Solo Head or Same time trade

Badass Badass Jan 24, 1:25 am

Would you rather be getting? Receiving? Or doing both at the same time?

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Badass Badass
Personally, I have a hard time focusing on doing a good job for my partner when enjoying myself, anyone else have the same dilemma?
Jan 24, 1:26 am
MamaDivine MamaDivine
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Originally posted by Badass
Personally, I have a hard time focusing on doing a good job for my partner when enjoying myself, anyone else have the same dilemma?
I actually find that it turns me on more and really heats things up when we're both giving while receiving! At first it was somewhat difficult to accomplish both at once, but after a while you find a rhythm and just run with it
Jan 24, 1:59 am
Undead Undead
I find it better to do it separately that way we both can be comfortable.
Jan 24, 4:29 am
RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by Undead
I find it better to do it separately that way we both can be comfortable.
Same here. Although my GF really does like 69, I'd prefer to concentrate either on her pleasure or my own rather than both simultaneously.
Jan 24, 2:38 pm
meitman meitman
I love some 69, but there are things she can do to me better solo than when we 69. If I had to only have one or the other I'd probably go with solo attention (her or me).
Jan 24, 9:27 pm
SexyStuff SexyStuff
Absolutely, solo is preferable
Jan 25, 1:33 am
indiglo indiglo
I prefer one at a time. I can't enjoy it nearly as much when I'm having to focus on 2 things.
Jan 25, 11:27 pm
ninja250 ninja250
Prefer seperate either way giving or recieving
Jan 28, 11:57 am
JustLikeHeaven JustLikeHeaven
Not really.
Jan 28, 2:36 pm
NicNat NicNat
I love it when we do 69, but it is hard to focas .
Feb 6, 6:51 pm
richsam richsam
solo
Feb 6, 8:24 pm
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
I prefer 69, she prefers taking turns.
Feb 6, 8:33 pm
NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
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Originally posted by Badass
Personally, I have a hard time focusing on doing a good job for my partner when enjoying myself, anyone else have the same dilemma?
Yeah, it's too much when both are happening at the same time.
Feb 6, 8:34 pm
winterseve winterseve
I prefer solo as well. If he's working on me i tend to stop and get distracted.
Feb 6, 10:01 pm
MamaDivine MamaDivine
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Originally posted by Badass
Personally, I have a hard time focusing on doing a good job for my partner when enjoying myself, anyone else have the same dilemma?
Im the same way. If he's doing a great job, I tend to stop and enjoy it and forget what I am doing LMAO
Feb 21, 6:13 pm
Undead Undead
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Originally posted by Badass
Personally, I have a hard time focusing on doing a good job for my partner when enjoying myself, anyone else have the same dilemma?
Oops didn't know I already posted
Feb 24, 1:43 am
SparklyGlitter SparklyGlitter
each take a turn
Feb 27, 8:34 pm
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Solo head is more fun
Feb 28, 8:04 pm
Trepier Trepier
Sometimes it is hard to focus, but often there is this zone when 69ing where we just work in tandem and that is the best.
Mar 6, 3:26 am
AJvil AJvil
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Originally posted by Badass
Personally, I have a hard time focusing on doing a good job for my partner when enjoying myself, anyone else have the same dilemma?
Separate times
Mar 6, 3:54 am
SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
I like it at the same time. It's like a game, if you please me, I'll please you more, then you please me more. It keeps us both going full force. =P
Mar 12, 12:46 am
romstomp romstomp
I like both, usually our foreplay consists of individual oral but once things get really hot, I find a switch from intercourse into a 69 to be sexy as hell.
Mar 17, 2:50 pm
jokerzwild jokerzwild
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Originally posted by Badass
Personally, I have a hard time focusing on doing a good job for my partner when enjoying myself, anyone else have the same dilemma?
Same here, gotto focus
Mar 17, 7:34 pm
JG24FanUK JG24FanUK
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Originally posted by Badass
Personally, I have a hard time focusing on doing a good job for my partner when enjoying myself, anyone else have the same dilemma?
It's fun to do it together, but neither of us achieve an orgasm from it. Don't have the same focus as when you do it separately.
Apr 3, 12:51 pm
goofballmaster goofballmaster
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Personally, I have a hard time focusing on doing a good job for my partner when enjoying myself, anyone else have the same dilemma?
We have that problem too, but it's still fun to do.
Apr 3, 4:28 pm
Various Various
It usually starts mutually, but when one of gets really into that person stops until they climax, and then returns the favor.
Apr 3, 4:34 pm
gsfanatic gsfanatic
Both at the same time can be nice, but alternating tends to make things more graceful.
Apr 23, 12:45 am
Total posts: 27
Unique posters: 24
Badass Badass
What changes have you made to be a better giver while receiving?
Jan 24, 1:26 am
SexyStuff SexyStuff
I don't understand the question
Jan 25, 1:34 am
goofballmaster goofballmaster
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
What changes have you made to be a better giver while receiving?
Find the most comfortable position.
Apr 3, 4:29 pm
Total posts: 3
Unique posters: 3
Badass Badass
Just to see what every one else thinks
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
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MamaDivine, ellejay, ninja250, Pi, NicNat, Shellz31, winterseve, LavenderSkies, goofballmaster, elrique, BlooJay, Missmarc
18
MamaDivine, sktb0007, unfulfilled, Elnoa, SexyStuff, indiglo, ninja250, voenne, JustLikeHeaven, NicNat, wetone123, LavenderSkies, cottonxcandy, SparklyGlitter, Prax, roskat, elrique, BlooJay
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MamaDivine, ellejay, Jon S, punkstar283, potstickers, dv8, EnterTheFist, Stinkytofu10, LavenderSkies, nuggetman777, dhig, pinkcupcakes, Howells, Aratal, oregonboy9, hall5885, BlooJay
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unfulfilled, OhMy!, indiglo, ninja250, voenne, NicNat, SparklyGlitter, Prax, Missmarc
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MamaDivine, EnterTheFist, hall5885
Total votes: 59 (38 voters)
Poll is open
Jan 24, 1:28 am
unfulfilled unfulfilled
I like receiving and have a hard time focusing to give. My hubby just prefers to skip foreplay so I really don't get teh chance to receive or get better at doing both.
Jan 24, 3:24 pm
punkstar283 punkstar283
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Just to see what every one else thinks
same time trade
Jan 24, 8:55 pm
SexyStuff SexyStuff
Trading off is fair
Jan 25, 1:34 am
dhig dhig
i love a 69
Mar 17, 11:56 am
goofballmaster goofballmaster
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Just to see what every one else thinks
I actually get harder when I'm giving than receiving.
Apr 3, 4:30 pm
oregonboy9 oregonboy9
I find 69 so much sexier than a plain blowjob.
Apr 12, 1:10 am
BlooJay BlooJay
I like it all.
Apr 23, 1:30 am
Total posts: 8
Unique posters: 8