First time buyer and a virgin.

Contributor: Inci Inci
Hi everyone! I recently joined this site and found the forums, and I'm glad i did.
Some basic info: I'm 19, female, and a virgin.

To put it simply, I'm looking for a insert-able dildo/vibrator. I havent really found anything beyond a guide for first time vibrator users, but i have no clue if there are dangers of virgins inserting anything or whatnot.

I do have a bullet that i bought a about a year ago, and i love using it. But now, I'd like to try something insert-able, since I've never had anything in there(except a finger or two, but not far since I'm scared of my nails causing damage).

So, i want peoples thoughts on what i should look for/buy. Please be a bit detailed, like what materials are ideal, what size is good for a beginner, etc etc.

Thanks for your time!
12/31/2012
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Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
Quote:
Originally posted by Inci
Hi everyone! I recently joined this site and found the forums, and I'm glad i did.
Some basic info: I'm 19, female, and a virgin.

To put it simply, I'm looking for a insert-able dildo/vibrator. I havent really found anything ... more
Every beginner is going to be different. I would look for something on the slim side made of silicone. There really isn't anything harmful about inserting anything vaginally as a vigin. Virgins use toys all the time as well as they insert tampons as well with no issues. You can search at the top on the search bar an see what comes up under beginner vibes. As a beginner it will be a trail an error even as an advanced user myself I still have trial and error with toys.


I try to keep all my toys in the silicone or glass materials but as you being a beginner I would go with silicone since they have some give to them, where as glass does not. I am not sure if any information I have given is going to be helpful for you or not.


Good luck on your adventure into the toy world.
01/01/2013
Contributor: ARPKasso ARPKasso
Quote:
Originally posted by Inci
Hi everyone! I recently joined this site and found the forums, and I'm glad i did.
Some basic info: I'm 19, female, and a virgin.

To put it simply, I'm looking for a insert-able dildo/vibrator. I havent really found anything ... more
I think you should try looking for something small. Try searching Beginner or First Time in the Eden search and it should pick up a few things that may fit your needs. Anything you're interested in check the reviews, sometimes reviewers will note if it's good for beginners or not. Search the forums too, sometimes they might have more information on products good for beginners too.

I'm not sure about any dangers other than not taking it slow, even with a small toy.

A good place to start is Beginner Dildos and here Beginner Vibes

I hope this information helps.
01/01/2013