To toy or not to toy?

Airekah Airekah
So, I have been wondering... I am sure that we all still engage in sexual intimacy with our partners, but since using EF, do any of you ever just keep it old fashioned when masturbating and use your hand/fingers for stimulation? How do you make the decision on what you are in the mood for?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I am a Female and...
121
I am a Male and...
26
I use my toys all the time. I have become too spoiled to use my hand/fingers.
36
I use my toys most of the time, but sometimes I just need my hand/fingers.
61
I never use my hand/fingers, because of my toys.
22
I use my hand/fingers in addition to my toys.
58
Other, and I may explain.
10
Total votes: 334 (153 voters)
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01/18/2011
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~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
I never use fingers/hands (very rarely) but it's not because I have toys, I just prefer that and always have.
01/18/2011
Maiden Maiden
I am a stay at home mom and I have limited time. I use my fingers a lot when I need to be quick, or if I'm just too tired to get out my toys. If I am feeling up to it, I will take out some toys while my son is napping, but his naps have been getting shorter and shorter. I used to have a good two hours or more to play, but now I am lucky to get an hour. While that is plenty of time to get it done, I just find myself wanting to spend this precious time to myself doing other things, like reading in the seldom quiet of a house with a two year old. Still, sometimes I just need more than my fingers can give and for those times I have several strong bullets or vibes to choose from that will do the job quickly and quietly. I would say I use my toys about half the time.
01/18/2011
Epicurean Epicurean
Depends on how serious of a session I want to make it. Also, I live with roommates and have to go through the kitchen to the bathroom in order to clean my toys afterwards, which sometimes just feels like too much of a hassle if I want to get the job done quickly.
01/18/2011
Eliza Eliza
It really depends on what I'm in the mood for and how much time I have. When I have less time, I just use my hands, but when I have more time or want to treat myself, I use my toys.
01/18/2011
Envy Envy
I have to use toys, my hands don't do it for me. My body isn't sensitive enough or anything to do manual stimulation, that's why I never got my first orgasm until 21, when i got a bullet vibe.
01/18/2011
Josh aka FootMan Josh aka FootMan
I don't have a TON of toys but my favorites are my Fleshlight Vibro and my Tenga Fliphole. Ever since getting them I still use the old fashioned hand half the time. The other half is split between the fleshlight and the fliphole.

Jes is the same way, she's about 50/50 with her toys.
01/18/2011
Coralbell Coralbell
I've only actually finished with my hands twice in my life. Before I had toys I really didn't bother masturbating because it was too much work. I still finger myself sometimes, but as far as clit stimulation goes I always use a vibrator. It's so much easier and faster.
01/18/2011
sbon sbon
I definitely use toys more often now, but not always; sometimes both.
01/18/2011
Beth D Beth D
I never use my hands or fingers. I had tried for a while to climax manually and this led me to believe my lady bits were broken. I was 22 when I had my first orgasm, thanks to powerful things that go vroom. Some time after, I was curious to see if I could use my fingers after knowing 'how' to orgasm and it took forever and was very much lacking in intensity. So not worth it; I'll stick to my toys.
01/18/2011
ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
I almost always use my toys. Before I'd ever had any sexual partners, I always used my fingers, and it would take forever, but it was AWESOME. But for some reason, feeling pressured or something maybe, I can not orgasm using my hands if anyone is around. And now, I've become a bit spoiled and don't usually want to work really hard, so I use vibrators when I'm alone, too. The most powerful orgasms I've ever had were with my hands, though. I kind of miss it.
01/18/2011
Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
I like them both. I do enjoy something in my rectum. It isn't a necessity, but rather just a pleasure.
01/20/2011
Mr.RightNow Mr.RightNow
both
02/08/2011
ShadowKitten ShadowKitten
I use toys nearly all the time, I'm definitely becoming spoiled and use anal toys almost always now (I need more I tell you, MORE!). I rarely go completely toyless, even if it's just something like supple nipps on my nipples and mr lefty masturbating and mr righty tweaking the nips
03/28/2011
froggiemoma froggiemoma
use toys almost all of the time
03/28/2011
ichwillwaffels ichwillwaffels
Quote:
Originally posted by Airekah
So, I have been wondering... I am sure that we all still engage in sexual intimacy with our partners, but since using EF, do any of you ever just keep it old fashioned when masturbating and use your hand/fingers for stimulation? How do you make the ... More
Never been a fan of my own hands.
03/28/2011
Joly Joly
Quote:
Originally posted by Airekah
So, I have been wondering... I am sure that we all still engage in sexual intimacy with our partners, but since using EF, do any of you ever just keep it old fashioned when masturbating and use your hand/fingers for stimulation? How do you make the ... More
Just started getting into toys and now I'm like a kid in a candy store.
03/28/2011
Upskirt Upskirt
Quote:
Originally posted by Airekah
So, I have been wondering... I am sure that we all still engage in sexual intimacy with our partners, but since using EF, do any of you ever just keep it old fashioned when masturbating and use your hand/fingers for stimulation? How do you make the ... More
I usually start with fingers, and end with toys. It's weird how I went from not needing vaginal stimulation and needing clitoral, to not being able to orgasm without vaginal.
03/29/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I'm not going to use plain fingers when I have a cabinet full of delicious toys just begging to come out and play.
03/29/2011
sexygoddess sexygoddess
I use my toys sparingly.. only every once in a while..
03/29/2011
toxie m toxie m
I always use my hands, and most of the time toys as well. Clitoral vibration does nothing for me and I much prefer my own fingers there, but I do really like toys for penetration. I can get by using my fingers for penetration if I have to, but it's not as effective just because of the size factor.
03/29/2011
indiglo indiglo
I mostly only use my toys. But I have a gorgeous glass dildo that I love, and when I use that I'll use my fingers to stimulate my clit. Usually it's 100% toys though - for me they're much faster. lol
03/30/2011
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
We don't use toys every time we have sex. We only use them sometimes. If we did it all the time, it wouldn't be something "different" to spice things up, lol.
03/30/2011
teeny <3 teeny <3
I always use toys. My hands are rougher than my bf's. I work with my hands everyday leaving them covered in calluses, blisters and cuts. Manual masturbation for me feels like I'm getting felt up by a lumberjack!
04/05/2011
hornypoet69 hornypoet69
Most of the time its just me and my hand. I break out the dildo every week or two. I need lube, total nudity, not to mention privacy, because I can't do it with my roommate in the house. I'm too vocal for that. All that rigamaroll that I need to go through for anal play makes it happen less than super often. Also because my ass doesn't tell me when it wants attention as much as my penis does, I just don't have the desire for anal play nearly as much.
04/05/2011
Fuck it. Fuck it.
Sometimes my toys can't do things I want them to. Sometimes I feel lazy. Both get used the same amount, really.
04/06/2011
barrettbn2 barrettbn2
I use my toys most
04/09/2011
Beck Beck
Toys are the shit! I use mine all the time.
08/16/2011
bayosgirl bayosgirl
I enjoy my toys, but I still need to use my fingers to finish myself off.
08/17/2011
Kkay Kkay
I sometimes use fingers with toys. Overall fingers can make me feel bruised with the amount of stim I need and the orgasms are lesser, so I don't really go for pure-hand orgasms.
08/17/2011
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