Swinging

InnocentISwear InnocentISwear
My husband and I have been swinging for the last few months and really enjoying it.
Have you ever been in an open relationship?
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12/27/2011
Darklyvan Darklyvan
Quote:
Originally posted by InnocentISwear
My husband and I have been swinging for the last few months and really enjoying it.
Have you ever been in an open relationship?
my mind was not home when I read the question. I was thinking threesome not swinging lol
12/27/2011
Nazaress Nazaress
I've never tried it and I really don't want to. My boyfriend is my own. The ONLY exception would possibly be a three-way with another girl because I would be there and I would get to be with a woman. I'm far more into women than men. In fact, I don't want to be with any other man than my boyfriend. The threesome is still just a maybe, though. I'm a little freaked out about the thought of my boyfriend fucking another girl.
12/27/2011
kendra30752 kendra30752
No. Never would either.
12/27/2011
js250 js250
No, never tried it but have questions about it, though.
12/27/2011
Entropy Entropy
Quote:
Originally posted by InnocentISwear
My husband and I have been swinging for the last few months and really enjoying it.
Have you ever been in an open relationship?
Tried it, enjoyed it, got stung by it, yet love it so much that I still give my girlfriend a green light to fuck at will.
12/27/2011
Kallisto Kallisto
It's not appealing to me.
12/27/2011
married with children married with children
not something that sounds like fun to us.
12/28/2011
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
Always seemed more trouble than it's worth.
Jan 16, 11:03 am
babychika babychika
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Originally posted by js250
No, never tried it but have questions about it, though.
What kind of questions? We've tried it and enjoy it from time to time. Its just something extra we do other than the toys, the crazy stuff, and even the sensual intimate things.... We'd be happy to answer anything you got
Jan 16, 11:32 am
Beck Beck
I would like to try it once or twice, but my partner would not.
Jan 16, 12:27 pm
MeliPixie MeliPixie
I am waaayyy too paranoid about STD's and general cleanliness, as well as emotionally not suited, to try swinging or open relationships.
Jan 16, 1:17 pm
Llahsram Llahsram
My wife's more into it than me, but I'm still cool with it.
Jan 16, 1:20 pm
DynamicKitty DynamicKitty
We've done it more than once and still enjoy it from time to time.
Jan 16, 1:32 pm
NicNat NicNat
If I read the question right, are you asking about having sex with another person ? or like a three some ?

Never done it, and never want to try ...
Just thought of my husband having sex with another female would tear me apart, and if i was envovled I would probaly end up beating some one up !
Jan 16, 4:28 pm
Piña Colada Piña Colada
Quote:
Originally posted by InnocentISwear
My husband and I have been swinging for the last few months and really enjoying it.
Have you ever been in an open relationship?
Neveer tried
Jan 16, 9:59 pm
punkstar283 punkstar283
Quote:
Originally posted by InnocentISwear
My husband and I have been swinging for the last few months and really enjoying it.
Have you ever been in an open relationship?
never tried it
Jan 16, 10:11 pm
llellsee llellsee
I've tried it in past relationships and it worked in them relationships, I like having monogamy in this one
Feb 19, 5:28 am
Dreaus Dreaus
My wife and I had been swinging for around 5 years now but lately our swingers parties have been few and far between, so we have been taking a break.
Feb 19, 11:49 am
Positwist Positwist
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Originally posted by llellsee
I've tried it in past relationships and it worked in them relationships, I like having monogamy in this one
I've found myself going back and forth on this, too. Depends on the partner.
Feb 20, 1:11 am
bballard3 bballard3
Quote:
Originally posted by InnocentISwear
My husband and I have been swinging for the last few months and really enjoying it.
Have you ever been in an open relationship?
I couldn't do it. No offense, but I feel like if someone loves me, the sex together should be fulfilling enough for the both of us.
Feb 20, 7:52 am
bballard3 bballard3
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Originally posted by MeliPixie
I am waaayyy too paranoid about STD's and general cleanliness, as well as emotionally not suited, to try swinging or open relationships.
STDs is a good point too!
Feb 20, 7:52 am
xGOLDx xGOLDx
I've done an open relationship before and it was good for a while, but then it become problematic. I think it takes a certain kind of person to handle it, but they can be awesome when it is the right people. But I really don't think a lot of people can handle the issues that will come up.... trust, jealousy, etc.
Feb 22, 9:32 pm
ECU Pirate ECU Pirate
I'm too jealous to swing.
Feb 23, 1:57 am
SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by InnocentISwear
My husband and I have been swinging for the last few months and really enjoying it.
Have you ever been in an open relationship?
me and my better half have a very loving and open relationship
Feb 23, 2:43 am
Loving Boyfriend Loving Boyfriend
I could imagine wanting to do the swinging thing in other relationships but I'm def not willing to share the one I'm with now
Apr 2, 10:06 am
unfulfilled unfulfilled
We would not be interested in this. My good friend told me he has done this before he got married.
Apr 2, 11:38 am
hot n spicey hot n spicey
My husband is totally against it but I would love to try it. I have cheated in the past and prob would again because I am not happy with our sex life. I think swinging brings more to a relationship and would help me enjoy what I already hav. Then again I may be 100% wrong and things would get worse. I would still like to try it.
Apr 2, 11:49 am
Charletnarouh Charletnarouh
I'm not emotionally suited to non-monogamy. Casual sex isn't my thing and I don't have the energy or the time to maintain relationships with more than one person at a time so it would never work. My sister has a very wonderful relationship with two people. They all live and sleep together. They're a committed threesome, no straying outside the "bubble" as they call it. Sometimes I'm jealous of what she has, since she's been with her boyfriend for about 8 years now and, though her girlfriend is a fairly recent addition, about a year, they've just got such a good relationship, all 3 of them, and I haven't found even one person that I'm as good with as she is with both of hers. With the right people, I could probably make something like that work, but I'm not sure I'd ever find those people and I'm not really looking. I'll just be thrilled if I can find one person.
Apr 2, 12:28 pm
SilverMinxxx SilverMinxxx
I'm like Charletnarouh. I'm not emotionally able to do swinging. I wouldn't like to share my partner. I like to know that I'm the only one getting to experience him.
Apr 2, 1:57 pm
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