At what age did you lose your virginity?

Contributor: CynicallyYours CynicallyYours
i lost my "virginity" to a boy when i was 17 but i was 12 when i started having sex with girls.
02/23/2011
Contributor: slynch slynch
21 to my ex-wife
03/06/2011
Contributor: zracer zracer
i was 16, and not the most romanitc way
03/06/2011
Contributor: Alyxx Alyxx
I lost my virginity at 14 to my first boyfriend, a week or two after we had technically split up, owing partly to both of our parents bitching about the age difference (he was a month away from turning 18.) We had fooled around a little while we were dating, but I didn't actually get the courage to give him a blowjob until the night we split up and decided just to be friends with benefits. The relationship itself was pretty casual to begin with, no serious feelings, just mutual attraction. I went to hang out with him one day over the Thanksgiving break, we started fooling around, and we ended up having sex. Anal sex, actually. He was a bit nervous about breaking-my-hymen-taki ng-my-virginity (although it was probably broken years before) or possibly getting me pregnant, due to the age difference, and loved anal anyway. I had no objections to anal, and did it gladly. It actually felt pretty good. Then we went bowling with friends, haha. The really funny part is it was the first time I went bowling, too. We hooked up off and on for a few months, but we didn't have vaginal sex for the first few times. When we did, it didn't hurt but it didn't feel great either, and the only regret I have about that 'first time' is not getting on top when he suggested it, haha. I wasn't sure what I should do if I did, so we stuck to positions where he was in control.
The biggest reason for me not regretting losing my virginity so young by having non-romantic anal sex with a guy I had no real feelings for is this - a few months later I wound up in a sexual relationship with a good male friend (also almost 18) and his girlfriend, who I had known in jr high but hadn't seen in a couple years, which was amazing and taught me so much about what I enjoy sexually. This probably wouldn't have happened if I were a virgin, it started off as another friends with benefits situation, he liked me and his girlfriend (they were semi-long distance at the time) did too, so she approved of him being with me even when she wasn't there. He didn't want to take my virginity in a situation like that. The two of them are still together, and we are still really good friends. Hell, they drove 9+ hours on a whim so he could hang out with me one night when my ex was working overnight and he knew I would be alone and bored all night. Never got a better surprise than him calling me after I got off work asking which apartment was mine, because he was outside and it was cold.
03/07/2011
Contributor: THUMPER THUMPER
Quote:
Originally posted by VelvetBound
I would define "losing ones virginity" as consenting to sexual intercourse. Feel free to elaborate or suggest otherwise.

Also, I would love to hear about your first experience. How was it? Where was it? Etc.

Er, hopefully ... more
I was 19 and initiated it with my then-boyfriend in my bedroom at home (with my family downstairs!). He was so sweet and supportive - we had a 15 minute discussion about if I was really ready before I flung the condom at him. During he was gentle and slow and kept asking me if I was okay, how it felt, what felt better, etc. It was okay, pretty painful at times, so we decided to wait a little while before doing it again. When I finally felt ready, after a month or two, we went at it like rabbits! It's 10 years later and now we're best friends.....with benefits
03/09/2011
Contributor: 0 0
I consider my true "first time" as being at 17, (When I was already a sophomore in college. But I voted as 15...because I fail at reading *facepalm*
03/09/2011
Contributor: aBeastlyLittleThing aBeastlyLittleThing
Quote:
Originally posted by VelvetBound
I would define "losing ones virginity" as consenting to sexual intercourse. Feel free to elaborate or suggest otherwise.

Also, I would love to hear about your first experience. How was it? Where was it? Etc.

Er, hopefully ... more
i was technically 15, but almost 16!
03/10/2011
Contributor: iLashe iLashe
13; after being pleasured for a long time lingually, it took a few times to work out the fit.
03/13/2011
Contributor: SerenityRed SerenityRed
The first guy I had sex with was so small (diameter and length) that my hymen was never actually torn... Then about 6 months later I had sex with another guy who was MUCH bigger that all of a sudden I was in pain and bleeding. D: It was not fun. But at least I got to say I lost my virginity twice!
03/14/2011
Contributor: Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
Back room of a laundromat during business hours with an 18 year old while on a church trip to the Jersey shore. Real story. Swear on it.
03/14/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
we where both 16.
03/14/2011
Contributor: bobowaxer bobowaxer
I was 13, my girfriend was 12! I was already a pervert at 13? We dated for four wonderful years. Our first few experiences were naturally awkward, I remember thinking "this isn't all that it's cracked up to be". However, within a short time we found that practice makes perfect and I was very eager to make it to Carnegie Hall.
03/14/2011
Contributor: Skitlz Skitlz
Quote:
Originally posted by VelvetBound
I would define "losing ones virginity" as consenting to sexual intercourse. Feel free to elaborate or suggest otherwise.

