Anal Play and IBS . . . O_O

Contributor: Dawn (Lilac Distraction) Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
I've been wanting to get into anal stimulation with my boyfriend and he is open to being on both ends of it. The only thing that stops me is my IBS and how I'm usually on either end of the spectrum of digestive issues.

Is there anyone else out there who suffers from IBS? What have your experiences been? Do you feel any nervousness about anal?
05/24/2011
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Contributor: kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
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Originally posted by Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
I've been wanting to get into anal stimulation with my boyfriend and he is open to being on both ends of it. The only thing that stops me is my IBS and how I'm usually on either end of the spectrum of digestive issues.

Is there anyone ... more
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08/15/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
I am SO sorry. I know how you feel. I have the same. I NEVER talk about it except to my partner and sister, but I have some advice if you're interested. I don't know how severe yours is, but mine came along with endometriosis several years ago and I got sick as heck! I just kept getting sicker and sicker and eventually only weighed 70 pounds. It's been a miserable battle and the endo doesn't help. I am only 21 and had endo since I was a teen and 5 years ago started having the severe IBS. I finally had surgery this year and was put on meds for it which worked like a miracle. I used to not leave the house. I couldn't do anything. Now I've totally gotten over it. It's a miserable thing to have. Unfortunately, I never have gotten into anal sex. My partner and I don't do it, but I do have some wonderful suggestions for you if you want them.

I guess a good idea would be to make sure to flush everything out before hand. Ive never done anal sex like I said, so I don't know much. But some people have IBS C or IBS D one is constipation and one diarrhea. I never had the bad diarrhea problem and not horrible constipation either, but before using an anal douche or enema be careful. You may not even need one.

If constipation is an issue, you may consider flushing out first. But having severe IBS can also mean severe pain when you use enemas or anything like it. I never have used enemas, but even using drinks that clean you out or pills to do it would cause flare ups for me. I would suggest using a natural lemon mix to do that if you're worried about those things before anal sex. You can make the lemon drink at home.

I wish I had better advice, but the only thing I can advise is how to clear up the IBS. I was determined to get rid of it and I was suffering every single day. Now, I've been using different things and finally found a solution. I started using virgin coconut oil which can totally reverse IBS (IT DID!) AND I used aloe vera pills. I've not had a single upset for months! I finally have a life! If you are interested in the details I would be glad to discuss them with you. Message me anytime.

You could try peppermint oil to relax your intestines before hand, but I've tried absolutely every thing for the pain of IBS and with no luck until I started a coconut oil habit. It didn't even take a month to rid it and I suffered for years.
08/16/2011
Contributor: kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
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Originally posted by K101
I am SO sorry. I know how you feel. I have the same. I NEVER talk about it except to my partner and sister, but I have some advice if you're interested. I don't know how severe yours is, but mine came along with endometriosis several years ... more
I have 10 bowel movements a day I Only leave the house for work I work 5 hours a day 5 days a week on my days off I only leave for grocieries or a hair appointment I spend my time relaxing more and doing house work
08/16/2011
Contributor: Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
As far as I know I don't have the same thing, but I'm also nervous about getting into anal play.
08/16/2011
Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
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Originally posted by Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
I've been wanting to get into anal stimulation with my boyfriend and he is open to being on both ends of it. The only thing that stops me is my IBS and how I'm usually on either end of the spectrum of digestive issues.

Is there anyone ... more
I am currently diagnosed with IBS but my doctor is looking into Crohn's Disease. I can definitely relate because with both disorders/disease you can have unexpected discharge/leaking, nervousness, or you may have to go to the bathroom randomly at any second. I did write a blog, and it may all seem like common sense, but it is helpful and has worked for me. I hope you enjoy the advice and I think you will be just fine. I have only had a slip up once but when you start anal douching and making sure you've used the restroom you wont see much of that.

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08/16/2011
Contributor: Chaotic Rantings Chaotic Rantings
I have Crohn's Disease. It really bites as you never know when you are gonna have to make a run for the bathroom. I feel your pain. I have never tried any kind of anal douching or laxative and I have been lucky thus far with no "accidents". Then again, I am very new to anal play, so you could say I've just been lucky so far lol.
09/06/2011