At what age did you lose your virginity?

Contributor: UrNaughtyaAngel UrNaughtyaAngel
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Originally posted by Reesa
Technically, I'd had sexual intercourse once before, but I really don't count myself as having lost my virginity until my first sexual experience with a girl. We were at a party at a friend's house and as the night grew late, we were ... more
Yeap one hell of a intro. Now you got my mind all thinking naughty things.
10/11/2010
Contributor: DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
I was fourteen, and I loved her more than anything in the universe.
10/11/2010
Contributor: Onanist Onanist
I was 19. It was the summer after I graduated high school. My friend and I rented a space at the local campground. We met two sisters in their late teens who were camping with their family. We took them to the nightly movie at the outdoor clubhouse. Along the way back to the campground, we stopped at a secluded lake. The girl I was with wanted to go skinning dipping. We took of our clothes and went into the water. After swimming around for a couple minutes, I approached her, took her in my arms and kissed her. We were so aroused, we were dry (wet) humping in the water. After a while. I suggested we go the grassy area by the picnic tables. We got out, dried off and put the blanket down. We laid down and started making out again side by side. I got on top of her and she guided in. It felt like my penis was surrounded by silk and it was the most luxurious feeling I have ever felt. The only drawback was that I couldn't control myself and ended up fucking her so fast that I came almost instantly. I remember her telling me to slow down, but I couldn't hold back. She asked me to perform oral on her and I was just as inept. I felt so bad I didn't please her. We walked back to camp in silence. The next day they left the campground and I never saw her again.
10/13/2010
Contributor: Unconventional Unconventional
14...and I look at 14 yr olds now and think, "Jesus, I was a little KID! WTF was I THINKING??"
10/20/2010
Contributor: Sebmissive Sebmissive
It was a few days after my 18th birthday. I lost it to my boyfriend whom I've been with since I was 16. I really wanted it be special with the right setting and all that. But a couple days before the day I planned, we were fooling around and it just kind of happened. It was amazing and didn't hurt at all, actually.
11/04/2010
Contributor: Kimbertrees Kimbertrees
My first time was when I was 14. My best friend at the time had been trying to hook me up with her boy friends best friend and eventually talked me into having sex with him. I had virtually no feelings for him and only did it the one time with him. It completely sucked. I don't like to consider it my first time though seeing as neither of us finished in the end. It was penetration, but nothing else.

Personally I try to think of the next time I had sex as my first time. It was with my high school sweetheart when we were 15. Not only did we both orgasm, but we also loved each other unlike when I actually lost my virginity. I don't really remember much about when I lost my virginity (maybe repressing memories?) but I do remember when I first had sex with my high school sweet heart.
11/04/2010
Contributor: Manajean Manajean
Quote:
Originally posted by VelvetBound
I would define "losing ones virginity" as consenting to sexual intercourse. Feel free to elaborate or suggest otherwise.

Also, I would love to hear about your first experience. How was it? Where was it? Etc.

Er, hopefully ... more
I was 17 and it was with the guy that i thought at the time was the love of my life. It was short and sweet and he put a lot of care into making sure it didnt hurt. I really enjoyed it and have never regreted it!
11/04/2010
Contributor: Lif3sambiguity Lif3sambiguity
18, and i still think that was to soon.
11/05/2010
Contributor: thegoldilocksincident thegoldilocksincident
Still a virgin.

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11/07/2010
Contributor: PussyGalore PussyGalore
I was 14, he was 19. June 25th. On my mother's living room floor. I wish I had waited until I met my husband, but if I had waited I'm not sure I would have had the skills I needed to entice him in the first place.
11/12/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I have already answered, but My Man was 14. Jeez, 14 years old. He has always been persuasive, attractive to women and horny.

Jeez, 14. I know some women who had it at 14, but very few men. He got his cherry popped by a Catholic High School girl.

When we were kids, parents would send girls (and boys) to Catholic High Schools to keep them out of "trouble." Then, as is now, it rarely works.
11/13/2010
Contributor: Dame Demi Dame Demi
I was, to the surprise of just about everyone, a late bloomer and didn't lose my virginity until I was 20--it was, sadly, also the first time I'd really been seriously kissed. I was a nerdy geek in high school; dated a little, but never long and never serious. Then I went to college, and I realized guys were actually interested in getting into my pants! Because my brain tends to sit out most of my conversations with people, I actually managed to gain a reputation as the campus slut before I'd had any form of sexual activity.

So I lost it at a party, in a run-down trailer rented by three male students. I was drunk along with everyone else, but fortunately the guy was one of my best friends. Unfortunately, neither one of us knew the other was a virgin, so we had no clue what were doing--theory without practice. It was our both oral experience, and it was probably a bad performance and experience on both our parts--I don't think he knew what he was supposed to be licking, and I don't think I knew how to cover my teeth very well.

