Ladies...Does your partner buy you sex toys without your knowledge? How does that make you feel?

Martiniman Martiniman
I buy my wife all her sex toys, and although most of them are discussed with her, chosen by her or approved by her before I purchase them, I know her well enough to be comfortable surprising her with a toy. Last week I bought her the Key Nyx vibrator as a surprise, and she put it to use immediately, telling me she absolutely loved it, that it was perfect for clitoral stimulation just the way she liked it because of the point at the end of the vibe. That put me on cloud nine and made me very happy that I could bring her such pleasure in the form of a sexy surprise.

That brings me to my questions...Does your partner ever surprise you with a toy purchase? How does that make you feel?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Yes, my partner has surprised me with a toy purchase.
leanright69 , babymario , MissMori , Zandrock , Rory , potstickers , spiced , Kitt Katt , jwitt754 , Kitka
10
No, my partner has not surprised me with a toy purchase.
darthkitt3n , SneakersAndPearls , Rossie , Gracie , shorejen9 , amplified to rock , - Kira - , nikki0668 , deltalima , Eorwyn , Missmarc , babymario , Taylor , Vanille , lainebug , AliMc , Septimus , falalena , *Camoprincess* , ginnyluvspotter , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Mrs.Tee , Robespierrethecat , karenm , Lildrummrgurl7 , angel42539 , Girly Juice , quackbuster , sXeVegan90 , TheirPet , LittleBun91 , Ava , mpfm
33
If yes...I wish they wouldn't do that.
If yes...I'm glad they did that.
leanright69 , babymario , MissMori , Zandrock , Arlinnae , Rory , potstickers , Kitt Katt
8
If no...I wish they would do that.
solitudinarian , darthkitt3n , SneakersAndPearls , Gracie , nikki0668 , AliMc , chicmichiw , Septimus , falalena , *Camoprincess* , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , quackbuster , Ava , mpfm
14
If no...I'm glad they didn't do that.
- Kira - , marmouse , Girly Juice , sXeVegan90
4
WTF! Don't ever do that, I want to pick my own toys.
Rossie , - Kira - , Pastafariette , Girly Juice , sXeVegan90
5
WTF! I'm showing them this poll and hope they take the hint.
nikki0668 , chicmichiw , mshoney5577 , HarlequinBunnie , pinkpottergirl
5
Other (please explain)
Supervixen , shorejen9 , Real or memorex , LoneOokami , spiced , HarlequinBunnie , TheirPet
7
Total votes: 86 (53 voters)
Poll is closed
12/18/2012
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Supervixen Supervixen
Because my guy lives in a country where sex toys are not exactly plentiful, and because I have an account with Eden, I do the sex toy collection. Sometimes he's involved in picking them out; I like him to pick out the toys he'll use to "punish" me or "possess me"--the crop, the flogger, the paddle, the collar...that kind of thing. But I'm usually in charge of the other accessories to the bedroom. I like him to pick out lingerie for me sometimes, but I also like surprising him.

