you kiss
and lick her.

Suck her button again, if you need help finding the little tip again,
slide your tongue inside, as low as her vaginal opening and slowly
glide it in between her pink swollen lips upwards, until you get to
a little tip.

Ooohhh lala, and there it is

Torture that sweet aroused clit with suckling pleasure, blow on it,
lick it, flick it, suck it again, and then gently try
to find the G-Spot again.

Remember, inch it, and do it very slowly.

That's only lesson (part 1) number one... have fun with this first and I will finish soon.

I know I know, I am devilishly naughty LOL
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Contributor: DrGraceG DrGraceG
HOW TO PLEASE A PUSSY PT 2

While teasing her little button. Stop licking and teasing,
and pay attention to her reactions again, as you move
your finger an inch in, on the upper wall of her sweet
tunnel. If you get no response, move slowly making
slow circles against the upper wall. You must get a
reaction at some point. It may be very subtle. Do not
go further in than 3 inches.

If you are patient enough, try and try again, if not, just
move your finger in and out, mimicking the movement
of your penis inside her and putting a slight pressure
against the upper wall only, do it for a good few minutes.
Few, means more than 2...lol.

Tease her clit now, so she doesn't loose the state of arousal. If you find the g-spot, you must
stay at it. It's the most intense orgasm second to that of the clitoral orgasm. For some
women, even better than clitoral, most women never had a g-spot
orgasm and do not know how it feels.

It may especially make them feel uneasy, because they will have a feeling like they want to
urinate. It is NOT urine, if anything squirts out, it will be cum. If you do not find it, just
make her cum as many times as possible through clitoral
stimulation. If you don't, if you stop too soon, she will
feel unfulfilled and will not think very highly of you.

...Most women just don't say anything.

If you are tired of searching, most men are not very patient,
you must admit... lubricate your finger with her sweet
nectar and use your finger to make little circles around
her clitty. Then, slide your slippery finger on top of it,
up and down, then from side to side, suck it a little to draw the blood circulation to it and
continue to tease it with your lubricated finger.

Once she starts moaning a little louder, you can suck it again, and suck it in an "in and out"
motion a little harder this time. Still be careful, not too hard. You can stick your finger in,
and stimulate the opening of her tunnel again. Just in and out, and around the walls. If you
want to use more fingers, it's ok, but do not shove in too many Lick and suck the clit until
she spasms, and her pussy is pulsating, her nipples are very sensitive at that point as well,
and you can't imagine how much fun they can be, and how much they intensify her orgasm at
any time while she's getting close, or all the more, while
she is orgasming...

Her lips and clit get a very intense in color, ripe, swollen and
very sensitive to the touch. Continue playing with her clit, but very, very gently, don't just
stop and try to stuff her. Just let her finish her orgasm. There is still a lot of very nice after
thought and arousal left there.

Once you finish, and her pussy is happy and smiling at you, you
can have you way with her
HINT:
MOST women I interviewed (and it was months of interviews and research, so I assure you
it was a LOT) ...like to have their pussy pleased after intercourse as well, because then it's
a little easier to make her cum.

Women love clitoral orgasms, even more than men love blow jobs, so if you don't mind,
give her as many as possible. The more she has, the more intense each next one becomes.
Really, each orgasm after the first one, is more and more intense. So the more clitoral
orgasms you give her, the stronger they will be. The same goes for the G-Spot orgasms.

If you find her G-Spot, ohhh Gosh... you will be the high Master...lol.

These are just the basics. You can always play around and get more creative.
If you need more help, or have questions, you can always email me.
Don't be intimidated, making love is about pleasure. Do not concentrate on giving her an
orgasm... yes, it is the whole point of making love, to achieve a climax, but that will only
stress you out and make you feel like a failure if it doesn't happen.

Concentrate on "giving her pleasure". Study her, her reactions, get to know her body, her
sounds, her ooohs and ahhhs. Being in a loving relationship opens a whole new level and
adventure of love making. Building trust and openness with each other. The better you get at
knowing her the better chances are she will be much more open to try new things with you
and to communicate her needs to you.

Remember, men with normal size penis as well as with erectile disfunction, can and will
please their women every night just this way. You don't need a huge cock or a thick cock to
give your woman multiple explosive orgasms. Women want attention, your touch, to be
desired by you, that's how you show your woman that you love her. Display your affection,
touch her, hold her. Be patient, caring and and you will be the best lover she ever had, no
monster cock required


P.S. Never forget to play and suck on her nipples, they send pleasant feelings to her clitty.


Just for fun: I found this very sarcastic little bid... not very articulate
or accurate and I feel he is full of it, but he will put a smirk or grin
on your face... lol.

link


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06/08/2010
Contributor: eyeneerg1984 eyeneerg1984
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Originally posted by DrGraceG
HOW TO PLEASE A PUSSY PT 2

While teasing her little button. Stop licking and teasing,
and pay attention to her reactions again, as you move
your finger an inch in, on the upper wall of her sweet
tunnel. If you get no response, move ... more
Thank you so much. I've been wanting these details forever but I also didn't want to buy a book. This sounds delightful and I can't wait to try it on my wife. Since you seem to be an expert, I have a question. After bringing my wife to orgasm via her clitoris she is usually too tired to go again or too sensitive to be touched. Based on this limited amount of information, do you think I could do something to change that for her or do some women just prefer one orgasm per session? FYI: At times, she has had multiple orgasms but I can't really figure out what triggered those as opposed to her normal one-orgasm-per-night experience.
07/02/2010