Sex toy limits

domsub1993 domsub1993
Does you partner impose any kind of boundaries or limits on your sex toys? My husband is very careful to check out the actual size of my toys because he doesn't want them to be bigger than him or to feel as real as him. LOL!
09/01/2011
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Jul!a Jul!a
Nope, my husband's only limit on my toys is that I not choose them over him if he is also available.
09/01/2011
Kkay Kkay
He prefers that I stay away from the real monsters. I think he'd probably be uncomfortable if I got the Eleven.
09/01/2011
ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
Well, kind of. He would never tell me "no, don't get that," but he will express a little disapproval. The only thing he hasn't wanted me to get is the Outlaw. I mean, it IS huge, but I'm trying to get him to see that that doesn't matter. I will always, ALWAYS prefer the feel of the real thing. I just tend to like a really big dildo if, say, we have sex and he comes first and I need to finish with a toy after. I'm working on it, though.
09/01/2011
Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
um, i would have an issue if my partner told me what i could and couldn't have. i wouldn't plan on leaving him for an inanimate object so he shouldn't feel insecure at all. but that's just me
09/01/2011
Rossie Rossie
My husband never interferes with what I want to get, but I do set boundaries for myself, I'll never try to get toys with girths that are too much for me to handle.
09/01/2011
sexyintexas sexyintexas
Nope, I get things for him to take on the road, things for me when hes gone and he will be the first one to tell me "Hey hand me a vibrator" when we are playing
09/01/2011
indiglo indiglo
Nope, never. I don't think I would be too cool about him telling me what I can or can't have in my toy collection - since we're both adults. Sometimes when I show him one I've got my eye on he'll say "that looks weird" or "I don't know about that", but he loves for me to try them all. He also gets so excited and proud when I post my new reviews, or new video reviews, he totally supports it 100%. He sees the toys as his allies, and enjoys using them on me!
09/01/2011
AngelvMaynard AngelvMaynard
Quote:
Originally posted by domsub1993
Does you partner impose any kind of boundaries or limits on your sex toys? My husband is very careful to check out the actual size of my toys because he doesn't want them to be bigger than him or to feel as real as him. LOL!
No, no limits for me. Although he might look twice if I pulled out something huge!
09/01/2011
Peggi Peggi
Mine doesn't give me limits or boundaries although I don't think he appreciates some of my larger toys based on some comments he's made in the past, but I don't really use those toys anyway (I don't like larger toys, they aren't as pleasurable for me) but, he would never limit what I can use/buy
09/01/2011
squire squire
No limits for me. My wife, at times, laughs at the size of some of my toys saying "how does that fit", or other such things, but she's usually game for anything.
09/01/2011
Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
Well, I am currently partnerless, and I generally prefer littler toys anyway, so for me it would most likely be a non-issue. That said, if a guy did try to impose limits like that on me, I'd take whatever toy was offending him the most and give him a good bonk on the head with it.
09/01/2011
Elnoa Elnoa
Nah, my husband thinks they're interesting and he even like the ones that are not his size/shape, because he thinks it adds variety.
09/02/2011
toxie m toxie m
We have no limits on toys. He doesn't mind me playing with huge toys because he knows I still like the real thing better, no matter the size. We have one gigantic dildo that he loves to use on me because it's so big, it's like a threat. Lots of fun
09/02/2011
hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
No restrictions at all, but I do seem to attract men with larger than average penises, so they don't really have anything to be threatened about. I prefer smaller toys to give me a break. My sub actually prefers bigger toys than I do, so I get the feeling that one day, he's going to whip out something that's going to make me do the wide-eyed stammering.
09/04/2011
CSEA CSEA
Quote:
Originally posted by domsub1993
Does you partner impose any kind of boundaries or limits on your sex toys? My husband is very careful to check out the actual size of my toys because he doesn't want them to be bigger than him or to feel as real as him. LOL!
lol he does check them out and see what he thinks, most of the time i stay in a certain range.
09/04/2011
domsub1993 domsub1993
Maybe he's sensitive because we're very, very new to sex toys.
09/12/2011
unfulfilled unfulfilled
Mines still wary b/c we're still new to toys, but he's glad I'm able to find a toy that's able to get me off. He loves seeing what comes in the mail next and he likes to see what my response will be. Though I haven't really had any dildo's yet just some rabbits and one was intimidating but he just made the comment no real cock can spin like an amusement park ride.
12/01/2011
Missmarc Missmarc
I generally consult him before I buy toys, but really I get whatever I want. I ask him mostly to put some kind of fantasy in his head before the toys arrive. It makes waiting more fun. When it comes to limits, no one will be able to stop me from getting something I want. He knows this well.
12/01/2011
GRRRRR GRRRRR
He is self concious and needs to get over it. my wife has a dildo bigger then my own dick but thats for when im gone...
12/01/2011
Rory Rory
He doesn't but I do. I don't want anything to big.
12/18/2012
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