Bend over beginner harness kit - harness and dildo set by Tantus - review by ellieprobable

The Bend Over Beginner Harness Kit is used for beginner strap-on sex. While it could be used for anal or vaginal penetration, the dildos included are smaller and designed for easing a partner into anal penetration. The harness is simple but well-constructed, and will not be confusing for beginners to wear or adjust. The bullet vibrator is a nice addition in this kit and shows how well thought-out it is. It can be used separate from the other items or along-side them as intended. Even someone that did not own toys before this would have a very functional set of play things after investing in the Bend Over Beginner Kit.

The harness is constructed of fabric with adjustable nylon straps. The harness portion is a velvety polyester fabric that feels nice and cleans up easily. There is a padding layer inside that adds to the comfort of it. The dildos are both 100% medical grade silicone. They are flexible but still made of a dense silicone that does not depress easily under gentle touch. The harness also comes with an additional O-ring to accommodate the different sized flared bases of the dildos. The bullet vibe is standard and made out of shiny silver plastic.

This is a simple harness. However, some good thought was put into it. The vibrator pocket may not line up with the anatomy of all users, but it was thoughtful to be included at all. The straps are easy to adjust. The O-rings attach via metal snaps on the straps going into the body of the harness. They are easy to attach and will accommodate any toy with a flared base that is designed to be O-ring compatible. Any Tantus dildo should work well.

Any user will find that the straps are very lengthy once tightened down. If you don't like lots of spare straps, consider cutting them and burning the ends with a lighter so that they do not unravel. Ultimately, though, this will accommodate many body sizes which is quite heartening. The straps do not sit uncomfortably and they stayed in place well. This is a harness that you have to really tighten down, though, so don't be shy about it digging into your love handles.

The dildos included are sized well for beginners. I suggest trying them first without the harness before attempting strap-on sex with them. The smallest one is not much bigger than a finger, and the medium one goes up from there.

I did not have any issues with losing my toys while playing with this harness. The smallest dido can feel a bit anticlimactic while wearing it. However, if your partner enjoys it, great! I used this for rear entry sex, missionary, as well as allowing my partner to ride me while wearing the harness. All worked very well. Positions where the receiving partner is in control are some of the best for anal sex beginners, so I would suggest using it in this way to start.

The harness can be washed on gentle in the washing machine. Because of the nylon components, I chose to air dry it but tumble drying on low or no heat may work just fine. I mostly didn't want to have to untangle the straps. It dried quite quickly when hung to dry. I store it in a small fabric bag, folded neatly.

The included dildos are 100% silicone, so they can be cared for easily and can be entirely sterilized. Wash them with warm water and soap, or toy cleaner. Sterilize them by boiling for 3-5 minutes or applying a 10% bleach solution. Do not use silicone lubes with these toys. Do use lots of lubes for anal play, though. Just invest in a good, thick, water-based lube to get started.

The toy kit comes packaged in a clear plastic box. It is not particularly sturdy nor a great use of space for efficient storage. Most people will prefer to store the toy in another manner. The package does include basic care information about the items included.