At what age did you lose your virginity?

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At what age did you lose your virginity?

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Contributor: oohlookasquirrel oohlookasquirrel
I had my first penis-in-vagina sex about a month after my 17th birthday. It was my boyfriend's 17th birthday, and he said that he wanted to wait until he was 17 to go all the way, "because 17 sounds so much older than 16." So that's what we did. We'd been together for at least a year and had plenty of oral sex before that. I guess it was kind of romantic at the time, but the sex was lousy, as it would always be with this guy. He would get off in about a minute. If I gave him a blowjob first and waited 15 minutes, I could get 3-5 minutes out of him. Also, his cock was really short and fat, which is not my style.

There was no bleeding. I think I may have broken my hymen when I rode my bike straight into a curb when I was in the third grade.

I dumped the guy during my first semester at college for the guy I'm with now, 7 or 8 years later. I regret thinking so highly of my high school boyfriend, but I absolutely do not regret the sex we had. Good practice with a safe partner, even if it wasn't the best sex ever.
08/03/2010
Contributor: sexyhellokitty sexyhellokitty
I believe it was 18 with my hubby
08/09/2010
Contributor: Evoluchun Evoluchun
I was 14 when I lost mine
08/10/2010
Contributor: Kinkyquing Kinkyquing
Depending on definition, either 18 or 19. I tend to go with 18, as that was my first sexual experience--mutual masturbation. 19 is the first time I had oral (vaginal penetration isn't happening for me, so yeah).
08/26/2010
Contributor: TheCleansing TheCleansing
Quote:
Originally posted by Juliettia
I was 18.5 when I lost my virginity to my then boyfriend, now Husband. Not only did I lose that, but that day I also received my first kiss. I never dated in school because my class was full of losers and I just wasn't interested in sex with ... more
This is so adorable....I'm sorry. ^.^
08/28/2010
Contributor: brokenangel brokenangel
I had just turned 14 and he was 13, it was at a party where a friend was house sitting. There was another couple in a adjacent bed.. LOL! It hurt like hell and I remember him being sloppy at it. Just as it started to feel good he came. I was with him for 2 more years it got better but wasnt great. He could really eat some pussy though, LOL!!
08/31/2010
Contributor: clp clp
I was 22 when I had my first beer. Three months later, lost my virginity.
Goody Two-Shoes, for sure.
08/31/2010
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
I was in high school with someone older, not by much though. We had been dating for a while and finally decided to go ahead and do it. Pretty basic and I can't really compare to much. It wasn't as bad as most people make their first experience to be. I kind of do wish I could take it back because I am not with him anymore. But the actual act wasn't bad.
08/31/2010
Contributor: Lavender*Moon Lavender*Moon
I was 17 and like many of you I was wondering what the fuss was about. Since my hymen had been broken several years earlier in a bicyling accident, there wasn't any pain. Not to mention the fact that my partner was extremely small. I was more confused than anything else. I thought there was supposed to be some kind of sensation. But the only time it came close to feeling good was when he entered me from behind. Let's just say I got my first lesson in faking it.
09/04/2010
Contributor: FVWhitechapel FVWhitechapel
I was seventeen, it was in my bedroom, with a consenting, long-term boyfriend. I was very lucky that it was a very loving situation, I couldn't have asked for anything else, really. And of course it hurt at first, but it did subside, and I look back on it fondly. I'm still very good friends with that guy!
09/06/2010
Contributor: Ladylannae Ladylannae
I was 17 1/2 and he was a 19 year old pizza delivery guy with a really sweet truck. I now know it was his truck that I liked better, not really him. Turns out he was one big jerk with a really small penis.
09/07/2010
Contributor: Trashley Trashley
I was fifteen, in my best friends bed with my other friend. She was in the shower and we were watching Jerry Springer. We were having a tickle fight and then... :] One of the best seshes I've ever had actually! Good to be able to be fond of moments like that..
09/07/2010
Contributor: rumordavis rumordavis
Quote:
Originally posted by VelvetBound
I would define "losing ones virginity" as consenting to sexual intercourse. Feel free to elaborate or suggest otherwise.

Also, I would love to hear about your first experience. How was it? Where was it? Etc.

