We've all heard the myth of the "vibrator miracle" where women who have never had an orgasm pick up a vibrator and have an earth-shaking climax the very first time they use one. It does happen, but not for every woman the first time. Sometimes you need to know a little more to get your sexual core to blossom.
Toys Aren't Always the Answer
Here's the truth, despite what manufacturers or the vibrator miracle women say, sex toys aren't for everybody. Jocelyn Saurini explains, some people don't like the feel of them or the sensation of the vibrations, while others really desire the intimacy of being with a partner to truly experience their sexuality. Some people are turned off by the shape, texture or sound of a sex toy, while others find that using a toy, whether alone or with a partner, affects their natural sexual flow too much to be erotic. Still other people have grown up being told that sex toys are "bad," and just can't get beyond that mode of thinking. Many people just don't like sex toys. It doesn't make you less sexual; it just makes toys not your thing. However, the flip side of the coin is that sex toys do work for millions of people, so there is a tremendous appeal to trying out a vibrator sex toy and seeing if you will be the next vibrator miracle.
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Try Different Toys
If you look at the countless websites advertising sex toy sales, you have seen that there are hundreds of sex toys to select from. If you don't like brussel sprouts, it doesn't mean that you don't like all vegetables, sex toys go by the same concept: having bad results with one sextoy doesn't mean you'll hate them all. Everyone has different ways they like to be stimulated, touched or aroused, for example, millions of women say the Rabbit Pearl does it for them, but others swear by the Hitachi Magic Wand. The only downside to sex toys is that you may have to try three or four different sex toys until you figure out what makes you tick.
Here's the most important thing to remember: whether you're flying solo or with a partner, sex toys, no matter how great they are, are only one part of sex. Your mental state, physical health, other needs, emotions, intimacy, the temperature of the room... all of these things need to be conducive to your sexual state for the Rabbit Pearl or any other toy to become your new bedside favorite. Don't be disappointed if you're not the miracle vibrator woman, adjust the settings, the environment and maybe even the sex toy to make it right for you!  |
