Feelings on anal sex??

brown eyed fox brown eyed fox
brown eyed fox
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My husband and I have never tried anal. Does it feel good for women or does it hurt?? He really wants to try it.. I just think its really going to hurt if I let him try.. What are your experiences? how does it feel???
02/25/2013
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SMichelle SMichelle
Honestly, some women like it, and others don't.

I'm indifferent to it. I don't hate it, though I used to. It used to hurt me very badly, but that was mostly due to the fact that my partner at the time was inconsiderate to my needs.
02/25/2013
brown eyed fox brown eyed fox
Well is it something I could get used to? Is there anything that I or my husband need to know to make it hurt less??
02/25/2013
Hummingbird Hummingbird
I'm just getting used to bit plugs and am looking forward to anal sex if e butt plus feel that good the the real thing must be better.
02/26/2013
libbyv libbyv
start with some small toys, work your way up
02/26/2013
Adnerbmw Adnerbmw
My husband and I started him using a finger when going down on me to get me used to it, and when we did finally do it we used a lot of lube and went slow. I enjoy the feeling, its a mix of the simple act of it being a taboo and the feeling of it that does it for me. When you do it the first few times it will need to be a slow process, go slow and use lots of lube, you need to relax totally, if your tense at all its gonna be hard. Make short slow movements. Its something that needs to be slowly started and eventually you will be able to be a little crazier with it. Even after doing it as much as i have it will hurt if i am tense at all. Just relax and try to enjoy the experience. hope this helped you.
02/26/2013
brown eyed fox brown eyed fox
Thanks for all the help
What plugs would you recommend for a beginner?
02/26/2013
gothicwhispers gothicwhispers
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Originally posted by Adnerbmw
My husband and I started him using a finger when going down on me to get me used to it, and when we did finally do it we used a lot of lube and went slow. I enjoy the feeling, its a mix of the simple act of it being a taboo and the feeling of it that ... More
This is good advice. Lots and lots of lube. I like using a vibrator or masturbating when he inserts his penis. Also, ask him if he will pull out a bit when he orgasms (so he's closer to the entrance) and then immediately go to the toilet and "evacuate", as my husband and I put it. It always gives me and a lot of other women I know diarrhea (the semen does).
02/28/2013
brown eyed fox brown eyed fox
Thank you that is good to know. I didn't know that...
02/28/2013
melliegirl melliegirl
use lots of lube and go really slow until you are used to it. Your body must be relaxed to help it hurt less. It will probably hurt in the beginning but after practice you may start to enjoy it.
02/28/2013
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