Are we crazy?

Silverwinds Silverwinds
I only just got into the sex toy scene in February. Since then, I have accumulated about 20 or so toys, pretty much all of them on sale. I still live with my dad, and our relationship is such that I can be like, "Hey, I'm buying and reviewing sex toys" and he'll be totally fine with it. But as the packages keep rolling in, he is getting concerned that I may have an obsession! All I could think is that compared to a lot of y'all, my collection is pretty meager. I read in a random discussion that someone had 40 glass pieces alone. I consider it a hobby to be honest. I like collecting them. Do you think we're crazy for having a lot of toys? Are we "obsessed" as my dad would say? I personally don't think so.
04/28/2013
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js250 js250
No, you are not obsessed--you have a healthy curiosity to find and use items to enhance your sex life. Some items are going to be great and others...not so good.
04/28/2013
Sammi Sammi
I don't think you're crazy or obsessed My husband will still roll his eyes on occasion when the boxes come, but it is an entertaining (and pleasurable) hobby.
04/28/2013
Hentialover Hentialover
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Originally posted by Silverwinds
I only just got into the sex toy scene in February. Since then, I have accumulated about 20 or so toys, pretty much all of them on sale. I still live with my dad, and our relationship is such that I can be like, "Hey, I'm buying and ... More
Of course not! Sex and the exploration of sex are as normal and conman as breathing. A lot of people think sex isn't suppose to be so... out there, but I say if it's not going to hurt anyone, and it makes that person happy, who cares? Sadly, society doesn't see things that way. Still, i don't think you have anything to worry about, but that's just me.
04/29/2013
Ayogirl230 Ayogirl230
its totally normal- especially once you first start getting into them. Its a whole new world!
04/30/2013
Chilipepper Chilipepper
It's like any other collecting hobby. Ask a random collection - like model airplane collector - why they have to have so many when an airplane is an airplane, and they'll go off into a twenty-hour lecture on the differences between each and every model they own.

Sex toys are like that, too.
05/01/2013
Edeneve Edeneve
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Originally posted by js250
No, you are not obsessed--you have a healthy curiosity to find and use items to enhance your sex life. Some items are going to be great and others...not so good.
ditto here. lots of the toys we get a first lead to better ones. and those first toys then get rarely used has been my experience.
06/17/2013
Virgingasms Virgingasms
Nah, I don't think we're any crazier than people who collect other things. It's just that people have a lot of hang ups about things concerning sex. I'm sure if you compare it to a more mainstream collecting he'll understand.
06/17/2013
Ayogirl230 Ayogirl230
Quote:
Originally posted by Silverwinds
I only just got into the sex toy scene in February. Since then, I have accumulated about 20 or so toys, pretty much all of them on sale. I still live with my dad, and our relationship is such that I can be like, "Hey, I'm buying and ... More
haha i mean getting there but not yet. just into it.
06/27/2013
GirlyGirlRed GirlyGirlRed
Definitely not obsessed
06/28/2013
wicked48 wicked48
Definitely not obsessed. It's a hobby. Enjoy!
06/28/2013
CamoCutie CamoCutie
You are not obsessed. It is a great hobby that is very enjoyable

When any of our packages come in my husband always just shakes his head and says "Another one?" However once I show him, he is always eager to try them out, haha!
06/28/2013
Trysexual Trysexual
My GF thinks the same thing. I'm slowing down a bit though.
06/28/2013
GingerSpice GingerSpice
yeah, i get them same reaction, i always tell my guy he's just jealous cuz he didn't get a package in the mail...lol, the more the better, some are good, and occasionally you get a dud...
06/28/2013
icyqueen icyqueen
I think you are not obsessed! It's a hobby,so enjoy!
May 25, 7:47 am
SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
Quote:
Originally posted by Silverwinds
I only just got into the sex toy scene in February. Since then, I have accumulated about 20 or so toys, pretty much all of them on sale. I still live with my dad, and our relationship is such that I can be like, "Hey, I'm buying and ... More
Crazy and obsessed? More than likely not. It is absolutely healthy to explore ones sexuality and try things that heighten pleasure. A wide variety of sex toys leads to a wide variety of possibilities when it comes to sexual experiences. So carry on and keep collecting
May 25, 10:01 am
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