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I found myself getting slightly jealous about my boyfriend's masturbator last night. Even though I know it's silly. Does anyone else get like this?
No, but that's because my partner doesn't use the masturbators. I would feel funny if he was interested in them, considering that I am happy to have sex ANY time. It'd feel that I wasn't good enough. We're not the kind of couple who goes without each other ever so I would wonder why he wanted a piece of plastic to do the job instead. So I think it's very understandable to have those feelings. Maybe some of us are a little sensitive in that way, but what was ever wrong with being sensitive, right?
My partner has no interest in the masturbators and I am glad because I'd want to be the one he goes to for sex. I'd be missing out.
For me, toys just don't do it like the real thing. I do not use my toys as a replacement for sex EVER. They are strictly used for foreplay only and that's how I want it to be so I expect the same from him. Masturbators ARE a replacement for sex.
Other male toys, although there aren't many, I wouldn't mind him being interested in. Foreplay toys wouldn't bother me, it's the replacing me that would bother me.