What is the one position you had the hardest time getting used to?

Contributor: RebelRebelJen RebelRebelJen
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Originally posted by Bethy Cassatt
Just wondering: anything that really confused/got you all turned around?
Shower, because ours is super small lol.
10/02/2012
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by Missmarc
Reverse Cowgirl anal
It's not only so much fun but what a gorgeous view!
10/02/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by Bethy Cassatt
Just wondering: anything that really confused/got you all turned around?
I find that sex standing up is hard, plus cowgirl sex is also frustrating to me
10/03/2012
Contributor: Lavender*Moon Lavender*Moon
Standing has been the hardest for me. Most guys I date are at least 6" taller than me and being I'm on the heavy side, them holding me up gets tiring for them.
10/04/2012
Contributor: Thumper Logic Thumper Logic
69 with a taller person
10/09/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by Bethy Cassatt
Just wondering: anything that really confused/got you all turned around?
69 is awkward,and I don't enjoy it still
10/11/2012
Contributor: Rory Rory
Standing is just not a good fit.
10/11/2012
Contributor: kmarsico kmarsico
anything where im on top! lol
10/16/2012
Contributor: Checkmate Checkmate
Standing just doesn't work with an 11 inch height difference.
10/21/2012
Contributor: Strider Strider
69. It's difficult to focus on what I should be doing.
11/07/2012
Contributor: Jesse-in-TX Jesse-in-TX
Quote:
Originally posted by Bethy Cassatt
Just wondering: anything that really confused/got you all turned around?
I do not think I have seen this position illustrated or explained, it was my own brain child. But the best name for it I can give is a type of reverse missionary.
I have a decent size pecker, just shy of 8 inches which I think is a strong factor in my ability to undergo this. Thing is, I lay on my back with my legs bent at the knee and elevated. My girlfriend gets above me with her knees about at my hips and mounts like in a cowgirl position, but as she gets my cock inside, she can level out her legs. Thus going into "reverse missionary" which looks just like regular missionary, but with her doing the thrusting.
It is a difficult position to perfect, a bit uncomfortable if the angle is not quite right, but well worth the effort.
11/07/2012
Contributor: Jesse-in-TX Jesse-in-TX
I would also like to add a final thought on this. I have had many...near about 115 to 120 sexual partners, and I have to say that as long as both parties involved have fully functioning bodies, and obesity or being largely overweight is not an issue...there really is not a sexual position that is impossible.
One aspect of sexual position difficulty does come with woman on top, or when the woman can influence the angle of penetration. Most of my experience has shown me that women will get on top and try to freeze their hips so to keep smooth one-directional thrusting, or they will only bend at the knee or hip, but not both at the same time.
Also...standing sex is a breeze! All it takes if for the woman to either roll the hips forward if facing, or roll them backwards if going front to back. Front to back is a lot easier, but facing each other while standing is fun because you get to see her face and it offers a great angle!
11/07/2012
Contributor: jc123 jc123
My husband and I are within about half an inch of the same height, so most positions are pretty easy. I can't get into a good rhythm and feel awkward when I'm on top. And 69 is way too many things going on, all at once.
12/18/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Bethy Cassatt
Just wondering: anything that really confused/got you all turned around?
I cannot say any position "confused me", but reverse cowgirl, or any "on top" position, tends to fail in getting me off. I like being on the bottom.
12/18/2012
Contributor: Creepellah Creepellah
Quote:
Originally posted by Bethy Cassatt
Just wondering: anything that really confused/got you all turned around?
Reverse Cowgirl
12/18/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Shower sex (is also standing sex) is a young persons game! It's too slippery and dangerous for me too even think about anymore.
12/19/2012
Contributor: Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
We've never quite figured out 69, standing up or shower sex. Damn!
12/19/2012
Contributor: chicmichiw chicmichiw
69. I know that's the point, but...putting your butt in someone's face, before the magic happens, feels awkward.
12/19/2012
Contributor: NymphetamineKiss NymphetamineKiss
I've said "other" as my answer is "anything with me on top". Being a plus size girl with a big man, we just don't work that way!
12/19/2012
Contributor: mjtheprincess mjtheprincess
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Originally posted by jr2012
69 is still so hard for me...to this day!! I just can't concentrate on the job at hand while receiving at the same time!
Agreed!!! I love 69...but I just feel like it diminishes my oral skills because I can't focus on both things!
12/20/2012
Contributor: Janus Janus
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Originally posted by jr2012
69 is still so hard for me...to this day!! I just can't concentrate on the job at hand while receiving at the same time!
Why not try this...close your eyes and concentrate on one thing only. That of bringing your partner to orgasm. It has been my experience that people who are concentrating on a task tend to do better at that singular task. An easy example of this is in the BDSM lifestyle you might see pictures of a woman blindfolded and tied. What does that do specifically? It first and foremost heightens her senses, because she cannot see she is essentially trapped in her mind, imagination is her sole outlet. She therefore focuses completely on the task at hand that of bring her partner to orgasm so she will receive one in exchange. Why not try a blindfold and focus only on your lover, take them into consideration first, and the experience will be heightened more for you!
12/20/2012
Contributor: LunaDragon LunaDragon
idk
12/20/2012
Contributor: wanderer5964 wanderer5964
trying to stand in the shower or anything in the shower. i am alot shorter than my boyfriend so it took some time getting use too
12/28/2012
Contributor: True Pleasures True Pleasures
Anything standing requires me to get a step stool or something. I'm 5'1" and he's 6'5". Awkward...
12/28/2012
Contributor: libbyv libbyv
Quote:
Originally posted by Bethy Cassatt
Just wondering: anything that really confused/got you all turned around?
reverse cow girl never works for hubby and i
01/28/2013
Contributor: dks210 dks210
nothing's been that difficult for me so far
02/02/2013
Contributor: joiedejouets joiedejouets
Mm I like standing up but I'm always nervous during. 69 is hard sometimes if there is a lot of a height difference.
02/02/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
Reverse cowgirl. Maybe it's better for him, but looking at his legs the whole time during sex is weird for me.
02/03/2013
Contributor: ChubbyNerd ChubbyNerd
Being on top!
02/03/2013
Contributor: J5ive J5ive
shower
02/03/2013