Has your partner ever made excuses during sex? Like trying to "slip" to the wrong hole?
Hell no. There's something very wrong with that. I have had guys do that & I feel it's a complete and total violation of my body and my trust. If I've made it clear I do not want that, that wish should be repsected period. Anything other than accepting that wish is wrong, terribly. And I can say -- you don't accidentally end up putting your penis in someone butt. We've had extremely rough sex where it has slipped and scraped my butt really hard, but you don't accidentally do that. It would be rare.
If my partner had so little respect for me and my body that he would go against my wish, I'd never be with him. I mean, it's kind of borderline rape if you say no and they "accidentally." And what infuriates me is when they think it's cute and funny. Glad my man is better than that.