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This is everything I was thinking.
Same here. What I'm wondering is if the problem is just that he feels like you won't need him or he's not good enough. He might have a past that has influenced certain insecurities. Unfortunately, I speak from experience. I'd rather not go into my experience, but I think you two should definitely have a talk.
The most important thing is to let him come to talk to you in his own time, though, without any pressure. Just tell him that his objection to masturbation has you a little upset, and you'd like to know why his opinion on it is like that, but whenever he feels comfortable telling you, and just drop it at that. That was he knows you respect his feelings and, hopefully, he'll come talk to you about it soon.