Suggestions for getting started pegging?

j765432 j765432
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i want to try pegging with my wife we have talked about it and try'd once but she seems like its not going to happen any suggestions
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oldkinky oldkinky
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Originally posted by j765432
i want to try pegging with my wife we have talked about it and try'd once but she seems like its not going to happen any suggestions
I would suggest a Bend Over Beginner Kit. Once she puts on the harness with the dildo she will be hot.

We began with a prostate massage using a vibrating anal toy like Tantus Pro Touch while she gave me a blowjob. When she sees how much cum you produce like this she will want to take the next step.

My wife pegs me about once a week and we have been doing it for years. She loves it as much as I do.

Have fun!!
04/08/2013
oldkinky oldkinky
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Originally posted by oldkinky
I would suggest a Bend Over Beginner Kit. Once she puts on the harness with the dildo she will be hot.

We began with a prostate massage using a vibrating anal toy like Tantus Pro Touch while she gave me a blowjob. When she sees how much cum ... More
I forgot to mention use lots and lots of lube. You can't use too much. We use Wet Original.
04/08/2013
spiced spiced
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Originally posted by j765432
i want to try pegging with my wife we have talked about it and try'd once but she seems like its not going to happen any suggestions
If you two tried it once and she didn't like it, I think you need to find out WHY she didn't like it, and/or WHAT she didn't like about it, if you want to do it again. Did you ask her?

I was lucky, I guess. Years ago, I showed my wife a bunch of different clips of kinky stuff I wanted to try and pegging was one of the things. She didn't like the idea because, she said, she thought I wanted her to be a man and that I wanted to be a woman! After I made her understand that wasn't the case, that I just knew how good it felt and wanted to try it, she agreed. It was awkward the first couple of times, but she learned to love it pretty quickly. She likes the way it makes her feel (powerful) and the way it makes me feel (orgasmic).

My advice would be to talk to her, LISTEN to her concerns/objections, clear up any misunderstandings and make sure she understands how good it feels to you.

Or was the problem something else??
04/08/2013
Edeneve Edeneve
don't push her about it.
04/08/2013
j765432 j765432
Thanks for the advice
04/08/2013
delcubed delcubed
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i want to try pegging with my wife we have talked about it and try'd once but she seems like its not going to happen any suggestions
patients
04/10/2013
j765432 j765432
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Originally posted by spiced
If you two tried it once and she didn't like it, I think you need to find out WHY she didn't like it, and/or WHAT she didn't like about it, if you want to do it again. Did you ask her?

I was lucky, I guess. Years ago, I showed my ... More
I think she dosnt like it for the same reason as you listed ive tried to explain but i dont think she can get past that and i dont want to bring it up yet so it dosnt seem like im pressuring her. Thank you for the advice.
04/10/2013
j765432 j765432
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Originally posted by delcubed
patients
Thanks
04/10/2013
j765432 j765432
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Originally posted by oldkinky
I forgot to mention use lots and lots of lube. You can't use too much. We use Wet Original.
Thanks for the info.
04/10/2013
bog bog
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Originally posted by j765432
i want to try pegging with my wife we have talked about it and try'd once but she seems like its not going to happen any suggestions
Maybe start with a small plug like the Mood naughty plug small or medium. That can just sit comfortably inside you without her having to manipulate it. Maybe when she sees how enjoyable anal play is for you, she'll be more amenable to actually strapping one on!
04/10/2013
spiced spiced
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Originally posted by j765432
I think she dosnt like it for the same reason as you listed ive tried to explain but i dont think she can get past that and i dont want to bring it up yet so it dosnt seem like im pressuring her. Thank you for the advice.
That makes sense. You might try waiting a little while (probably some weeks at least, but you'll probably know when the time is right) and then ask her about HER fantasies, and things she might want to try but never has. Maybe right after you give her some earth-shattering head or when you've just had great sex. I hope it's obvious you should listen carefully and be open-minded about whatever she says!

Hopefully, she'll be more open to trying something different to please you in return. It's worked for me, and I hope it does for you, too.
04/11/2013
j765432 j765432
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Originally posted by bog
Maybe start with a small plug like the Mood naughty plug small or medium. That can just sit comfortably inside you without her having to manipulate it. Maybe when she sees how enjoyable anal play is for you, she'll be more amenable to actually ... More
Good ideas thank you.
04/12/2013
j765432 j765432
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Originally posted by spiced
That makes sense. You might try waiting a little while (probably some weeks at least, but you'll probably know when the time is right) and then ask her about HER fantasies, and things she might want to try but never has. Maybe right after you ... More
Thanks again for the ideas.
04/12/2013
animepanda89 animepanda89
Take your time and use lots of lube.
04/15/2013
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