ladies:sex toys and tightness?

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am in a serious relationship but I also want a dual action vibrator..will I be less tight if I use diffrent sized sex toys or vibrators in general? I want to feel as good as I do now around my bf..haven't used vibrators.
02/21/2009
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Cinnamon Chambers Cinnamon Chambers
Quote:
Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
am in a serious relationship but I also want a dual action vibrator..will I be less tight if I use diffrent sized sex toys or vibrators in general? I want to feel as good as I do now around my bf..haven't used vibrators.
No. Not at all. If you are having sex, a vibe shouldn't make a difference. If you are worried about it try exercising your pc muscles.
02/21/2009
Sammi Sammi
I haven't noticed too much of a change. I haven't used what you linked to above, but it looks fun.
02/21/2009
Fun Lover Fun Lover
We have use various sized vibes and dildos up to 2 inches in diameter and 10 inches in length and it hasn't seemed to make any difference. Cinnamon's suggestion is a good one.
02/21/2009
kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
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Originally posted by Cinnamon Chambers
No. Not at all. If you are having sex, a vibe shouldn't make a difference. If you are worried about it try exercising your pc muscles.
well I've only slept with one guy,but I heard if a girl sleeps around with a bunch of guys guys notice cuz shes loose or not very tight...Well I actually bought Velvet touch vibrator from this website
02/22/2009
kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
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Originally posted by Cinnamon Chambers
No. Not at all. If you are having sex, a vibe shouldn't make a difference. If you are worried about it try exercising your pc muscles.
oops,heres the link to the one I bought link
02/22/2009
kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
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Originally posted by Sammi
I haven't noticed too much of a change. I haven't used what you linked to above, but it looks fun.
I bought this link cheap with good reviews.
02/22/2009
Epiphora Epiphora
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Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
well I've only slept with one guy,but I heard if a girl sleeps around with a bunch of guys guys notice cuz shes loose or not very tight...Well I actually bought Velvet touch vibrator from this website
That is a myth created to shame women.
02/22/2009
Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
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Originally posted by Epiphora
That is a myth created to shame women.
Agreed.

Your vagina is a muscle that will accommodate all sorts of sizes but it never "stretches." Sure, if you use a big toy and have sex with a smaller guy or toy right after, you'll notice but that's about the extent of it.
02/22/2009
Cinnamon Chambers Cinnamon Chambers
The only times I have noticed a difference was when I lost my virginity, and when hubby is away for more than just a couple months and I don't do a lot of play with penetration. I stand behind exercise though. It is good for more than just added sexual pleasure.
02/22/2009
Sleeping Dreamer Sleeping Dreamer
No, you won't be stretched out from a vibrator of that width nor having sex with various partners. The vagina is one big muscle, even after childbirth it tries to go back to it's natural shape but sometimes needs to be aided with kegel exercises.
02/22/2009
Vexed Vexed
Quote:
Originally posted by Epiphora
That is a myth created to shame women.
I agree. That is a myth created to shame women.

Women should be able to explore sexually and experience being penetrated by a very thick dildo or penis if she so choses. The vagina may need to become more flexible to take in something very thick, but it will not become permanently loose. That is a myth used to control women.

I had a girlfriend that enjoyed being fisted, and she also enjoyed a toy that was 2.25" in diameter. Her vagina felt the same on days when we would have regular sex.
06/27/2010
FAM4LIFE FAM4LIFE
I've stretched myself a lot, and have had regular sex for seven years. I do Kegels regularly and I'm as tight as I've ever been!
07/29/2010
softkkisses softkkisses
i use them and no complainants,
09/10/2010
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
am in a serious relationship but I also want a dual action vibrator..will I be less tight if I use diffrent sized sex toys or vibrators in general? I want to feel as good as I do now around my bf..haven't used vibrators.
No your vagina is a muscle and it is meant to stretch and then contract back to it's prestretched shape. Only after repeated doses of oxytocin and the other chemicals involved with natural childbirth will the vagina muscles permanently stretch. I have had three kids and LOVE large vibes, my gynocologist has to use a small size speculum during my exams because my vagina is tight.
If you really wanna maintain good muscle tone "down there" check out some of the excellent vaginal exercisers available on EF. I personally use the glass Ben Wa balls from Doc Johnson but in all reality a few kegels a day is all that is necessary to maintain good tone. Using a different sized bgger vibe iosn't going to be noticeable to your boyfriend...after using a vibe your vagina engorges and it swells slightly making you feel tighter rather than looser.
09/10/2010
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
well I've only slept with one guy,but I heard if a girl sleeps around with a bunch of guys guys notice cuz shes loose or not very tight...Well I actually bought Velvet touch vibrator from this website
That's a wives tale...it doesn't matter how many guys you sleep with the vagina doesn't permanently stretch from sex alone. Only repeated childbirth with natural vaginal delivery results in any stretch of the vaginal muscles.
09/10/2010
lamira lamira
I don't believe so. I use my vibrators a lot and when I have sex with my partner, I just feel as tight as ever.
10/06/2010
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