I'll have to ask
When would your PARTNER say "Thats too many!"
03/22/2012
Allow people to be who they are.
03/22/2012
I don't think he really cares how many toys I have.
03/23/2012
My wife has been saying we have too many for 10 years - I keep buying new ones and she keeps loving them. We have discarded more than we currently use on a regular basis.
03/23/2012
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So far, he hasn't said this yet. I think he will be fine with as many as I have.
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
When would your partner say you have too many toys?
03/23/2012
When I run out of places for them, maybe. He'd be more concerned about them staying away from the eyes of guests more than anything else.
03/23/2012
Maybe over 20...I think I only need a few of the ones that get the job done and do it well.
03/23/2012
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Ha! Like it's up to HIM how many toys I own. He's not my dad and I would flip if he really got serious and told me I had "too many." They're mine just like any other belonging. It's not up to him what I own and how much of it I own. However, he's always happy to be involved! We really only use them together and he enjoys it and gets just as excited as I do
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
When would your partner say you have too many toys?
03/23/2012
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I don't think she would.
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
When would your partner say you have too many toys?
03/23/2012
My partner owns more toys than I do, they'd be crazy to tell me I have too many.
03/23/2012
Just when the physical space becomes an issue
03/23/2012
Infinite toys for everyone!
03/23/2012
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That's about our limits as well, although I think you may have more toys than I do
Originally posted by
- Kira -
My husband says so long as I keep them contained and organized, he has no issues. When my storage starts to get full and boxes clutter around the bedroom, he complains. So then I just buy new storage and all is well again. I have close to 200
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My husband says so long as I keep them contained and organized, he has no issues. When my storage starts to get full and boxes clutter around the bedroom, he complains. So then I just buy new storage and all is well again. I have close to 200 toys, for what it's worth.
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03/23/2012
i dont think shed ever care
03/25/2012
I'm not sure. Probably after 20 if he or I am paying for them. If I could get any sex toy free, then infinite! XD
03/25/2012
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Neither of mine care much but they did get a bit more grouchy when I hit the 100 mark simply because of the lack of storage space and the fact that we have a toddler in the house. Otherwise they are sort of perversely proud of my collection and the knowledge I have gotten here about the toys. They love that I remember all of their names and can give a detailed description of them all!
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
When would your partner say you have too many toys?
My playmates love it as well because I am very likely to hand them a toy if they admit to wanting one but are unsure about what to buy.
03/25/2012
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Heh mine too and both guys seem overjoyed about the lingerie! I have created monsters of men who insisted that lingerie only gets in the way...to be fair to them they did admit that I act totally different when I wear lingerie so that is more than likely the real reason they like it so much.
Originally posted by
Sunshineamine
I have a decent amount, my lingerie collections seems to be growing more quickly at this point than my toy collection, but I have not had a single complaint from my boyfriend and doubt that I will hear one.
03/25/2012
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You know later in life as he mellows and realizes that you aren't replacing him with toys he'll actually be grateful you didn't cave in and give him what he thinks he wants. Then again some guys never reach that level of maturity...at any rate keep on toying and let him grouch in the corner if he has to!
Originally posted by
unfulfilled
Exactly. He knows I have them, we've set bounderies. I know that he doesn't want REALISTIC penis types to be used so I find things that I think will work for me but he won't get disturbed TOO much over. He'd PREFER if I didn't
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Exactly. He knows I have them, we've set bounderies. I know that he doesn't want REALISTIC penis types to be used so I find things that I think will work for me but he won't get disturbed TOO much over. He'd PREFER if I didn't have any, but that's just not going to happen.
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03/25/2012
Well, two partners: one is disappointed with the limited options of my large collection, the other can't understand why I'd have more than one dildo, soo....
03/25/2012
I don't think it's so much a specific number as it would be when I run out of space and places to hide them. Pretty much when I start losing track!
03/25/2012
My partner/Dom actually told me this last week. I'm not allowed to buy any more lingerie or toys for awhile now unless they are assigned for reviews. I'm kind of sad about it, but to be fair I DO have a lot of them. I'm hoping once I get my collection downsized a little bit he will let me start buying some more of them again.
03/25/2012
Never too many or at least he doesn't say anything. lol.
03/25/2012
My boyfriend says that sometimes i should weed out my toy weaklings, but I have no numeric limit.
03/25/2012
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i'm sure they would think it was a little obsessive, but they wouldn't really care
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
When would your partner say you have too many toys?
04/14/2012
My wife says "thats enough" now!!
04/14/2012
Sometimes she will say, do we really need another toy? And I say yes. She usually sees my point.
04/14/2012
I'm usually the one who makes the purchases, he could really care less about getting more toys. But I think once it becomes a hassle to store them, then it would become an issue.
I honestly don't see the point in having so many toys that you can't use them all regularly. It seems a bit unreasonable to me.
I honestly don't see the point in having so many toys that you can't use them all regularly. It seems a bit unreasonable to me.
04/14/2012
he seems to think that one would be more than enough, "they can't be all that different"
I told him one computer should be more than enough, that stopped that argument
I told him one computer should be more than enough, that stopped that argument
04/15/2012
So long as we don't wind up having a bunch of toys so similar in look and performance that they're almost identical (he probably wouldn't see the point in having more than one of an item unless they have a reasonable amount of difference) then he wouldn't really mind if we have room for them. ^_^
04/15/2012
The wife has not said a word, she just shakes her head when a package arrives. She gets to enjoy some of them so I think that keeps her happy.
I guess when I run out of toys storage space she might say something, thankfully I have a two car garage I can use if needed.
I guess when I run out of toys storage space she might say something, thankfully I have a two car garage I can use if needed.
04/15/2012