I am not a native English speaker, for me English is the "foreign language." My family had pretty strickt rules and sex ed was awkward at best, the expressions learned there made it all sound either very clinical, like a sterile room in a hospital, or shamefully dirty. Reading erotic fiction in english was all different, I had no emotial tie to any of the expressions and it was way easier to enjoy. It somehow stuck. When it comes to sex, I think and talk english, solo sessions included.