Pleasant supriseI chose this toy out of curiosity and because my partner and I have limited experience in this area. I do not have anything to compare the men's pleasure wand to so I am not sure how it compares in the world of prostate massagers. However, we were very pleased and are incorporating this regularly. I think it is well worth the money. I would suggest it be marketed with more uses than just for him.
The toy isn't discreet but will travel well.
There is a loop on the end which we found useful during intercourse. Lube can make things messy and slippery and we found it convenient to hold onto and position it easier.
The sound itself was almost inaudible, probably due to being inserted in the middle of the rubber. But the power was not all hindered. Vibrations ranged from mild to intense (there are 4 settings).