Prostate Massagers and The Super Orgasm

Ward Ward
I guess the first big question I get asked all the time about these things are… Do these things really work? Absolutely yes, and in many ways too.

The first way of using the massager and the easiest is what is known as the Super “T” or super traditional orgasm. This one is just as it sounds, insert the massager and have a traditional orgasm with ejaculation either during intercourse or masturbation. For me the prostate massager made a traditional orgasm bigger and more intense. I felt the results from this the first time I used it. This is usually achieved with most of the Aneros and Nexus massagers. For extra kick the vibrating versions can really push over the top... sometime a little too fast.

The second way and probably the one that is most hyped is the super “O” or super orgasm. This is a non ejaculatory prostate orgasm. As the story goes a man can have multiple orgasms lasting several minutes in duration and he can even have hands free ejaculation on demand. Is this true…. Or is it folk lore? It is absolutely 100% true. In fact it's not uncommon for me to have 6 or 7 super “O”’s each lasting anywhere from about 2 minutes to the last one going no less than 10 minutes ending with a super t all hands free. It was so intense that I actually had shed tears. When all was said and done I was completely spent. Some nights I will retire to the bedroom an hour before my wife to warm up with the massager and have a super “o” or 2. Then when she comes up to bed we can have make love for a long time…. And I‘m not talking 10 minutes try over an hour. If I leave the massager in during intercourse I can still have several super “o”'s when I want and while we are in the throws and I can decide when I want to finish up if you know what I mean. I've also found that by mastering the prostate massager I've found that even when I'm not using them I have during intercourse I still have that control and when I do ejaculate, it is much more intense and larger in volume than before. I honestly believe that this happens for a couple of reasons. First you become more aware of what your body is doing and you are now sensitive to the sensations is happening, and second because of practice or the physical training of those PC muscles, your just in better shape and that strength gives you control.

So by now you are probably thinking one of two things either where is my credit card…. Or this guy is full of it. I promise you I’m not full of it and I’m not representing anyone. Also if you think that this thing will make you a sexual dynamo the first time you use it think again. So before you break out that card let me give you a little back story.

I’ve been using prostate massager's for about 5 years and though everyone is different I suspect that most guys will be like me. The super t was easy. From the first time I used it this worked. The super “o’ however was a very different story. It took me almost one year to the day to crack the code. I spent a lot of time researching and blogging and practicing. I practiced on average 2 -3 times a week. I tried every possible position and purchased several different massager's. At times it was very frustrating but I did finally get there. See here’s the thing… achieving an orgasm this way is completely different than what most of us guys are used to. It is not a purely physical action…. It’s a mental game. In fact while going for a super “O” you should not touch your penis at all. Have you ever heard your wife or girlfriend describe arousal and orgasm. They usually say they have to be in the mood and to hit an orgasm requires a certain amount of mental focus. It’s pretty much the same thing here in fact when I talk to my wife about the super “o” she says it sounds very similar to her orgasm…. More mental and less physical. Oh and as for the hands free ejaculatory orgasm… it's is just the natural progression. Several months after I achieved my first super o I was able to ejaculate hands free. Think of it this way if you want to get in shape you have to put in the time at the gym. It’s the same thing here. It may happen the first time you use it or it may take longer… even a year but with practice and patience it will happen.

IMPORTANT. You will need to put in the time, so if you are thinking of sneaking around with it and quietly getting in a session think again. Not only will you make a lot of noise… yes moaning and groaning ( I often have to bite a pillow… and I’m the quiet type according to my wife) you will also writhe around a bit. Basically you will need uninterrupted solo time usually about an hours worth. I got my wife on board right away and now we both enjoy the benefits.

Which one to buy? That is a tough question. It’s such a personal thing. My wife is constantly giving me a hard time… you’ve only got one butt how many of these things do you need. Right now I have six. I own the almost the entire Aneros line Eupho, Helix, Mgx, Maximus, and Progasm (no sgx) and a Nexus Nero. It’s hard to rate them as each has its own unique feel but my favorite would probably be the Progasm for the usual solo session. I like the Eupho for sleeping with (imagine waking up in the middle of the night completely turned on in full orgasm that lasts for minutes… the down side is you won’t get a full nights sleep and your bed mate might think you are having a seizure but what a way to go). The helix MGX and Maximus are great for intercourse. The Nero is awesome if you want a really hard massage…. I tend to use it for my quickies when I’ve only got 15 or 20 minutes. The Nero’s orgasms aren’t as big but they come on fast for me. I ain't complaining. Generally I would say avoid using a massager with a vibrator early on because it just over sensitizes the prostate. I think it will actually hold you back from the super O. I do add a little buzz to my massager's every now and then when I have a short window and am really feeling in the mood. It feels great. I usually use my Excel and get my first super "0" then I attach a small bullet vibe and usually with in a few minutes I can have a super o that that leads in to a hands free ejaculation. I have yet to try any of the "sit on top" massagers like the Nexus Gyro, O or any of the Rude boy massagers. Their idea for prostate massage is a bit different but very intriguing to me.

