Ryder by Tantus

I have bought a number of buttplugs (you could call it my bread and butter for sex toys). But I bought this toy a with the intention of trying a new field of anal play for me; Extended wear play. I wanted to take my kink on the road and walk around with a toy on, just to try something new.

I had tried this act before, with the smaller Tulip by Tantus and found that it was not really great for this use. I found that while that toy has a good feel the base had corners that dig into my cheeks when walking around. Not fun.

I wanted to give this a try because it had the features that I thought would make a good wear in toy. Its not too large, but its not going to fall out on you. But most importantly is that its base fits comfortable between cheeks. This Is key, because while you don't want a toy to get pulled in, the base has to sit comfortably outside as well. It has a narrow base that makes this certainly more comfortable for extended wear.

So, I lubed it up with my favorite water-based lube and gave it a go. For newbies, this maybe a little odd at insertion, go slow if your new. I found it went in easily, had a pleasant fullness feel, but it wasn't the most exciting thing to play with. Well, thats what I thought until I walked out with it. All of a sudden there was a whole new side of appeal in its feel. I was wonderful in how it made me aware of little things. Walking down the stairs of my apartment, as it wiggled around from side to side; how it felt in my car as I drove around. Going over the slightest bump was all of a sudden really exciting.

I actually didn't go very far the first time I took it out, I just drove around for a bit before I felt a need for me to finish the job back at home. I went back and just laid out on my bed and played with my cock until I lost it. It was a new, really hot experience. Since then, I've taken it around, and yet never too long because I find it really arousing.

I still use the Ryder by Tantus if I just want to watch some porn jerk one out and if i want to wear it around, but otherwise it stays as a warm up for bigger boys.