I can orgasm with clitoral stimulation, but only when I'm watching porn. And that's probably normal. During sex, I cannot orgasm. At all. Even if I stimulate myself, which I usually don't want to, it does nothing. I'm pretty sure it has something to do with my partner, who doesn't really make it exactly "comfortable" for me. He's very large, and he usually tries to penetrate very deeply, which ends up causing me a lot of pain. The girth is great, but it's the length that kills me. It's not like I'm complaining, but yeah.
So, I have never had a vaginal/g-spot/"squirt ing" orgasm. I partly blame it on my birth control pills, which I believe have totally whacked out my hormones.
I use the only dildo I have at the moment, which is a glass one I believe I purchased here. I like it, but I hate how cold it is. I like something with weight and, like, texture. I can't do those slim, smooth ones. Doesn't do anything for me.
What is your advice on masturbating and orgasming?