Sedeux please - strap-on dildo discontinued by Sportsheets - review by GatorDood

The Sedeux Please Strap-On Dildo is a wonderful dildo for anal use. It is a little on the small side (about 7/8" in diameter), so it is perfect for the anal newcomer -- although more experienced users should still enjoy using the Please. We have not yet tried the Please vaginally, but I suspect it will be too small for all but the most inexperienced of beginners.

While the Please is made to be used with a harness, it can be used solo. It can even be made hands free, with a little bit of DIY engineering.

The Please is made of completely smooth, seam free silicone, and it's a 'metallic' purple color. It has a soft but not plush feel, and the unit is firm, yet it's not floppy. There is some give to the Please, but I would not call it flexible. These properties allow the Please to be inserted fuss free, and without discomfort -- a major plus when using it anally.

I could detect no discernible odor with the Please.

I loved the design of the Please. It is about the size and shape of a supermarket hot dog, being 4.5" insertable length, and 7/8" diameter. It has a gently arcing shaft, and a flared base, The base is both O-Ring compatible, and safe for anal use without a harness.

The Please's curved design is a close approximation of the natural curve of a penis, and the overall impression/appearance is that of a simplified penis -- no head, veins, etc. I would not call it discreet, as there is really no mistaking the intended use of the Please.

The Please is on the small side, especially in diameter, and it is probably best for anal beginners. As I mentioned earlier, I doubt if it would be that effective when used vaginally.

Despite being somewhat on the small side, the Please is a big hit for anal use. The smooth silicone glides easily when properly lubed, helping to minimize any discomfort-inducing friction. The Please has a firm-but-not-rigid feel, similar to an actual erect penis -- making initial insertion relatively easy, without the struggle that's found with many 'floppier' toys. Together, the firmness and smooth texture allow for realistic penetration and thrusting. The silicone does seem to shed liquids rapidly, so it is imperative to use plenty of lube.

I have not used the Please in a traditional harness. I did buy a 1.5" steel ring and some Velcro strapping, so I could build a DIY hands free rig. The Please worked perfectly in this set-up, so I would expect it to be a stellar performer with a traditional harness.

Since it is made of silicone, the Please should be used with a water-based lube to avoid any possibility of damage. The silicone construction also makes clean-up a breeze; warm water and soap, let it dry, and you're done. Although I have not done so, it can be boiled, bleached, or put in the dishwasher if you like.

I store the Please in our toy box with our other toys, and have not run into any compatibility issues. It does not seem to attract lint. It seems to shed water quickly, so there is no long drying time before it is ready to be put away.

The Please arrived in a a clear plastic clamshell with the dildo clearly visible. The label plainly states "Please Flared Base Dildo". There's not much to the imagination there. The packaging is a throwaway, without much use for storage There was a paper insert, but there were not really any directions for care or use.

The Sedeux Please would be a great addition to the tool kit of anyone who is interested in anal play; especially someone just starting out. I question whether it would be satisfactory for vaginal use, but I have no first hand experience with that.