But, if he got the urge to get something for me, I'd be flattered at the thought. I'm not a huge vibrator fan, though. Most of the stuff I get these days are BDSM related, lingerie, and anal toys. He's my favorite thing to play with in the bedroom.
12/18/2012
anonkitty anonkitty
Not seriously involved with anyone at the moment, but it's definitely fun with the right person. =]
12/18/2012
SneakersAndPearls SneakersAndPearls
He never has, and I doubt he ever will, but I wouldn't be offended if he did.
12/18/2012
Rossie Rossie
My husband will not do something like that, and it doesn't bother me at all, because I like to get my own toys.
12/18/2012
shorejen9 shorejen9
My husband doesn't bit we pick everything out together and place our orders together which is the way I like it.
12/18/2012
- Kira - - Kira -
I pick out the toys for both of us. I know what I like more than my husband does, so I'd prefer for me to pick things for me. He's suggested some things before that make me go WTF. I pick stuff out for him sometimes though because I know his preferences pretty well.
12/18/2012
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
I buy my wife all her sex toys, and although most of them are discussed with her, chosen by her or approved by her before I purchase them, I know her well enough to be comfortable surprising her with a toy. Last week I bought her the Key Nyx ... More
No, my partner has not surprised me with a toy purchase.
12/19/2012
babymario babymario
its a great surprise i love it
12/20/2012
Taylor Taylor
I've never had a partner surprise me with a toy or lingerie or anything sexy. I'd be happy if one did though. I like getting presents
12/20/2012
Zandrock Zandrock
I buy them for my girlfriend. Sometimes a surprise, sometimes together. I think she likes the surprises. I also know more about sex toys and have looked around more, so sometimes I grab things she is not even aware exist and gets very excited.
12/20/2012
lainebug lainebug
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
I buy my wife all her sex toys, and although most of them are discussed with her, chosen by her or approved by her before I purchase them, I know her well enough to be comfortable surprising her with a toy. Last week I bought her the Key Nyx ... More
Not yet
12/20/2012
AliMc AliMc
I'm the main sex toy buyer in our relationship. He's probably made about two purchases this past year whereas I'm ordering something pretty much every other week.
12/21/2012
chicmichiw chicmichiw
Lol! I wish and yes I'm going to drop hints now..
12/21/2012
Septimus Septimus
He's paid for some of my toys, but it's always been something that I've picked out, or that we've picked out together.
He's never gotten me anything on my own, but I kind of wish he would. He knows what I like
12/21/2012
Arlinnae Arlinnae
I would really like that - but only if he goes for cheeper toys. Expensive ones should be choosen together, as its not like if you dont like it it can just go to the rubish bin.
But I find te idea of surprise toys very attractive.
12/21/2012
falalena falalena
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
I buy my wife all her sex toys, and although most of them are discussed with her, chosen by her or approved by her before I purchase them, I know her well enough to be comfortable surprising her with a toy. Last week I bought her the Key Nyx ... More
i wish he surprised me occasionally, but i usually surprise him.
12/21/2012
Rory Rory
He has purchased some of my toys with out any help from me. His choices are usually better then mine!!
12/22/2012
mshoney5577 mshoney5577
WTF! I'm showing them this poll and hope they take the hint.
12/22/2012
*Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
No I haven't had a partner purchase toys for me without me choosing them. I had an ex that purchased a few toys for me but I picked them out. I have a partner that I have sent a list of lingerie and toys to for him to pick things he would like to see in the bedroom an I have ordered them. Never though has he ordered anything on a whim. I always send a list of what I want an then I order with my points or GCs
12/23/2012
ginnyluvspotter ginnyluvspotter
He would never do that
12/23/2012
PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I would like mine to do it. I will find out when the time is right.
12/23/2012
Real or memorex Real or memorex
I do not have a partner, but would not mind being surprised with this. The materials and size need to be acceptable, though. No jelly or megadongs.
12/23/2012
Mrs.Tee Mrs.Tee
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
I buy my wife all her sex toys, and although most of them are discussed with her, chosen by her or approved by her before I purchase them, I know her well enough to be comfortable surprising her with a toy. Last week I bought her the Key Nyx ... More
Sounds great. But I hae never had my guy surprise me with an sex toys. I always shop and add to my collection
01/29/2013
Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
I usually get all my own toys, and if my boyfriend gets me one, he asks about it first. That's how I like things! I'd hate for him to get something really nice that just doesn't work for me.
01/29/2013
karenm karenm
I wouldn't want him to, but mostly because I'm picky and he doesn't know what brands and materials I like. It's just easier for me to buy them.
01/30/2013
LoneOokami LoneOokami
I buy my gf toys and she enjoys it
05/10/2013
spiced spiced
I voted for my wife. I'm the only toy buyer in our house. She's not a big fan of toys generally and usually, when I produce a toy I've bought for her, she rolls her eyes and shakes her head at the idea of me using it on her. She doesn't like to use them by herself, either.

BUT — when I can overcome her resistance and actually get her to let me try something on her, she's often very pleased.
05/10/2013
HarlequinBunnie HarlequinBunnie
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
I buy my wife all her sex toys, and although most of them are discussed with her, chosen by her or approved by her before I purchase them, I know her well enough to be comfortable surprising her with a toy. Last week I bought her the Key Nyx ... More
I wasn't surprised because I picked it out and he paid for it. However it was a very nice gift. I have enjoyed it quite a bit!
05/10/2013
Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
My partner hasn't surprised me but he has thought about it. He knows how to navigate Eden and has combed my wishlists to pick some gifts out for me.
05/10/2013
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