I almost always use my toys. Before I'd ever had any sexual partners, I always used my fingers, and it would take forever, but it was AWESOME. But for some reason, feeling pressured or something maybe, I can not orgasm using my hands if anyone is around. And now, I've become a bit spoiled and don't usually want to work really hard, so I use vibrators when I'm alone, too. The most powerful orgasms I've ever had were with my hands, though. I kind of miss it.