When do you think is the proper stage of a relationship to incorporate sex toys?

Contributor: Sublime Sublime
Like other people have mentioned, I feel the earlier the better. Doesn't have to be the first time, but it is important to mention that you like toys incorporated in sex.
12/05/2011
Contributor: Maiden Maiden
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Originally posted by js250
Maybe not the first time you have sex, but if you are into toys, you might want to bring it up in the beginning. Otherwise how do you know about your compatability with your partner?
I second this. The very first time might be a little awkward, but I would incorporate them very early on. It's also a conversation you can have before even the first time.
12/05/2011
Contributor: Caprieclipse Caprieclipse
ASAP, you should be upfront, its fun and its part of who your are and your sexual style!
12/06/2011
Contributor: Lady Hazel Lady Hazel
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Originally posted by DiscretionAdvised
Me and my wife have had a few sex toys in play since we started having sex. What do you think is the appropriate point to suggest toy play?
Yeah.. when you have a new partner, everything about sex with them is exciting and nerve wrecking all at the same time. Enjoy it!!! Then once you loose all that excitement, you can spice it with some toys!!!
01/14/2012
Contributor: Silverdrop Silverdrop
To me, toys are just there. I wouldn't wonder when I should introduce the idea of pillows or candles or lingerie. If I'm comfortable enough with a man to let him into my bed, I'm comfortable enough to let him peer in my Naughty Drawer.
01/14/2012
Contributor: kawigrl kawigrl
asap best to discuss it early
01/14/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
Why not incorporate them as soon as sex is in the picture?
01/15/2012
Contributor: GONE! GONE!
They're fun so, why not have them from the beginning?
01/15/2012
Contributor: ksparkles16 ksparkles16
I definitely agree with other posters not the first time you have sex, but definitely once you are comfortable with one another
01/15/2012
Contributor: Entropy Entropy
I voted on beginning, but really it depends on your partner. Some toys might scare someone off if introduced too soon.
01/15/2012
Contributor: 131231e43 131231e43
As soon as you're having sex? Or doing anything sexual?
01/15/2012
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
Any stage is the right stage!
02/11/2012
Contributor: Lizzy Lizzy
5 minutes after you meet them
02/11/2012
Contributor: Harpina is gone Harpina is gone
Any time is alright! They're fun
03/25/2012
Contributor: charletnarouh charletnarouh
I generally don't like to include toys the first time I'm with someone. I like the first time to be organic. But they come up in discussion really early on because I want to make sure they other person is open to the things I like. But I definitely agree that the answers available in this poll were wayyyy too limiting. I don't think toys are something you use when things get stale or a last ditch effort. I think they're something some people just enjoy in their sex lives. Some people already know from past experience they like them and/or they can be a fun thing to explore with a partner, whether you're trying something neither of you has tried or one of you is guiding/coaxing/teachi ng the other, or just enjoying something you already know you like.
03/25/2012
Contributor: Djiffy Djiffy
I think they're great from start to end. They provide variety and, let's face it, help women achieve orgasms much more easily than a penis alone.
03/25/2012
Contributor: Lady Hazel Lady Hazel
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Originally posted by DiscretionAdvised
Me and my wife have had a few sex toys in play since we started having sex. What do you think is the appropriate point to suggest toy play?
As soon as you feel comfortable enough to breech the topic.
03/25/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Originally posted by DiscretionAdvised
Me and my wife have had a few sex toys in play since we started having sex. What do you think is the appropriate point to suggest toy play?
From the beginning!
03/26/2012
Contributor: Taz Demann Taz Demann
My wife was very naive about sex toys when we first started dating (that has since changed). I bought her her first dildo. She didn't know what to think at first until I used it on her. That opened the flood gates! Now she has quite the collection and becomes excited and looks forward to the use of dildos in our love making.
09/08/2018