I probably made a thread similar to this somewhere but I can't find it no matter where I look. Anyway so I'm a virgin, never used tampons, don't insert fingers usually. I think my hymen is stretched enough though, not sure. Anyway, several months ago I bought a slim silicone dildo (The Slim by Doc Johnson) but I've tried inserting it at least 20 times by now over the course of several months and all it has given me is frustration. I can't seem to insert it no matter how much I try.
Okay, my problem is that even when I'm naturally lubed up AND EVEN WHEN I use literally HALF A BOTTLE of lube and everything is slick and wet, I CAN'T insert the dildo anyway! What am I doing wrong? It seems like the silicone sucks up all the lube, completely drying me up no matter how much lube I produce and no matter if I practically use half a bottle of lube, the silicone seems to just absorb the lube and dry me up. I feel like my vagina is a vault refusing to budge, like my vagina is completely bolted shut.
I think I have been able to insert it 1 inch, 2 inches maybe, maybe 3 inches at most but no matter how much I try to insert it, it feels like my vagina is a closed wall, a bolted iron vault. I'm so clueless. The little bit that I have been able to insert it, it feels completely uncomfortable and not pleasurable at all. It feels like I just inserted a stick of rubber inside me (well a stick of silicone). I don't know how a dildo can be pleasurable in that way?
I need some advice or help or recommendations. No matter what I do, I can't insert the silicone dildo, it's extremely draggy and it seems to absorb all forms of lube drying me up. No matter how wet I am, it seems to dry me up and it feels like I'm trying to tear my insides with it. I have literally used up half a bottle of lube trying to fix the problem and it doesn't make a difference. What am I doing wrong?
Also another question from a clueless virgin. How does it feel to have a dildo inside you? Does it feel like you have a stick of rubber inside you? That's sort of how it felt for me and it was extremely uncomfortable. How do people find that pleasurable at all?
*clueless*
I'll ask more questions later as they come up. I hope this is the right thread to post this.
Okay, my problem is that even when I'm naturally lubed up AND EVEN WHEN I use literally HALF A BOTTLE of lube and everything is slick and wet, I CAN'T insert the dildo anyway! What am I doing wrong? It seems like the silicone sucks up all the lube, completely drying me up no matter how much lube I produce and no matter if I practically use half a bottle of lube, the silicone seems to just absorb the lube and dry me up. I feel like my vagina is a vault refusing to budge, like my vagina is completely bolted shut.
I think I have been able to insert it 1 inch, 2 inches maybe, maybe 3 inches at most but no matter how much I try to insert it, it feels like my vagina is a closed wall, a bolted iron vault. I'm so clueless. The little bit that I have been able to insert it, it feels completely uncomfortable and not pleasurable at all. It feels like I just inserted a stick of rubber inside me (well a stick of silicone). I don't know how a dildo can be pleasurable in that way?
I need some advice or help or recommendations. No matter what I do, I can't insert the silicone dildo, it's extremely draggy and it seems to absorb all forms of lube drying me up. No matter how wet I am, it seems to dry me up and it feels like I'm trying to tear my insides with it. I have literally used up half a bottle of lube trying to fix the problem and it doesn't make a difference. What am I doing wrong?
Also another question from a clueless virgin. How does it feel to have a dildo inside you? Does it feel like you have a stick of rubber inside you? That's sort of how it felt for me and it was extremely uncomfortable. How do people find that pleasurable at all?
*clueless*
I'll ask more questions later as they come up. I hope this is the right thread to post this.
