Friends: Advice Needed

Thanks everyone for the advice, unfortunately, i never got the chance to meet up face to face with her, but to find out she was string me around to think we were still friends calling me texting me. Then I finally get to see this so called pic. I knew it I knew i couldn't have sent him a picture and I didn't, me and my hubby looked at it, my friends boyfriend after i told him what had been going on sent me the picture that she seen, and it really upsets me cuz there is no resemblince none, so i told her that i was asking her man what was going on and letting mine know what had been going on, she got pissed and said she was going to forward it to him an i told her do it and send it to me too, well she told me to stop textin her an said she didn't have it there to do but when she go home she would this was fri and im still waiting. but she also tried to tell me about emails and a video. She actually lied about a lot of the things she said. Im very upset. I thought that i had finally had a great girlfriend, and i think now looking at what went down that she was scared too, cuz im not like these other girls, i care for her and im truely her friend an even tho im really hurt im still here for her i just hope she comes around and realizes that i am a real friend, ill forgive her. less

So its been a couple days and I text her to see if we could talk in person maybe have lunch, she refused to I don't understand why. J, My husband and I all know there's no pictures of me on J phone or email or any video. I'm willing to forgive her. So why cant she just let it go, if she still thinks this pics r me well I don't know what to say than. My husband seen them all an not one was me, so ya B was wrong. I still want to be friends but I guess she doesn't want to have a really good friend; who did anything for B dropped whatever I was doing just to help her stay at her new house till it was dark making sure B house was painted so they could move in, watch her 4 kids any time B or J need me too, Just listened when she just had to get stuff off her chest,called her just to see how her day was and more. I miss my friend an I miss the kids; I get it I've been fucked over by past girlfriends too,she the first good one in 5yrs. I really don't know all I do know is that I want my girlfriend back less

Hi Everyone,
I need some help, I'm going to break it down the best I can. I start with this My hubby and I have been together for 8 yrs thats along time, so every now and then you need to spice things up, so I started leaving him down stairs and going up to our room, puttting somthing sexy on taking a picture and sending it to him with something come up one get this. Well appearently 2 pictures mistakely got sent to my friends boyfriend who I am also friends with. Us four do lots of this together, we have kids the same age. So well call her B and him J. J doesnt say anything to me about the pictures (unknowingly sent to him) and keeps the pictures, Why don't know but I'm pissed also releived in away cuz im embaressed as it it that he seen them. Well B finds these pics. that he keep of me in his email and phone. So she text me and starts playing this game of I know and I want you to know I know. I'm serious lost and confused. Finally she tells me, And Im trying to tell her over an over that I didnt mean for him to get the pictures like why would I ruin 8yrs an their 5yr relationship. She said there was somthing written on the bottom of the pic. that wasnt even on the pic. Im so upset, embaressed, and frustrated.I sent her an 8 page texts, on how sorry I was and how they were never ment for anyone but my hubby. She doesnt want to believe me, she told me when we first started to become friends that she has a hard time trusting women, so her not wanting to beilive me maybe cuz were are getting close an its starting to scare her she is looking for away to stop the friendship I dont know what to do, if anyone can help thanks less