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Originally posted by
sktb0007
I agree. Be yourself, be confident.
In addition to having confidence, if you have a partner, having them point out what they find sexy about you can be a really confidence boosting thing. My partner and I make a game of it, with him "earning" pictures of me for pointing out what he finds arousing. It's a great way to find out that areas of your body that you might find unsexy are actually extremely erotic! Also, self-love first! If it's not triggering for you, stand in front of a mirror naked once a day and just touch your body. Doesn't have to be in a sexual way, just in a getting acquainted with yourself way. Once you begin to appreciate your innate sexiness, others will follow. Treat yourself to things that make you feel sexy, whether that's wine or fancy chocolate or french lingerie! Good posture is sexy, and also, smile! That's oftentimes the sexiest thing of all.