Oh and I almost forgot but I wanted to put this out there. Have any of you heard of women having a "coregasm". Apparently while doing leg lifts on a dip machine several women actually have commented on having an orgasm. This may sound funny but a few months I was doing yoga and while I was doing "touch the sky" my prostate started going crazy. I actually had 3 nice little prostate orgasms aka super "o". My abs killed me the next day. I must have held that posy for 30 minutes. Has anyone else felt that?
Cheers
Ward
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Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
Cool stuff. That's really interesting.
I'm a single woman, but god would I like to see a man explore his sexuality that way.
01/23/2010
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by Ward
I guess the first big question I get asked all the time about these things are… Do these things really work? Absolutely yes, and in many ways too.

The first way of using the massager and the easiest is what is known as the Super “T” or super ... More
What a wealth of info Ward. I am new to prostate massage and have done the usual on line research but you have really explained it the best. Thank a lot
03/10/2010
LiftedUp LiftedUp
Ward,
Thanks for the post. Like you, I have been into prostate message for several years, as well as prostate milking, and even pegging with my wife. All of them vastly different experiences, but all of them great in their own way.

In terms of hands free prostate massagers, I haven't had the greatest of luck, and have never reached a "super-o" as they're sometimes called. Sure I've used them during traditional play, intercourse with my wife, etc.. and they can add to the experience, but it would still be nice to find that "super-o" someday. I think part of me gave up somewhat early on the Aneros line, as I had the MGX, and it never really did anything for me. I don't think it was angled properly for my anatomy, and never really was able to give my prostate any stimulation. From there I moved on to other toys, some of which I've greatly enjoyed.

As for the aneros line though, I see you have several. Which would you say seems to target your prostate best? Which is most aggressive?

Thanks.
03/12/2010
MuffysPinguLove MuffysPinguLove
Thanks for such an informative post, and for the product suggestions! I added a few of them to my wish list for my boyfriend
03/12/2010
Gardenvy Gardenvy
Wow totally informative post! I'm excited to have my man read this tonight when he comes home from work. Thanks for all the info.. I never knew this was possible. Exciting new ideas to ponder!
03/12/2010
fuck.puppet fuck.puppet
Wonderful post. I've been trying to get my husband to massage his prostate for health reasons, I'm going to have him read this and I'm sure he'll be less apprehensive! thanks so much!
03/31/2010
Brian Brian
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Originally posted by LiftedUp
Ward,
Thanks for the post. Like you, I have been into prostate message for several years, as well as prostate milking, and even pegging with my wife. All of them vastly different experiences, but all of them great in their own way.

In ... More
LiftedUp, I also have the MGX and while it feels somewhat good, I have had a lot better luck with the Progasm. I still haven't goten a super-o but it still feels very good. I think the MGX is more focused on the prostate where as the Progasm seems to stimulate the whole area more. Also I didn't like the p-tab on the MGX and the Progasm one is a ball so it's much more comfortable. Hope it helps.
05/06/2010
Intrigued Intrigued
Quote:
Originally posted by Ward
I guess the first big question I get asked all the time about these things are… Do these things really work? Absolutely yes, and in many ways too.

The first way of using the massager and the easiest is what is known as the Super “T” or super ... More
Thank you for being so honest. I've played with the idea of getting a prostate massager for my husband but wasn't sure if they really worked. I can just imagine the look on his face while he enjoyed an orgasm that lasted 2 minutes!

Which product would you suggest for someone who has never used a massager before? Are there any dangers in using a prostate massager?
08/13/2010
BJismyname BJismyname
this was fantastically informative! i've been dying to get my hands on one of the nexus line for me AND my partner. he's way more analy inexperienced than i am but i'm hoping to introduce him to the wonders of prostate stimulation!

