Personally, I have a hard time focusing on doing a good job for my partner when enjoying myself, anyone else have the same dilemma?
I actually find that it turns me on more and really heats things up when we're both giving while receiving! At first it was somewhat difficult to accomplish both at once, but after a while you find a rhythm and just run with it
I love some 69, but there are things she can do to me better solo than when we 69. If I had to only have one or the other I'd probably go with solo attention (her or me).
I like both, usually our foreplay consists of individual oral but once things get really hot, I find a switch from intercourse into a 69 to be sexy as hell.
I like receiving and have a hard time focusing to give. My hubby just prefers to skip foreplay so I really don't get teh chance to receive or get better at doing both.