Female vs. Male Toy Ownership

NightKat NightKat
I've come to realize that most toy owners are female, which makes a lot of sense. However, I'm a male that owns almost all of the toys used for female playmates. I'm curious to see the breakdown for who owns the toys!
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I'm a female and I own toys just for me or other girls
eggiweg , Bullfroggy and Rose , Spring , Twirls , Femme Mystique , laflauta , hot lil momma , kellydouglas18 , zecookiepuss , cutiefairyprincess , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , clockwork451 , DeliciousSurprise , Girly Juice , Ex-prude , jr2012 , Arlinnae , Rin (aka Nire) , lovebites , LanaBean , ghalik
21  (32%)
I'm a female and I own toys for me and any male partners I might have
MissMori , solitudinarian , Undecided , Modern^Spank^Anthem , Robespierrethecat
5  (8%)
I'm a male and I own toys just for me or other males
ijustgotta , nsavetheworld
2  (3%)
I'm a male and I own toys for me and any female partners I might have
Tork48309 , MrPink , Gary A. , Sir , Trysexual , Mikemanz , MrWill , Robinhoood
8  (12%)
We purchased our toys together
humpday , ashley2424 , Gunsmoke , Abombadong , rom323 , Deeder , rockblenny , potstickers , lilacviolet , LavenderSkies , no longer here , SecretKinksters , PropertyOfPotter , leanright69 , ellieprobable
15  (23%)
Other, explain below if you would like
Scrawberry78 , - Kira - , BoobCopter , SubmissiveFeminist , XYCopperheadSly , sunkissedJess , JennSenn , comatose-kitty , Rossie , Kitt Katt , AK Bunny , SoloJoe , *Camoprincess* , edeneve
14  (22%)
Total votes: 65
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07/28/2012
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Scrawberry78 Scrawberry78
My boyfriend has his toys and I have my toys.
07/28/2012
- Kira - - Kira -
Quote:
Originally posted by Scrawberry78
My boyfriend has his toys and I have my toys.
Same with us.
07/28/2012
MissMori MissMori
Gah! Should have clicked "other"! My toys are mostly for me, but sometimes I use them with my main partner who is male. I haven't used them with other women, but wouldn't be against it!
And I can't vote for Him, but said partner has quite a collection to use on women.
07/28/2012
Spring Spring
My toys and just for me.
07/28/2012
SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
I own personal toys, as well as toys available for Dominant partners to use on me.
07/28/2012
XYCopperheadSly XYCopperheadSly
I own toys for me and any partners I may have, male or female or intersex or whatever.
07/28/2012
MrPink MrPink
I am a male and I own most of the toys I use with women. This is currently only restraints, clamps, and flogging/ striking tools. However, I am very interested in getting my own set of vibrators/ dildos/ plugs/ beads for use with others. I have no interest in using them on myself but counting on her to have these things is getting a little old.

I've had fun with exes using their particular toys then been let down when new partners have different or insufficient toy selections. I'm a bit of a control freak/ perfectionist so I think I'll have to invest in some additional 'tools' to make sure we're not restrained.
07/28/2012
JennSenn JennSenn
My toys are for me, and me alone atm. Maybe later they will be shared, but not right now.
07/29/2012
Femme Mystique Femme Mystique
I own toys and share them with my female partner.
07/29/2012
Mitzuki Mitzuki
I own the toys, but they are shared with my male partner from time to time.
07/29/2012
hot lil momma hot lil momma
My toys are for me. My partner helps choose many of them though
07/29/2012
kellydouglas18 kellydouglas18
i have my own toys
07/29/2012
zecookiepuss zecookiepuss
Quote:
Originally posted by Femme Mystique
I own toys and share them with my female partner.
Same.
07/29/2012
Rossie Rossie
I order toys and they're just for me, but I'll let my husband give a helping hand.
07/29/2012
solitudinarian solitudinarian
I own all the toys. Some I use on myself, some we use on each other. If I bought him a masturbator, that would be his to keep. I own dildos I've bought specifically to use on him because they can be used on me too.
07/29/2012
cutiefairyprincess cutiefairyprincess
All the toys I have are for female use. Other than some bondage stuff
07/29/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I bought all the toys my wife has - and just started buying some specific for me.
07/30/2012
PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I have toys for me and some couple toys.
07/30/2012
Abombadong Abombadong
we buy ours together. It's more fun and intimate that way,
07/30/2012
AK Bunny AK Bunny
Quote:
Originally posted by NightKat
I've come to realize that most toy owners are female, which makes a lot of sense. However, I'm a male that owns almost all of the toys used for female playmates. I'm curious to see the breakdown for who owns the toys!
My toys are for me. I've let my partner joint me with them on rare occasion and I've let a female friend borrow one, because she really wanted to get into toys, but was a bit nervous. In general though, they're just for me.
07/30/2012
Gary A. Gary A.
Quote:
Originally posted by NightKat
I've come to realize that most toy owners are female, which makes a lot of sense. However, I'm a male that owns almost all of the toys used for female playmates. I'm curious to see the breakdown for who owns the toys!
I'm a male and I own lots of toys. I love them, and MANY guys here on Eden have their own toys. I share some with some of my sexual encounters.
07/30/2012
SoloJoe SoloJoe
i buy for me but when im with somebody its for us
07/31/2012
Sir Sir
I own toys and BDSM products for myself and people that I'll use them on. I know how to care for my things, so I do not worry too much about it.
07/31/2012
clockwork451 clockwork451
Just toys for me--so far
07/31/2012
Trysexual Trysexual
I have my toys, she has her toys and we buy some together too. One little happy family.
07/31/2012
Mikemanz Mikemanz
I'm male and I buy most of them for use with my wife or on me. But she is starting to get into it!!
07/31/2012
Modern^Spank^Anthem Modern^Spank^Anthem
we don't have anything that is only for my husband but we have dual toys and toys just for me
07/31/2012
rockblenny rockblenny
We buy our toys together and have a mix of female, male, and couple toys.
07/31/2012
Woman China Woman China
The majority of my toys are just for me. If I had a partner, and he was an occasional bed mate who wanted toys, I'd let him use the glass, or make him get his own.

There is no way in Hades would I use a toy at a man's house that he bought to use with various women. No matter the material.

I would be more than happy to borrow a toy from another woman who I trusted, but from a man who had toys at his house to use with other women. To me... that is just pushing my comfort limit.

Things like cuffs or nipple clamps I am not including in this, I am talking about insertable toys here.
07/31/2012
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