do you regret the person you lost your virginity to?

aBeastlyLittleThing aBeastlyLittleThing
did he turn out to be an asshole...or for any other reasons...do you wish it was someone else?
03/10/2011
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Jul!a Jul!a
I don't. At the time, he was my best friend. He later turned out to be a giant asshole stuck on whatever the latest technology trend was, but at the time, not so bad. It wasn't all that special, but i definitely don't regret it.
03/10/2011
extrafun extrafun
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Originally posted by aBeastlyLittleThing
did he turn out to be an asshole...or for any other reasons...do you wish it was someone else?
I loved it, we had sex for several months, and are still in touch 25 years later. And no im not married to her.
03/10/2011
markeagleone markeagleone
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Originally posted by aBeastlyLittleThing
did he turn out to be an asshole...or for any other reasons...do you wish it was someone else?
You forgot the male portion, and yes, I do regret it.
03/10/2011
KsPlaything KsPlaything
Yes! He was a sex offender!
03/28/2011
MaryExy MaryExy
There wasn't anything bad about the guy, but I just didn't really care before we had sex. So maybe wish I had saved it for a little later in that relationship, but I was younger and a little jaded about it.
03/28/2011
Ansley Ansley
Do I regret that he exists or that he had sex with me? The former no, because I wouldn't be here. The latter, well let's say a psychologist would make a fortune off of me.

Yes, I wish it had been someone else. But, it wasn't and I can't change that. And life goes on.
03/28/2011
Jobthingy Jobthingy
I cannot stand him as a person but without that part of my life I would not have my daughter.
03/28/2011
wetone123 wetone123
Yes! Unfortunately, I married him too. As Ansley said, I can't change it so...life goes on!
03/28/2011
Joly Joly
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Originally posted by aBeastlyLittleThing
did he turn out to be an asshole...or for any other reasons...do you wish it was someone else?
Yes, I regret my first. He was a kiss and tell kind of guy. I went to a small college with a tiny campus and it was hard to live down. Not because I had sex with him, but what he said our sex life was like (all untrue).
03/28/2011
Oxygen99 Oxygen99
Yeah, he turned out to be an asshole, but I don't regret my first time being with him.
03/29/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I waited til I was 100% ready so I have never had a second of regret at all! I'm very happy with the way it happened!
03/29/2011
married with children married with children
not at all, we are still together after 18 years.
03/29/2011
froggiemoma froggiemoma
yes, i do regret, wish it had been someone else
03/29/2011
KrystalFayeO KrystalFayeO
I wish that I would have waited until I was actually in love. I was just 18 and I was tired of being the only virgin of all of my friends. I don't regret it that much because he was a really nice guy and we are still friends, but I wasn't in love =/
03/31/2011
tickle me pink tickle me pink
I lost mine to my husband and don't regret it at all.
03/31/2011
PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
I'm still with him, so no, I do not regret it at all.
03/31/2011
Trillian Trillian
Yes. It was with someone I had no feelings for and it felt really cheap. Even though I am a guy and all sex is good I really regret it not being more special or with someone I at least had feelings for.
06/13/2011
Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
Yes. Very, very much so.
06/19/2011
irishlove irishlove
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Originally posted by aBeastlyLittleThing
did he turn out to be an asshole...or for any other reasons...do you wish it was someone else?
I wish I hadn't lost it so young at the age of 14, but I don't regret it because I was with that guy for 3 more years after that.
06/19/2011
bayosgirl bayosgirl
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Originally posted by Ansley
Do I regret that he exists or that he had sex with me? The former no, because I wouldn't be here. The latter, well let's say a psychologist would make a fortune off of me.



Yes, I wish it had been someone else. But, it ... More
Oh God I'm so sorry.
07/17/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by aBeastlyLittleThing
did he turn out to be an asshole...or for any other reasons...do you wish it was someone else?
Nope. I married him after years in an Open Relationship. I needed more experience and was very young when I started dating him.

I was particular, turned down a few guys before I decided I wanted My Man to be the first. I wasn't looking for some unbelievable experience the first times, I KNEW it probably wouldn't be that (although it was really nice and pleasant. I really enjoyed myself the first time.) I just wanted to find someone I liked and trusted enough.

I don't think virginity is that big of a deal anyway. If I had had PIV sex first with someone else, it would have NO impact on my life now.
07/17/2011
Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by bayosgirl
Oh God I'm so sorry.
*hugs* Don't be sorry for me , that one experience shaped my entire personality and outlook on life in an instant and it led me straight into the arms of my husband. Changing it may have prevented me from finding him! And I do love him wiht my entire soul!
07/17/2011
Ryuson Ryuson
He was a jerk, and I should have just held out for my current boyfriend
07/17/2011
Elnoa Elnoa
It was awful sex, but he was a good first boyfriend and I don't regret it at all.
07/17/2011
Ava5 Ava5
I barely remember what it was like to be with him, but I don't regret it at all. He was a good first boyfriend.
07/31/2011
sktb0007 sktb0007
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Originally posted by aBeastlyLittleThing
did he turn out to be an asshole...or for any other reasons...do you wish it was someone else?
absolutely.
08/01/2011
ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
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Originally posted by Shellz31
I waited til I was 100% ready so I have never had a second of regret at all! I'm very happy with the way it happened!
I waited as well and couldn't be happier with my man.
08/01/2011
Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
Not really, I take it as a learning experience and move on.
08/02/2011
CamelliaGirl CamelliaGirl
I loved her very much...possibly too much...she's a really great person and I still want her, but we could have gone about it differently.
02/05/2012
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