Love pacifier advanced - sex toy by Cal Exotics - review by BenEatsSauerkraut

This was my first legitimate sex toy purchase. Upon purchasing it, i immediately tried it out. It being my first anal toy, it was not the most user friendly due to it's moderate diameter and especially thin neck (that flops around like a whiskey dick). Once it is in with plenty of lube it feels plenty "natural." Nothing spectacular, but definitely noticeable. The little handle loop is perfect for some tugging/rotating/etc manipulation that while limited, is more than enough to mess around with for a novice. The design is great in that it provides a firm, full feeling in the anal cavity without stretching out your muscles too much -- so once removed, it doesn't feel like anything is overly stressed out. It provides a nice amount of pressure on the inside of the anus.

Although i've had this for over a year, i still use it occasionally with renewed respect for the simple, yet effective toy. Very recently was the first time that i've introduce the toy, and anal/sex toys in general to my girlfriend (i've had the toy almost longer than my girlfriend -- about 2 years vs. 1.2 years!). We have had anal sex before, so the concept wasn't too weird or intimidating. Since she is a relative anal novice, i took time and warmed her up with a few fingers. After that, the toy easily went into her. She enjoyed having it in her while i fucked her/she fucked me. After she had it in her for a while i told her to put it in me -- and wow! Having your partner put it in you, and having it in while having intercourse is nothing like using it solo! I was so aroused that i could barely manage to keep myself from coming long enough to properly screw her! +++!

Potentially due to her not being use to anal play as much as me, the plug popped out a few times during sex, but it was easy enough to pop it back in without being to distracting.

The next day she texted me saying she was thinking about me a lot that day. I'll take this as a sign that the toy was an extremely welcome addition.


I bought the toy because it was simple and a nice intro, and i received what i knew i was paying for.

When the head is inside you, the firm material is perfect -- it keeps its shape and rubs against the right parts.

The neck is small, which i like for the comfort, but the material is too bendy which makes insertion somewhat problematic/not as easy as it could be.

I always use condoms on it. I don't know if smell goes through condoms, but it always seems to smell for a short period after removing the condom.

I don't have too much to compare the material to, but i feel that it is pretty decent quality and suites me fine.

The design is great in its simplicity and compactness. It is not extremely versatile but it does what it does very well.

The major flaw is the small neck that makes insertion potentially difficult if you are not primed for the 1.5 in. head. The flexibility of the loopy handle makes it possible to sit on w/o discomfort. The firmness of the head is great because it does not mush once inside you and gives good feedback/pressure.

The intense transition from the tip, to the widest part of the bulb, to the neck is something that can be appreciated compared to a more tapered, traditional/generic looking butt plug. It's kind of cool when inserting to have it quickly sucked into you once you get past the width of the head.

To reiterate: potentially difficult to insert if not primed, but once in it does it's job fantastically. A simple butt plug, not designed for thrusting, but for giving a decent fullness feeling and something to tug on during sex.

Although it popped out of my girlfriend during sex, this has less to do with the design and more to do with her. The head to neck ratio is pretty large, especially compared to most butt plugs. Further, the shape is pretty good at preventing it from popping out.

Oh, it works decently for extended wear, despite the little loopy handle. The handle actually provides more stimulation when sat on. Just wear thicker pants for it not to be visible.

I always use condoms on the toy so i do not have to wash it often. It does not seem to collect dust or anything like that. Since i use condoms, lube is not really an issue. The lube on lubricated condoms does not seem to affect the toy.

I purchased this from a local store and it did not really have any packaging except a small tag, which i appreciated!

I definitely recommend this product -- if you understand and appreciate it's limited but well played characteristics. For beginners, i might recommend the non-advanced version. I went with the larger one because at the time of purchase i knew it might be a little large, but that i would want the extra size eventually. And since i'm usually on a budget, i couldn't afford both.

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