Blushing Beginners

Blushing XOXO paddle is especially great for beginners as it doesn't pack a heavy punch and could be a great warm up paddle for more advanced players.
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Pros:
Great for beginners
Doesn't leave a severe mark (if you like that sort of thing)
Cons:
Handle could be too short for some
Heavy players may like a harder paddle
Rating by reviewer:
5
useful review
I bought this a couple of years ago and it's still a sentimental favorite of mine. In fact, it was mine and my husband's very first experience in using a paddle. While it's definitely not for more advanced players, this paddle is great for beginners who are just starting out. Sometimes when starting out with this kind of play, one or more partners can be afraid of how to wield the paddle or how much pressure to apply in spanking, etc. With this paddle, that is certainly not an issue! My husband was a bit nervous at first, but once he discovered it was near impossible to hurt me with this, his nerves were just fine. The blows from this paddle come down much softer than a heavier paddle and to my initial dismay, I was never able to get the XOXO to come off on my skin. We had a perfect first experience with this product and I would buy it all over again!

Even when my husband swings his hardest, it doesn't hurt much and it always leaves me begging for more. I think that's what makes this a great warm up toy as well. I now like my paddles and toys to pack a bit more punch and while I can't handle the level of pain a cane would give, I always find this one at the lowest pain level.

The handle could be longer, but other than that, I find the length to be a good compromise from other paddles. The paddle itself could also be heavier to pack some more punch, but if it did, then it may not be good for beginners anymore. All in all, I would definitely recommed this paddle for beginners and even for advanced players who like a softer warm up.
Follow-up commentary
I've decided to go ahead and write my follow-up since I've had this for a while and I still use it. It's still a beloved warm up toy and I'll probably hang on to it for quite some time! I still don't recommend it for advanced users as it will be too light but perfect for beginners or intermediates.
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My Blush xoxo paddle tags
  • Who / How / What
    [ ? ]
    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Anyone
    • Light play
    • Spanking
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Anywhere
    • Bedroom / on a bed
    • Play party
  • Features
    [ ? ]
    What kind of features does this product offer?
    • Travel friendly
  • Body / part areas
    [ ? ]
    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Breasts
    • Buttocks
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  • mpfm
    mpfm  
    Thanks for the review and Welcome to Eden's.
  • Zandrock
    Zandrock  
    Thanks for the review. I would suggest looking at the mentor program or the advanced template for your next review. People like to know a few additional things in their reviews. Like what is the material made of, how do you care and clean the toy. But a nice first review
  • Mikemanz
    Mikemanz  
    Good review - we're just getting into this kind of play and it's nice to hear from someone with experience about a good beginner's paddle

  • Loriandhubby
    Loriandhubby  
    Thank you so much for shaing your experiance. Congrats on your first review. Welcome to Eden
  • Terri69
    Terri69  
    Thanks for the great review!
  • Ms. Summer
    Ms. Summer  
    Thanks for the review.
  • melissa1973
    melissa1973  
    Great review and welcome to Eden.
  • Geogeo
    Geogeo  
    Thanks, I think Ill pass on this one, seems too light for me.
  • skeeterlynn
    skeeterlynn  
    Thank you
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    xjonxthexgreenx  
    oops....ignore that...thanks for the review
  • ginainohio
    ginainohio  
    good review
  • Abombadong
    Abombadong  
    Thanks for the review
  • hawaiian chick
    hawaiian chick  
    Thanks for the great review!
  • lzee
    lzee  
    Thanks, great review!
  • Huff
    Huff  
    Great review, thanks
  • Toy Fiend
    Toy Fiend  
    Thanks for reviewing!
  • happywaffle34
    happywaffle34  
    This was a helpful review. My boyfriend wants to explore with a paddle but is still too hesitant because he doesn't want to end up hurting me. This seems like a good starter. Thanks for the review.
  • deltalima
    deltalima  
    Thanks for sharing
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