I need help from the Eden Community. I have a friend (yes its really a friend) who is a virgin and so is her boyfriend of many years. They want to wait, but still want to be intimate with each other. He isn't sure if he would be comfortable with her using toys though so I was hoping I could get some suggestions for other ways they could be intimate together without going all the way!
Maintaining virginity.
11/07/2012
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They could try oral sex, manual stimulation, mutual masturbation, frottage... there's got to be stuff I'm forgetting. I'm sure some other Edenites will come along and offer more suggestions!
11/07/2012
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I hate to say this but what in the world is frottage?
Originally posted by
indiglo
They could try oral sex, manual stimulation, mutual masturbation, frottage... there's got to be stuff I'm forgetting. I'm sure some other Edenites will come along and offer more suggestions!
11/07/2012
Frottage is just a fancy word for dry humping.
I would just tell them to get comfortable with each other's bodies. Figuring out what each other likes can be just as intimate of an experience, if not more, than traditional sex.
I would just tell them to get comfortable with each other's bodies. Figuring out what each other likes can be just as intimate of an experience, if not more, than traditional sex.
11/10/2012
If she just doesn't want intercourse, they've got literally millions of options
12/16/2012
What kind of toy can they use? Hmm, interesting question.
It really depends on what the consider to be sex vs. intimacy.
For example, to me, oral sex, is sexual intercourse.
So the flavored lube type of toys wouldn't be a good idea.
How about...
Massage oils, for romantic intimacy.
Masterbaters, for watching each other.
Lingerie, for watching as well.
Bath products, sex isn't the only way to be intimate- perhaps being naked together in a calming way could be fun.
It really depends on what the consider to be sex vs. intimacy.
For example, to me, oral sex, is sexual intercourse.
So the flavored lube type of toys wouldn't be a good idea.
How about...
Massage oils, for romantic intimacy.
Masterbaters, for watching each other.
Lingerie, for watching as well.
Bath products, sex isn't the only way to be intimate- perhaps being naked together in a calming way could be fun.
12/16/2012
It'll depend a lot on what they consider is sex though. Oral sex, for some, is considered as semi-intercourse and for others, it's not. If they don't know for sure that they've agreed on the definition, that might be a place to start.
But yes, mutual masturbation, heavy petting, etc...they're all "intimate acts." Maybe it would be a good idea to figure out why he may be uncomfortable with her using a toy and go from there too. If he's worried about, ahem, comparisons, there are still plenty of toys that can circumvent that. =]
But yes, mutual masturbation, heavy petting, etc...they're all "intimate acts." Maybe it would be a good idea to figure out why he may be uncomfortable with her using a toy and go from there too. If he's worried about, ahem, comparisons, there are still plenty of toys that can circumvent that. =]
12/17/2012
If she is using toys and he isn't happy about that maybe he should get one too. Just to add to everyone else's suggestions.
12/24/2012
Handjobs and fingering. Rubbing your cock between her tits or ass cheeks is great too.
12/24/2012
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