were you clueless?

gsfanatic gsfanatic
I had a rough idea of how things worked, but there was definitely a difference between theory and practice. I did some work ahead, mostly to limit the stereotypical pain for her.
04/23/2012
garylangworthy420 garylangworthy420
totally clueless.
04/24/2012
Kat. Kat.
Well there was porn and research for me. I pretty much predicted how it would feel and was pretty spot on.
06/05/2012
reinkaos reinkaos
clueless but figured it out quickly
06/05/2012
heather-mooney heather-mooney
I was pretty knowledgeable already, it didn't take me long to figure out the rest!
07/29/2012
JG24FanUK JG24FanUK
I did not really know much but figured things out.
07/29/2012
Undecided Undecided
I knew about self stimulation and masturbation as well as oral but when it came to intercourse I wasn't all that experienced but I had someone who was
07/29/2012
PeachCandy PeachCandy
I was really young for my first so I had no freaking clue what was supposed to be happening - it definitely didn't feel good. It was a shitty experience.

It some work but now I'm a sex-a-holic and have an amazing sex life...go figure
07/29/2012
HusbandandWife HusbandandWife
Well I had the basics but I don't think she felt the earth move. I was so nervous and excited I didn't know what was going on. I have gotten better since then...God I hope I so!
07/29/2012
MrPink MrPink
I handled myself quite well by her account. I had problems keeping it up because I was nervous (I had to swap between light play/ penetration constantly) which ruined that but fortunately following guides on how to give good oral paid off. She and I continued to see each other for a while and it seems I learned quickly.
07/29/2012
Rory Rory
Clueless! The first time was a quick in and out. Then it was over!
12/19/2012
Eugler Eugler
I was quite well prepared with Margo Anands Tantra book and some more sex ed. But anyway: Reading a book never made anyone an expert. I guess I'm still clueless.
12/20/2012
Cynoc Cynoc
Pretty clueless and stressed out. I just couldn't get it hard. Fortunately she thought it was cute.
12/20/2012
wanderer5964 wanderer5964
i was young and clueless. still learning new things as i go
12/28/2012
Strider Strider
I was well read.
01/14/2013
Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by kawigrl
were you clueless during your first sexual experience or did you try to learn some techniques beforehand
Clueless...It was then I realized I wanted to know more and the learning began.
01/14/2013
smlove smlove
Quote:
Originally posted by kawigrl
were you clueless during your first sexual experience or did you try to learn some techniques beforehand
totally clueless, but it was fine.
01/14/2013
Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
I wasn't completely clueless, I was just too uncomfortable to speak up then. Since then my partner and I have gotten much much better together.
01/14/2013
hmb12 hmb12
I knew how to do it. I could do missionary and I kind of struggled at figuring out how to have fun while being on top. Mostly, I hadn't quite figured out how to have fun sex until having over a year of experience, especially since my first long relationship was my only sexual experience for a while and he was quite boring.
01/14/2013
Kiss Kiss
Had an idea but learned as I went!
01/15/2013
melliegirl melliegirl
Quote:
Originally posted by kawigrl
were you clueless during your first sexual experience or did you try to learn some techniques beforehand
i was pretty clueless and so was the guy bc it was both of our first times
02/12/2013
captainsgirl captainsgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by kawigrl
were you clueless during your first sexual experience or did you try to learn some techniques beforehand
my husband (boyfriend at the time) was very gentle and caring. it was a good experience.
02/14/2013
dm dm
Quote:
Originally posted by kawigrl
were you clueless during your first sexual experience or did you try to learn some techniques beforehand
very clueless!
02/17/2013
t2720 t2720
I had no idea what I was doing. I was sort of pressured into doing it in the first place, but yeah it was weird for me. :|
02/19/2013
TJtheMadHatter TJtheMadHatter
I wasn't completely clueless. The guy I lost it to didn't know I was a virgin until I whispered it in his ear, right before I got on top and popped my cherry. We did it twice that night. It was great.
03/01/2013
StarrStacked StarrStacked
Quote:
Originally posted by kawigrl
were you clueless during your first sexual experience or did you try to learn some techniques beforehand
I tried learning. By the time I had sex the first time my boyfriend and I had done everything buy for a year so I already knew a lot.
03/03/2013
Mhay64 Mhay64
Quote:
Originally posted by kawigrl
were you clueless during your first sexual experience or did you try to learn some techniques beforehand
Actually, not exactly. After watching porn for years....I grasped several concepts very quickly.
03/04/2013
C&K0143 C&K0143
Quote:
Originally posted by kawigrl
were you clueless during your first sexual experience or did you try to learn some techniques beforehand
Completely clueless. My husband was my first for literally everything. I hadn't even masturbated until I met him. - K
07/27/2013
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by kawigrl
were you clueless during your first sexual experience or did you try to learn some techniques beforehand
Holy cow was I clueless! I just let him twist and roll me however he wanted....it got better after a few years but man I was a NOOB!
07/27/2013
wicked48 wicked48
Totally clueless! If only I knew then what I know now!
07/27/2013
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