a lonely person

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is been a lonely person with no friends ,, can make you not feel loved?i am a lonely person, and i think i can´t do a lot of friends because i am not interested enough,,i wanted to make this discussion because i want to know if ,,anyone feel the same way ,,and what activities they do to be happier with themselves and not feel depress
11/06/2011
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Elnoa Elnoa
I don't have a lot of friends, but I'm not a people person. I enjoy being alone and have my own interests. I don't tend to get depressed about it because I always have one or two good friends (including my husband) that I can interact with if I feel like dealing with people.
11/07/2011
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Originally posted by Elnoa
I don't have a lot of friends, but I'm not a people person. I enjoy being alone and have my own interests. I don't tend to get depressed about it because I always have one or two good friends (including my husband) that I can interact ... More
agreed, I'm the same way. Find something that makes you happy and even on days where you don't want to go out and do it, force yourself to get up and out. If this has been going on for a long time, maybe seeing a therapist would help too. Depression can really mess things up and ruin relationships, there's lots of ways to deal with it and manage it though I prefer being alone, so really, any activity I can do by myself is enjoyable. Read books on a topic that truly interest you, even if you don't like reading time will go by so fast as long as you have a book that you are interested in. EF has some really great books, so does your local bookstore, you can sit in there as long as you want too. Another thing you can do is sign up for classes around your town, there are free and inexpensive classes for almost everything and you'll be around people and have something to do. That means you can make friends as well. If you can't find anything that makes you happy and you really are having a hard time, like I said, consider therapy. hopefully this helped and I didn't get too off topic
11/07/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I don't have any real friends my age in person, but I'm not sociable. Part of me at times wants to meet some people, but I know that 95% of the time I can't be bothered hanging out with others.
I don't feel lonely though, cause I have family around me. In my mind, (some) family members are the only ones ya can truly trust.

I keep myself busy on here and have craft/hobbies I enjoy doing on my own.
Plus my puppy and cat keep my company enough.
11/07/2011
Dear Ruby Dear Ruby
Sounds like we're in good company here - a bunch of loners. I thoroughly enjoy my own company. I have few, but really really good friends, and I keep ludicrously busy so there's not a lot of time to waste on everyone else, lol.

My dog is the best friend ever! Yes, she's a little selfish and immature, but much less so than many other people that have climbed in my bed
11/10/2011
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