Best way to transition from clit stimulation to vaginal?

caramilk caramilk
i'm not very experienced in vaginal stimulation, i experience a lot of pain and discomfort when i try to penetrate during solo play. are there any good ways to make the transition?
07/04/2013
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Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
I'd start with just a finger or a toy 1" or less in diameter (the Silk Small and Medium from Tantus are good "first time" dildos). Make sure you're fully relaxed and keep a bottle of lube handy. You might even try stimulating your clit first before moving on to vaginal - a lot of women find this helps them relax and warm up. And above all take your time.

If you continue to feel pain even with fingers/small toys and lots of warm-up, there could be a medical issue at hand. You may actually want to talk to your doctor and make sure nothing's wrong physically.
07/04/2013
caramilk caramilk
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Originally posted by Rin (aka Nire)
I'd start with just a finger or a toy 1" or less in diameter (the Silk Small and Medium from Tantus are good "first time" dildos). Make sure you're fully relaxed and keep a bottle of lube handy. You might even try stimulating ... More
thanks this is really helpful!
07/07/2013
edeneve edeneve
this dilator set might be helpful Dr. Laura Berman dilator set
07/07/2013
wicked48 wicked48
I start with stimulating my clit first until I'm relaxed. I then move on to my vagina using my fingers before I move on to using my toys. I always have my bottle of lube handy and take my time.
07/08/2013
caramilk caramilk
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Originally posted by edeneve
this dilator set might be helpful Dr. Laura Berman dilator set
oooh thanks, i've never seen this
07/09/2013
caramilk caramilk
Quote:
Originally posted by wicked48
I start with stimulating my clit first until I'm relaxed. I then move on to my vagina using my fingers before I move on to using my toys. I always have my bottle of lube handy and take my time.
thanks for the advice
07/09/2013
lalalalove lalalalove
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Originally posted by caramilk
i'm not very experienced in vaginal stimulation, i experience a lot of pain and discomfort when i try to penetrate during solo play. are there any good ways to make the transition?
Start with a small finger, maybe even a pinky.
08/05/2013
lalalalove lalalalove
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Originally posted by lalalalove
Start with a small finger, maybe even a pinky.
Oh and use some lube!
08/05/2013
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