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I have been looking at some chastity toys for men. They look kind of scary and intimidating, but I'm still kind of interested. Have any of you used this toys before? And what have you thought of them? If you haven't used these before, what do
I have been looking at some chastity toys for men. They look kind of scary and intimidating, but I'm still kind of interested. Have any of you used this toys before? And what have you thought of them? If you haven't used these before, what do you think about them? Are you interested at all? Why or why not?
I'm in one now. The bon4, not the best because i can slip out of it if i use enough lube but, I do have some self-control.
Being between partners I'd be relying on relying on self-control anyways. My keys are safely frozen in a block of ice in the freezer. That way even with hot water its going to take a few minutes to get them out even if i use hot water.
Chasity toys are something you have to work up to. From what I've gathered they all rub or pinch or otherwise put the boys an in unaccustomed way. It takes some time to get used to that. So the recommendation is to take it slow. After a few hours the silicone starts to stick to the skin and a little extra lube needs to be fondled into all the tight places to keep things from getting unconformable. Then after several hours my boys turn red and get really sensitive. That's when it time to take it off. Before things start hurting. Each time the boys and i can last for a little longer. Right now I'm working towards a full night but right now 7 or 8 house is all i can stand. With some external encouragement i could probably move a bit faster but, rushing would be bad.
So much for the down sides, the positive's make it fun. My device is very conformable trying to get an erection is like a firm pressure holding me down. I can move the device around my member and get some feeling but only enough to drive me crazy. As i try to get excited or someone tries to excite me the pressure builds, and builds. This can last all day. Soon I want to do anything, I'll willing to do anything at all, not to get out so much as to keep the feeling going. To keep it building. Sure i want to out but, I also want the feeling.
Finally when I am out everything is different, even the coldness of the air stirs me. Much more sensitive and all the excitement need to find a release, and it releases in great quantity.
So to answer your questions. Yes, I do use them, i enjoy them and i would very much like to explore this play a lot more.
I hope that helps.