I posed this question to my husband to see what he thought. His answer immediately was kissing. He is totally right! I LOVE kissing. If I am mad all he has to do is kiss my neck and I melt like butter. The testosterone in his saliva is my kryptonite.
But really, almost any time, slip my labia apart and I'm wet. Things like kissing and massage aren't going to make me *less* wet, but they also don't get my engines running any faster than they were already. Let me give oral and I'll be dripping, though.
Hard choice, because porn really does it for me too, but I had to pick the most likely of all the aforementioned, so I went with kissing. Kiss me right, and I'll try to get naked for you.
Most of the time it is when I give oral to my guy. I tend to be a very passionate giver and seeing him so turned on, and so hard actually gets me nice and wet.
Kissing also does it for me but my guy is not much of a big kisser. He hates kissing in front of people, even small little pecks bother him. PDA is really hard for him. Even when we are just the two of us, he doesn't like kissing me all that much. I a very affectionate and kiss him a lot. Perhaps if I eased up on him he might kiss me more, lol.
Giving oral puts me in the mood every time. When you're stressed and distracted and maybe even sleepy, there's nothing that makes you focus on sexy time faster than sticking your head in someone's crotch.
All these things and more! Sometimes just talking about certain things we would like to do, or the simple brush of his hand. We've been together almost top years now, and that spark is as hot as ever...!
Anticipation gets me going. Kissing, giving or receiving oral also works for me.
Even during kissing, many times I find my hand wandering around my genitals, resulting in even more wetness.
In order to get wet I almost always must either have porn with my fetish, fantasies with my fetish or my fetish in rl. Sometimes simple butt play can get me there.
I'm always shocked by how wet porn makes me. As I told my man once, a video he sent me "made me wetter than tsunami." Massage is a close second: it doesn't make me as wet as porn, but it wakes up my entire body, gets me turned on and tingly and ready to go.