Er, hopefully ... more
boring. didnt feel a thing. didnt do it again for months after the first time. but then it was awesome
09/14/2010
Contributor: LQQKER LQQKER
I was 17, and the WILDEST 5 seconds of my life
09/16/2010
Contributor: Madeira Madeira
I was 14 or 15 when I had oral sex for the first time, I'd been with my first girlfriend for around six months. We'd messed around before that, fingers and what not, and I was quite nervous as was she. When she was nervous she talked... including with her mouth full... yeah. Um, but I count oral because I'm a dyke and so yea.
09/16/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
16 and it was aweful. dilhole wouldnt get off of me after i asked him to several times
09/21/2010
Contributor: Kcito Kcito
Quote:
Originally posted by VelvetBound
I would define "losing ones virginity" as consenting to sexual intercourse. Feel free to elaborate or suggest otherwise.

Also, I would love to hear about your first experience. How was it? Where was it? Etc.

Er, hopefully ... more
cool and interesting poll...hahha
09/23/2010
Contributor: Kcito Kcito
Quote:
Originally posted by Backseat Boohoo
I was about 16.
it is very common at that age.
09/23/2010
Contributor: Kcito Kcito
Quote:
Originally posted by Sammi
I was about 13 1/2, and I remember it was about 11pm at night, on the middle of a baseball diamond. I didn't really know what was going on - a bit naive. It hurt like hell at first!
yeah i know, me too hahaha
09/23/2010
Contributor: Kcito Kcito
Quote:
Originally posted by LikeSunshineDust
I feel like I should elaborate on mine now that everyone's telling their stories. I was visiting my boyfriend, the one I'm still with, at his college during winter break, and one night he asked me if I wanted to and I said yes. The next day ... more
i second your comment.!!!
09/23/2010
Contributor: Kcito Kcito
Quote:
Originally posted by Tuesday
It was horrible. I was way too nervous to have a chance of enjoying it.
first time is always the most unforgettable one
09/23/2010
Contributor: Kcito Kcito
Quote:
Originally posted by Valyn
Oops, I clicked on 13-15 without really reading. I was 16. He was 18. It was at like 3 in the afternoon, and I had told my mother I would be "at the library". I remember his room was kind of a mess, and though he tried, it wasn't really ... more
lol
09/23/2010
Contributor: Kcito Kcito
Quote:
Originally posted by Luscious Lily
I was a few weeks short of 19. My boyfriend and I had been together for almost a year. We had been messing around in increasingly sexual ways, to the point of naked heavy petting and what I've recently heard called ... more
lol
09/23/2010
Contributor: Kcito Kcito
Quote:
Originally posted by Envy
It was recently, last May, at 21. (I'll be 22 in a few weeks.) Didn't enjoy it, though, was in a lot of pain and then bled for 2 weeks after. My bf (who's 18 now) stopped immediately when I screamed, and I felt bad he didn't get to ... more
lol lol lol
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09/23/2010
Contributor: Kcito Kcito
Quote:
Originally posted by SilverVixen
**hoping like heck no one I know reads this** ha! I was 16.

I was always into experimenting. Queen of BJ's and teasing but I could never quite commit to going "all the way". I was really nervous about the entire concept of sex. ... more
lol lol
09/23/2010
Contributor: Kcito Kcito
Quote:
Originally posted by Reesa
Technically, I'd had sexual intercourse once before, but I really don't count myself as having lost my virginity until my first sexual experience with a girl. We were at a party at a friend's house and as the night grew late, we were ... more
lolol
09/23/2010
Contributor: Kcito Kcito
Quote:
Originally posted by LikeSunshineDust
I feel like I should elaborate on mine now that everyone's telling their stories. I was visiting my boyfriend, the one I'm still with, at his college during winter break, and one night he asked me if I wanted to and I said yes. The next day ... more
lol
09/23/2010
Contributor: lamira lamira
Unfortunately, I was too young. But, thankfully now, I know better.
10/04/2010
Contributor: Jobthingy Jobthingy
1 week before my 18th birthday.
10/04/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Upper '20s. Excited but scared (and a bit tired, too) - didn't want to hurt her, didn't really know what I was doing (I had checked things out a bit before so I had a basic idea).
10/11/2010