Dom?

Kaltir Kaltir
So I see quite a few male doms here, but don't think I've seen a female dominatrix yet. I was wondering how many of you are into that lifestyle?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I am a female top.
DeliciousSurprise , Lady Marmelade , Kayla , Sex'и'Violence , sweetpea12
5  (11%)
I am a female bottom.
MaryExy , padmeamidala , toxie m , sexy19364 , Shellz31 , froggiemoma , ichwillwaffels , bluekaren , potstickers , Taylor , Karen Affeldt , jc123 , Gimme more, woah! , Velocity , inkky
15  (32%)
I am a male top.
Sir , That Man from Mars , dv8 , Errant Venture
4  (9%)
I am a male bottom.
Rainbow Boy , Lio
2  (4%)
I/we switch it up.
BBW Talks Toys , Lucidity , Alan & Michele , REDRUM , Eden C. , Lummox , sixfootsex , Pixel , Anjulie , cburger , Love&War , Brandi Rouxxx , UunicornN , nemesys , emiliaa , Stinkytofu10 , GONE! , GirlOnGirl
18  (38%)
I/we're not into that.
married with children , ~KillerQueen~
2  (4%)
Other?
Pixie5
1  (2%)
Total votes: 47
Poll is closed
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MaryExy MaryExy
I know I've seen posts from female doms... or at least that's what I thought they sounded like... I'm a sub, though
03/31/2011
DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
Hello Domina here. There are several of us on EF
03/31/2011
padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Kaltir
So I see quite a few male doms here, but don't think I've seen a female dominatrix yet. I was wondering how many of you are into that lifestyle?
I'm a female bottom.
03/31/2011
Chilipepper Chilipepper
I believe a few of our doms don't have a strict 'one or the other' gender, either.
03/31/2011
BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
I could see myself being someone's sub full-time for the right person, but that's not our dynamic. We switch, but lately I've been getting more in touch with my "bottom" side... that sounded weird.... lol
03/31/2011
DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
I believe a few of our doms don't have a strict 'one or the other' gender, either.
This.

Not everyone subscribes to the gender binary.

03/31/2011
MaryExy MaryExy
Quote:
Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
I could see myself being someone's sub full-time for the right person, but that's not our dynamic. We switch, but lately I've been getting more in touch with my "bottom" side... that sounded weird.... lol
ha!

Every now and then I'll ponder whether it would be fun to try to restrain my guy for some kind of teasing, but in the end I don't think I'd want to do it. Most I'd do is just tell him to sit somewhere and not touch. Then he could easily take control when ready.
03/31/2011
Cream in the Cupcake Cream in the Cupcake
I prefer to be dom but my bf isnt into that stuff anyway
03/31/2011
BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
Quote:
Originally posted by MaryExy
ha!



Every now and then I'll ponder whether it would be fun to try to restrain my guy for some kind of teasing, but in the end I don't think I'd want to do it. Most I'd do is just tell him to sit somewhere and not ... More
There's definitely a mental place you have to go for both, and not everyone can be both. Just like I couldn't solely domme. I think I could solely sub, but again, for the right person.
03/31/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I'm definitely a sub!
04/01/2011
Kayla Kayla
Quote:
Originally posted by DeliciousSurprise
Hello Domina here. There are several of us on EF
Domme here too. It's even in my username.
04/01/2011
DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
Quote:
Originally posted by Kayla
Domme here too. It's even in my username.
I was gonna reference you as one of the several, but I figured you'd pop up sooner or later
04/01/2011
Pixel Pixel
I'm a switch with strong Domme leanings.
04/01/2011
Anjulie Anjulie
Quote:
Originally posted by Pixel
I'm a switch with strong Domme leanings.
Ditto.
04/01/2011
froggiemoma froggiemoma
female bottom
04/03/2011
Love&War Love&War
We switch it up. You can learn a great deal from each other's sexuality with an open mind!
04/07/2011
ichwillwaffels ichwillwaffels
Quote:
Originally posted by Kaltir
So I see quite a few male doms here, but don't think I've seen a female dominatrix yet. I was wondering how many of you are into that lifestyle?
I prefer to be on bottom. Sadly my bf prefers it the other way around.
04/18/2011
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
We switch, but not often. I prefer to be the bottom, but every now and then I get a wild hair up my ass and want to be the dom. Hubby loves it.
04/18/2011
bluekaren bluekaren
I am a submissive but he does not exploit that in our relationship. We have a good balance in the relationship, in the bedroom he takes over.
04/18/2011
Sir Sir
I am a male Dominant.
06/10/2011
SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
One of my close girlfriends was a dominatrix in a dungeon in Brooklyn years ago. I personally need to have a dominant man, but do like to switch (to the extreme too) once in a while. I'm so hoping the guy I recently asked out is the type of dominant I like. I'm about 98% sure he is, though.
07/11/2011
Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Dominant Female and her submissive male here
07/11/2011
emiliaa emiliaa
I don't subscribe to those labels, I switch it up a lot.
07/11/2011
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Switching is fun, we switch a lot!
12/11/2011
KarmaKill KarmaKill
Quote:
Originally posted by Kaltir
So I see quite a few male doms here, but don't think I've seen a female dominatrix yet. I was wondering how many of you are into that lifestyle?
I love it, I love to switch
12/11/2011
sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by Kaltir
So I see quite a few male doms here, but don't think I've seen a female dominatrix yet. I was wondering how many of you are into that lifestyle?
I am not one but I love femdom porn. It's really empowering and all the sexual teasing really gets me going!! I love it
04/08/2012
inkky inkky
Female pet (bottom)
01/31/2013
GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
I identify as a switch but it's not a 50/50 split and I prefer the domme role more often.
01/31/2013
higs higs
Male dom here!
01/31/2013
Total posts: 30
Unique posters: 26