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did he turn out to be an asshole...or for any other reasons...do you wish it was someone else?
Nope. I married him after years in an Open Relationship. I needed more experience and was very young when I started dating him.
I was particular, turned down a few guys before I decided I wanted My Man to be the first. I wasn't looking for some unbelievable experience the first times, I KNEW it probably wouldn't be that (although it was really nice and pleasant. I really enjoyed myself the first time.) I just wanted to find someone I liked and trusted enough.
I don't think virginity is that big of a deal anyway. If I had had PIV sex first with someone else, it would have NO impact on my life now.