Tricks to better hand job?

butterflygirlxo butterflygirlxo
When it comes to hand jobs, I suck! I was wondering if there was any tricks I could do or something that would feel best. Guys what do you like when getting a hand job? What kind of hold.. Tight, Loose,Up and down? Twisting? Let me know!
05/02/2012
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Rossie Rossie
Watching a porn with lots of blowjob scenes should help; then try those techniques on your partner and ask him which methods he likes best.
05/02/2012
UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
I've found that most guys don't like hand jobs because to them it's really no different than jerking off. And they obviously have they're own technique for that. If you absolutely must give a hand job, I'd suggest using some sort of lube.
05/02/2012
Snozzberries Snozzberries
Rhythm is very important. I don't know what other advice to give except maybe just enjoy it yourself and it'll probably work out well enough for him.
05/04/2012
Snozzberries Snozzberries
... also my arm gets very tired very early on.
05/04/2012
JG24FanUK JG24FanUK
Twist your wrist as you stroke the shaft and focus on the head of the penis.
05/04/2012
Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
Use both hands, cover his hand in yours, incorporate your mouth or a stroking toy, use lube or oil, having him show you what he likes, stroke with the tip of the nail, fondle the testicles. Don't just think of it as "mimicking sex until orgasm." Journey, not the destination.
05/09/2012
ScottA ScottA
The show will be the big difference. Think about how you look when you're masturbating him.
05/09/2012
butterflygirlxo butterflygirlxo
Thanks everyone!
05/14/2012
butterflygirlxo butterflygirlxo
Quote:
Originally posted by Snozzberries
... also my arm gets very tired very early on.
Mine too he always ends up having to finish...usually..
05/14/2012
daaddison8991 daaddison8991
get a stroker and hand jobs are then so easy
05/24/2012
CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by butterflygirlxo
When it comes to hand jobs, I suck! I was wondering if there was any tricks I could do or something that would feel best. Guys what do you like when getting a hand job? What kind of hold.. Tight, Loose,Up and down? Twisting? Let me know!
First - super funny video us girls will enjoy on youtube about this - its done as a song and its the "Handjob handjob I don't understand job" song.

Every guy is different and presents with a unique pain in the ass what works best for a handjob for us to figure out. I think in part the giving it the "Mummm oh baby yes I like to stroke that big hard cock! I love to feel it throb in my hands! I love to see that yummy pre cum on your big hard tip! Won't you squirt for me please!" Or something to that effect. Obviously tune the volume as appropriate to your location. I also make a lot of eye contact with horny come fuck me looks while I do it, frequently looking down as I stroke him and bite my lower lip. Doing the hand cradle on his balls will probably feel good as well as if you can rub your nipple through your shirt with your other hand or rub the crotch f your jeans/pants,panties while you are stroking him gives good mental stim. When hes about to pop tell him how much you want it and how much you want to see it. Let him show off for you. Tell him how huge a load of cum he gave you and say stuff like "Oh Yes Oh Yes Cum for Me baby! Squirt that big load of cum for me!"


Its mental and physical - and watch his face a lot it will give you clues for when your touching right and when your touching wrong - so will his breathing rate and volume.
06/04/2012
Jordan B Jordan B
It depends also on your comfort level with this person. If it's a "stranger" then I would say a nice lubed hand with a twist stroking technique will work great.

But I guess if you know the person a little more you can try to cup the balls or even give them a tug, or even anal play, if he's into that. You can get a nice lubed up finger and play around down there.
07/05/2012
Crimson Vixen Crimson Vixen
My wrist gets really tired after a short amount of time. Any suggestion for helping that?
07/07/2012
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