How to ask someone something...

sweetpea12 sweetpea12
My partner has a really awful haircut and he really likes it. How can I tell him that I want him to fix it without hurting his feelings?
09/07/2012
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That's kind of a tough situation. Telling him that you want them to change something about himself that he likes may end up hurting his feelings anyway. There's not really a way to sugar-coat it.

If you do still want to bring it up, I'd stress the "it looks bad on you" part and leave it at that. Hearing non-critical input may cause him to reconsider how his haircut looks. Outright telling him to get a haircut could make him get defensive and make him think you're controlling.

Either way, whether or not he gets a hair cut is really up to him. I don't know how attached he is to the look, but some people are impervious to being fashion policed.
09/07/2012
Sodom and Gomorrah Sodom and Gomorrah
I would say something like "Fool change your hair style already LOL."
09/08/2012
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Originally posted by Sodom and Gomorrah
I would say something like "Fool change your hair style already LOL."
This. I would either try to make it humorous, or not say anything honestly.
09/08/2012
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