Also, I would love to hear about your first experience. How was it? Where was it? Etc.

Er, hopefully ... more
Around 16.
03/14/2011
Contributor: The Unnamed The Unnamed
30+
03/21/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
18, in college and I wish I could redo it. Live and learn.
05/10/2011
Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
Still have mine. I'm rather love-shy, and have only been in two or three very short, awkward relationships that never got past kissing. Thank goodness for sex toys - they help to keep my single life interesting!
05/10/2011
Contributor: emiliaa emiliaa
Shortly after I turned 18... xD Feels like such a *normal* age to lose it in this society. It was awkward as hell but I'm still friends with my first, which I find quite impressive. :3 We weren't for a while because we had tried to make it a relationship when we were better off being friends with benefits. XD
06/20/2011
Contributor: Noira Celestia Noira Celestia
I was fourteen almost fifteen and had a seventeen year old boyfriend.
06/22/2011
Contributor: lzbncrckhead lzbncrckhead
Quote:
Originally posted by VelvetBound
I would define "losing ones virginity" as consenting to sexual intercourse. Feel free to elaborate or suggest otherwise.

Also, I would love to hear about your first experience. How was it? Where was it? Etc.

Er, hopefully ... more
it was so awkward and funny, im glad it happened but nothing special
07/03/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
My first time, I was 18 years old.
07/12/2011
Contributor: amandaco2011 amandaco2011
It was with my current partner. It wasn't anything real special hurt a little but he was very gentle and made sure I was ok.
07/13/2011
Contributor: Cora Jane Cora Jane
I can't remember if I was 20 or 21 but it was around there. It wasn't that great, I remember being a little disappointed.
07/13/2011
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
I was 14, he was 16, and I really wish I had understood was sex was SUPPOSED to be! I should have held out a little bit longer and had it with my lovely boyfriend of 2 1/2 years... (I was his first, we were both 16)
07/13/2011
Contributor: Jaimes Jaimes
I was a month over 18, and had been on the pill for about 3 weeks. I was terrified of sex, but when I met my husband, who was 12 years older and previously married, I found someone that I trusted and wanted to explore sex with. He knew I was scared of getting pregnant, and so we waited until I could get myself on bc, and then we used condoms for quite awhile before trusting the pill.

When I technically lost my virginity, it was one time penetration and then over. It was in complete darkness, we had a towel spread out for any bleeding, and it was slow and experimental, because we just wanted to break the hymen and stop, since it was incredibly painful for me. After that, our real first time was romantic, slow and incredibly loving. I was glad I had waited for someone who made sex special. We've been rabbits now for over 7 years.
07/13/2011
Contributor: southern woman southern woman
I lost mine at 17 to my fiance. We were gonna be married right out of highschool. I went thru months of pain when he broke up with me first day of school our Senior year. It really sucked, but everything happens for a reason.
07/14/2011
Contributor: mmike mmike
19. Just a few months shy of my 20th birthday. She was a couple years older than me and a hell of a lot more experienced. Before her, I never knew some people used their mouth to put a condom on a dick.
07/16/2011
Contributor: LostBoy988 LostBoy988
Quote:
Originally posted by VelvetBound
I would define "losing ones virginity" as consenting to sexual intercourse. Feel free to elaborate or suggest otherwise.

Also, I would love to hear about your first experience. How was it? Where was it? Etc.

Er, hopefully ... more
At the ripe age of 16
08/06/2011
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
Two months before my 19th birthday.
08/06/2011
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by ColorSplash
Still a virgin atm
Ahh I am jealous.
08/06/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
sixteen was first time I had intercourse, I had sex with a female first at about 10
08/08/2011