I love to shave it, love the way it feels shaved, love the way sex feels with it shaved, love the way it makes my cock look bigger shaved...BUT, when the hair starts growing back it drives me f-n crazy. It's so much work to keep up with it and it gets tender from shaving, so I usually just keep it trimmed despite all the advantages to a clean shave.
I actually find it really disgusting when a guy shaves! I don't know what it is, but I have never liked it. I've always found the sight of a male's pubic hair to be a huge turn on. A lot of my friends complain that it gets in the way when licking the balls, or going down... but I've never had that problem. I guess I'm good at working around it. My fiance shaves and I've begged him not to a million times but his issue is he has skin rash, so it's not something I'm going to hold against him.
I think a little nip here and a little nip there will make the cock look longer. When the woman takes the time to look good down there, why not us guys take the time to do the same. If a woman likes that 5’o’clock shadow on a man’s chiseled face, why not have the same picture in another hairy area too?!
Him being neatly trimmed or shaven....it's all good! If you're gonna shave, get the the perineum shaved as well! It feels great and smooth to lick. BTW, I think shaving one another is very sensuous as both the shaver and recipient.