Sedeux please - strap-on dildo discontinued by Sportsheets - review by DigitalSweety

If you're looking for a good anal starter dildo, this little thing is pretty much perfect. I bought this dildo specifically to use as an anal dildo after experimenting with butt-plugs for a little while. I wanted something that offered a little more "thrust" without being gigantic, and it is exactly the right shape and size.

It doesn't offer much for me vaginally - the size and shape just don't do much. I have better, girthier dildos with more texture to them that do the job far better. I haven't tried it with double penetration, but it is small enough and has enough give to it that I will probably give it a try at some point.

One of the reasons I selected this dildo over others is because of the material - pure silicone. I wanted something that was super safe and easy to sterilize. It has more "give" than I expected from pure silicone, which is a good thing. It's nice and cushy and won't poke your butt, and it's especially good for beginners because the flexibility and give make for fewer accidental "ouch" moments.

The material is super silky and smooth and slides right in. It has no odor right out of the box, but it will pick up the odor of whatever you wash it with. It also seems to attract lint and hair. Right after I had removed it from the packaging and cleaned it, it was already covered in lint.

The size is perfect for someone who is just starting with anal dildos. It is about as big around as my smallest butt plug, I would say as thick around as about 2 of my fingers held together. It's short enough to insert all the way up to the flared base without any discomfort. The base is good for keeping it from getting lost in your anal cavity, but it really has no suction to it so don't expect to ride it that way. I have not tried using it in a harness, so I can't say how well it works in one. I wasn't interested in harnesses until getting this, but now I'm thinking about giving one a try.

The tip is pretty blunt, which made me worried about insertion because I am a super-newbie, but it was very easy to insert after warming up with a small butt-plug. It has slight ridges which, in addition to offering pleasurable stimulation, seem to help your sphincter get a grip on it and suck it in.

It looks "plain" in the photos but in person the material has a slight pearlescent sheen that I find attractive. It is not discreet at all - anybody who sees this is going to know that this is probably something intended to stick up your butt.

It's not a vibrator but the material transmits vibrations pretty well if you hold a vibrator up to the base or insert a g-spot vibe. On its own, it didn't do very much for my g-spot, though. It's not that great vaginally because it's just too small and the wrong shape. It's also pretty good as a butt plug, although it tends to slip out. I honestly enjoyed it the most just using it as an old-fashioned anal dildo. It is extremely comfortable - silky smooth and no rough edges or "burn".

Since it's pure silicone, it's super easy to take care of. Spray it with toy cleaner and wash it with antibacterial soap, boil it, or throw it in the dishwasher. Because it's silicone, it needs to be used with water-based lube, and because it picks up so much lint you probably will want to clean or at least rinse it right before using it. I would suggest storing it in something like a ziploc bag because it really is such a lint-magnet. Unless you LIKE your dildos to be fuzzy, anyway. I just put it in a ziploc bag and hide it in my dresser.

The toy came packaged in plastic bubble packaging. It is not discreet. It is obviously a dildo - there is no question about it. It is prominently displayed both on the packaging picture and through the clear plastic bubble. It did not come with a storage pouch or anything to store it in. The packaging was easy to open and is recyclable, although you may want to bury it pretty far down in your recycle bin.

I am so happy that I purchased this toy as my first anal dildo. I could see a first-time experience being absolutely horrible with the wrong toy, and this toy made it very comfortable and enjoyable for me.

The first time I used this toy, I made sure I was aroused enough to make anal sex comfortable in the first place. I warmed up with a small butt plug and plenty of lube, and once I felt comfortable enough with the idea, I inserted the toy.

The smoothness and give of the toy made it very comfortable to insert. Rather than the slow and frustrating first-time experience I had with my last set of butt-plugs, once I began to insert it this toy slid right in. It was like my butt was happy to have it there. It slid in and out comfortably and easily. The squishiness and flexibility of the toy made me far less nervous about accidentally poking myself, so I was able to actually enjoy it.

I have only used this dildo solo and have not tried it with a partner yet, although I would definitely be willing to. Hopefully, they'll enjoy it as much as I do.