I'd been agressive and on top for the foreplay, but since I had no clue how this worked, and that it was likely to hurt, I asked if he'd mind being on top and he agreed. Well, the alcohol didn't help--I think I was actually HOLDING a bottle of Jack Daniels at the time, which is always a great sign--but neither of us knew exactly how to fit Tab A into an elusive Hole B, and neither of us knew the other didn't know what they were doing anyway. He was having difficulty with the entry, naturally, he just didn't know why. He used his fingers to get started, and so the hymen was officially broken; but he either didn't notice the blood or thought I was having my period. I honestly think he just didn't notice. He said afterward, "Yeah, you were really getting into it when I was using my fingers;" 15 years or so later, we found each other online and I said "I hate to tell you this, but I was actually squirming around and making noise because it hurt like fucking hell." Some form of penetration was eventually achieved, but we didn't finish; first, he had trouble completing entry, basically because neither of us realized raising my knees and bending my legs would greatly facilitate the process. So yeah, as much as I hate to admit it, I was lying on my back like a clueless and drunk limp fish. It was less exciting than most celebrity sex videos--"Um, did anyone check to see if Paris is still breathing?" I didn't realize it, but apparently 6 of the other guys at the party went outside, stacked up a bunch of crap in front of the window and were trying to watch, though apparently they kept falling in a brilliant display of instant karma. My partner saw them, though, because he was facing the window and there were enough crashes and thuds coming from outside the window for him to look. He was nervous to begin with, obviously, but that kind of killed it for him. I didn't care, I was like "fuck it, let them watch," but he couldn't perform with an audience. So I guess I kind of lost it on a technicality, because penetration was achieved. I'd never used a vibe at that point, or even used tampons more than twice, so I had no idea how it was supposed to feel, and I honestly don't know how far he got before he lost it. Fortunately, we both think it's pretty funny to look back on the whole thing. So, in my official "number," I usually count him as 1/2, just because I don't know exactly what happened. It definitely was a memorable experience, though, even if not in the traditional way.
11/13/2010
Contributor: DustBunny DustBunny
Just before I turned 23. When I was younger I wanted to wait, I didn't see the point in giving it away to someone that may not matter in a month or worse wouldn't care about me afterwards. As I got older I was too busy with school to have time for a relationship. When I was about 20 I started going out with K, it was long distance, so it had to wait almost 3 years, it's now been 5 years with him. I never told him I was a virgin, but I'm sure he knew.
11/15/2010
Contributor: kermi91 kermi91
I think I was 17...in my boyfriends basement while his parents were upstairs. It was painful and awkward.
11/15/2010
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
Five days before my 17th bday in the front seat of hubby's car. Not overly romantic but it's gotten considerably better lol
11/15/2010
Contributor: asdfjkl; asdfjkl;
17. it felt good, no blood. i didnt do any work tho. lol
11/27/2010
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
I was 13 and I talked him into it. He was my boyfriend of 8 months, which is a long time when you're in grade 8. I didn't want to be a virgin, I felt like it was a milestone I wanted to just get over with on my own terms so I could start having fun and not have to worry about it being a big monumental thing of the future.
It hurt but it was also very silly. Ended up happening on the floor of my best friend's bedroom while she was downstairs. In hindsight I was way too young, but I wouldn't change anything I have no regrets
12/03/2010
Contributor: Mistress Kitty Mistress Kitty
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Originally posted by Backseat Boohoo
Er, addendum: I'm assuming sexual abuse doesn't count.
Ahhh see I counted that... otherwise it would be 16 as well.
12/08/2010
Contributor: SingingStarr SingingStarr
18, a few months after I turned legal. It was on the first night I met a guy I'd been dating online for 2 years at that point. It was much more for him, than me, and it hurt. Hardly any foreplay at all, I was not really wet, and he was much too big for just going straight in, even if it hadn't been my first time. I never came, though he did. Was not enjoyable, and if I could, I would not have let it happen.
12/08/2010
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
I was 16. It happened in the backseat of a car. Not a great first time.
12/08/2010
Contributor: Kiwi Kiwi
I was 18. Drunk. In a park. With my boyfriend of a few months.
12/16/2010
Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
My first boyfriend, we were both 16.
12/20/2010
Contributor: GeekWife GeekWife
Technically, I was barely 15 and it was with my now husband who was 16 at the time. It hurt me so much, we didn't even finish. Not the best experience unfortunately. But it sure got better later on
12/20/2010
Contributor: Funsize Funsize
Quote:
Originally posted by VelvetBound
I would define "losing ones virginity" as consenting to sexual intercourse. Feel free to elaborate or suggest otherwise.

Also, I would love to hear about your first experience. How was it? Where was it? Etc.

Er, hopefully ... more
I was 17. I lost it to my best friend who loved me, and I loved him. It was a special day. He picked me up at 7 am, and we went to the gym first. When we got to his house, we took a shower together. After lying in the bed together, I told him to put it in. It didn't hurt too much since I broke my hymen already through masturbation. He was so gentle with me, and he made my first time special. We did it 4 times in 3 hours.
12/22/2010
Contributor: Airekah Airekah
I was 17 and regretted it.
12/26/2010
Contributor: Xavier7 Xavier7
Quote:
Originally posted by VelvetBound
I would define "losing ones virginity" as consenting to sexual intercourse. Feel free to elaborate or suggest otherwise.

Also, I would love to hear about your first experience. How was it? Where was it? Etc.

Er, hopefully ... more
I was 15. Feel like shit for it too.
12/26/2010
Contributor: Xavier7 Xavier7
Quote:
Originally posted by Backseat Boohoo
Er, addendum: I'm assuming sexual abuse doesn't count.
Doesn't it? Do you still count yourself a virgin if you were assaulted?
12/26/2010
Contributor: Darling Jen Darling Jen
Quote:
Originally posted by Xavier7
Doesn't it? Do you still count yourself a virgin if you were assaulted?
I think you definitely can if that's how you feel. Being assaulted or rape definitely isn't at all like willingly sharing your body and being part of a consensual sexual experience. One is all about pain and fear and the other is all about pleasurable sensation, maybe some awkward laughing, and some semi-innocent exploration.
12/27/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Xavier7
Doesn't it? Do you still count yourself a virgin if you were assaulted?
Yeah, I do.

Abuse doesn't count. It isn't sex, it's assault.
12/29/2010
Contributor: leanright69 leanright69
Had hoped it would have been earlier. I was very shy. But looking back, I am glad I do not have any emotional baggage from having sex with someone that didn't deserve me.
12/31/2010