this was great, i may have to ask you a few questions when i'm closer to getting one for real!
08/30/2010
yerkungfuisweak yerkungfuisweak
Wow.. This is exactly what I needed to read. I've been wondering about that for months. Now I know what I have to get. Thank you for this post. I never knew of the terms for those, but I have gotten the Super "T" plenty of times. I want that Super "O" so bad. Pulling my credit card out now, haha. Can't wait to start working my P Spot out!
09/18/2010
csweatc csweatc
Good info Ward. My own experience has been very similar, and it took me a few years to reach a Super O, with plenty of Super T's along the way. It is very hard to describe this to people because the two are two very different experiences. In my times where I've used a plug or massager during sex, the women I've been with don't get that I can be having an orgasm while my penis is flaccid and I'm performing oral on them or something.
10/27/2010
ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by csweatc
Good info Ward. My own experience has been very similar, and it took me a few years to reach a Super O, with plenty of Super T's along the way. It is very hard to describe this to people because the two are two very different experiences. In ... More
Note that it is possible to have a "super T" from anal/prostate stimulation, so hands-free doesn't always equal "super O". They're all good, though.
10/27/2010
Boxers Over Briefs Boxers Over Briefs
I know what you mean about the noise - so true.
01/14/2011
markeagleone markeagleone
Quote:
Originally posted by Ward
I guess the first big question I get asked all the time about these things are… Do these things really work? Absolutely yes, and in many ways too.

The first way of using the massager and the easiest is what is known as the Super “T” or super ... More
thanks for info
01/19/2011
mikebooks mikebooks
Good post... Still waiting for Aneros Tempo (S2 series) to appear here on EF! Did you try the Tempo already, and whats your opinion?
01/22/2011
YouPutThatWhere? YouPutThatWhere?
This is the best information I have gotten on this subject. I only recently got back into anal play. I used to mess around with plugs YEARS ago before there was edenfantasys. I bought a couple massagers, including the MGX, but didn't have the patience to work on it for as long as Ward.

So, I decided to try some plugs that I could wear long-term and in public. One of which was the Ceramic Bubbles. Rather than using my PC muscles for stimulation, I found that rolling my hips gave me more stimulation than the PC massaging. (Aneros packaging does not recommend any other type of stimulation other than PC contractions). And I'm talking about VERY SUBTLE movements. I enjoy aggressive movement and stimulation. But I can only have super O's with the small tiny movements. I got my first super O this way, with the Ceramic Bubbles, the second time I used it. I had only been back into anal toys a few weeks at that time. Like Ward, I have also had the experience of a "no toy" Super O since I have been doing this.

I then bought some Njoy plugs and found that I could have super O's while wearing these plugs while out and about. The motion required is so small that no one knows what I'm up to. The only "give-a-way" can be my facial expressions which kinda look like I have a headache or something. I have had to stop stimulating before I had a hands-free ejaculation once. That would have been embarassing and my dirty little secret would have been exposed!

I have not tried one of the silicone "rocker" type massagers even though they stimulate in my preferred method. Mostly because I prefer steel and glass. And this is because silicone has a tendency to retain odors with long-term use (as does plastic).

For me, the PC type stimulation is just too much work. After a while my sphincter just gets tired and my mind (which is the most important part of all this) just isn't on the pleasure, but the anal fatigue.

My personal favorite toys for prostate massage are the Ceramic Bubbles, the Njoy Pure Plug 2.0, and the Pure Plug large. Please note that with Ceramic Bubbles I wear a thong to help keep it in place. Njoy plugs are worry free!

Super O's are actually Tantric orgasms. The ONLY time I had ever experienced this before was when my wife would give me special extended blow-jobs. I just wanted others to know that there is an alternative to PC contractions. And, for myself, an easier way.
01/23/2011
Valentinka Valentinka
Many thanks to the topic-starter and everyone who contributed! It's a really informative thread!
02/09/2011
kfdarling kfdarling
I am very new to prostate massage and looking to get my first toy, but totally looking forward to working up a super O. Great info.
03/11/2011
DmitriDale DmitriDale
Quote:
Originally posted by Ward
I guess the first big question I get asked all the time about these things are… Do these things really work? Absolutely yes, and in many ways too.

The first way of using the massager and the easiest is what is known as the Super “T” or super ... More
hmmm...thanks for the informative post here. i've been curious and have tried small vibrators but sounds like i need to try one of these you mention. i'll give it a go! thanks!
05/15/2011
Wookin-Pa-Nub Wookin-Pa-Nub
Great post. Lots of good info. I can't wait to have my husband read these posts! I've been trying to get him interested in prostate massage, and he's definately nervous about it. Do you have any suggested reading or videos we could watch to get started? This is something we've never really tried before.
05/23/2011
sjclayton2912 sjclayton2912
Amazing post, lots of very useful information. I have experimented a bit with prostate stimulation, but I am very excited to train / experience more.
04/26/2012
Why Not? Why Not?
Great info! Thanks for the post... it give me something to work towards.
11/30/2012
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